am I the only one not sending dick pics?
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My CF starts telling me about some of the guys she used to date, and her kid’s father, and how they are all trying to hook up with all of her stripper friends. It seems their MO is to get their number or snapchat ID and immediately send them a dick pic. Which from what I gathered from the CF is something they NEVER want, and if anything is seen as a joke where they make fun of the guy. She said snapchat has made it a thousand times worse because you can only view it twice, and you are notified if you screenshot it. The guys must feel like, what's the worst that can happen, I guess. I've literally seen waitresses at a Twin Peaks have 5 or 6 other girls gather around her to replay a picture and all the girls either laughed or said eeeewww. The CF told me she screenshotted a guy onetime and the he responded, along the lines of "oh, you like that huh?" to which she responded, "no, I just wanted to forward it to your girlfriend, so she knows what a piece of shit you are"
Now I LOVE the nude texts and nude snapchat pics and videos the ladies send me. LOVE THEM!!! Every once in a while, I know they are personalized just for me. (Granted, she could be personalizing 50 of these and sending them out) But to me (no homo) the female body is thousands of times more attractive than the male body. I can't think of any part of an attractive woman's body that if she sent me a photo, I wouldn't think it's attractive. Me on the other hand, I don't think I've ever looked at my own dick and thought: I need to send a picture of this to someone asap. That is one good looking dick, I should take a picture of it, and send it to this girl I just met. You know, with the lighting just right, it looks huge, say cheese.
I've never thought any of those things. Now in the throes of passion I might make the random "you like that cock don't you" comment or something along those lines. But when it's inside of a woman, it seems like a given that she's enjoying it, so I feel like those comments are more appropriate.
Anyway, am I the only guy that isn't sending dick pics? If you are a guy that send them out, what's your thinking around it. Do you feel like that improves your odds of hooking up with her later? Do you think your dick is unique enough or just so big that she's just got to have it? I guess it does let her know that you're interested in sex, but I'd think most strippers already know that we want to fuck them.
To the ladies, what's your thought when you get them? Do you reply to the guy, and thank him or tell him not to send those, or just ignore him, or what is your response?
I got an unexpected boobie shower video once when driving home from work, and about wrecked my car watching it. If I was a chick and got an unexpected dick pic, I don't know what my response would be.
Now I LOVE the nude texts and nude snapchat pics and videos the ladies send me. LOVE THEM!!! Every once in a while, I know they are personalized just for me. (Granted, she could be personalizing 50 of these and sending them out) But to me (no homo) the female body is thousands of times more attractive than the male body. I can't think of any part of an attractive woman's body that if she sent me a photo, I wouldn't think it's attractive. Me on the other hand, I don't think I've ever looked at my own dick and thought: I need to send a picture of this to someone asap. That is one good looking dick, I should take a picture of it, and send it to this girl I just met. You know, with the lighting just right, it looks huge, say cheese.
I've never thought any of those things. Now in the throes of passion I might make the random "you like that cock don't you" comment or something along those lines. But when it's inside of a woman, it seems like a given that she's enjoying it, so I feel like those comments are more appropriate.
Anyway, am I the only guy that isn't sending dick pics? If you are a guy that send them out, what's your thinking around it. Do you feel like that improves your odds of hooking up with her later? Do you think your dick is unique enough or just so big that she's just got to have it? I guess it does let her know that you're interested in sex, but I'd think most strippers already know that we want to fuck them.
To the ladies, what's your thought when you get them? Do you reply to the guy, and thank him or tell him not to send those, or just ignore him, or what is your response?
I got an unexpected boobie shower video once when driving home from work, and about wrecked my car watching it. If I was a chick and got an unexpected dick pic, I don't know what my response would be.
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They don't like them?
I've never had an OTC date when I haven't sent a dick pic the next day so she'll have something to remember me by.
If you're actively sexting sometimes she wants to see how hard she's made you. But in general women prefer more of the body than just a dick
Similarly, if a girl spreads her legs and takes a flattering photo of her pussy and sends it to you, and it looks great, you then have some confidence that it's not going to be some crusty, hairy, bumpy thing.
Of course, some people might not really care about any of these things...
If I take one it is going to be a joke for my wife.
I sent a couple for Christmas with a Santa-beard hanging from my balls and got very positive responses
Civvie girls don't want retarded losers.
If a dude is cheating on his wife - I can see that he’d send a dick pic - instead of sending a face pic - so he’s less identifiable. But, it’s not a good choice either way.
The last time was from an ex boyfriend almost three years ago. We were already done with by then and I was starting to ignore his texts when I did that. He sent it and asked me how much I wanted it.
I already knew he was very self-absorbed, but that still shocked me somewhat.
(And it made me resolve to work on my terrible relationship patterns with “men.” Still not perfect. But at least in the past three years I’ve successfully avoided the abusive ones xD )
Personally, I’m neutral about dick pics. I don’t really care if you send it or not because I’ve aldeady made my mind up prior to you sending it.
Men are visual creatures, I believe (IMO) women are more verbally and emotional creatures so they are turned on more by what you say and your tone (how you portray yourself)
Lol.....not me. I gotta see tits, ass & pussy to really get all fired up. But maybe straight woman are different. Dunno.
"Men fall in love thru the eyes - and women thru the ears"
I am very visual when it comes to sex. Never understood or related to the concept that women are verbal or emotional or whatever. I assume it applies to straight women only. But everyone is different I suppose.
If a wife doesn't know what her husband's cock looks like, that's a guy who chose poorly in a lot of ways.
> I swear that half the girls I know at least have hooked up with another girl.<
Speaking for flagooner here, was that after they met you lol ?
At least half. Used to be only a few years ago I'd ask a dancer if she'd ever danced for a woman before and she'd giggle and say that she hasn't. Every new girl that I lap now has not only danced for plenty of girls, but she's more than likely down to do much more than just dance for me. I'm not complainin' :)
But I have been known to send out a camel toe collage here and there.
The girlies love 'em.