My CF starts telling me about some of the guys she used to date, and her kid’s father, and how they are all trying to hook up with all of her stripper friends. It seems their MO is to get their number or snapchat ID and immediately send them a dick pic. Which from what I gathered from the CF is something they NEVER want, and if anything is seen as a joke where they make fun of the guy. She said snapchat has made it a thousand times worse because you can only view it twice, and you are notified if you screenshot it. The guys must feel like, what's the worst that can happen, I guess. I've literally seen waitresses at a Twin Peaks have 5 or 6 other girls gather around her to replay a picture and all the girls either laughed or said eeeewww. The CF told me she screenshotted a guy onetime and the he responded, along the lines of "oh, you like that huh?" to which she responded, "no, I just wanted to forward it to your girlfriend, so she knows what a piece of shit you are"
Now I LOVE the nude texts and nude snapchat pics and videos the ladies send me. LOVE THEM!!! Every once in a while, I know they are personalized just for me. (Granted, she could be personalizing 50 of these and sending them out) But to me (no homo) the female body is thousands of times more attractive than the male body. I can't think of any part of an attractive woman's body that if she sent me a photo, I wouldn't think it's attractive. Me on the other hand, I don't think I've ever looked at my own dick and thought: I need to send a picture of this to someone asap. That is one good looking dick, I should take a picture of it, and send it to this girl I just met. You know, with the lighting just right, it looks huge, say cheese.
I've never thought any of those things. Now in the throes of passion I might make the random "you like that cock don't you" comment or something along those lines. But when it's inside of a woman, it seems like a given that she's enjoying it, so I feel like those comments are more appropriate.
Anyway, am I the only guy that isn't sending dick pics? If you are a guy that send them out, what's your thinking around it. Do you feel like that improves your odds of hooking up with her later? Do you think your dick is unique enough or just so big that she's just got to have it? I guess it does let her know that you're interested in sex, but I'd think most strippers already know that we want to fuck them.
To the ladies, what's your thought when you get them? Do you reply to the guy, and thank him or tell him not to send those, or just ignore him, or what is your response?
I got an unexpected boobie shower video once when driving home from work, and about wrecked my car watching it. If I was a chick and got an unexpected dick pic, I don't know what my response would be.
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last commentI don't get it either. They must have no game.
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ddfnetwork comes in again FTW
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Damn! Really?
They don't like them?
I've never had an OTC date when I haven't sent a dick pic the next day so she'll have something to remember me by.
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I don't send dick pics, but it's mainly because I haven't figured out how to zoom in enough to make it look big enough that they would want to see it.
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When a dancer comes to see me OTC, I send her a dick pic in lieu of payment.
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You never lead with a dick pic.
If you're actively sexting sometimes she wants to see how hard she's made you. But in general women prefer more of the body than just a dick
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Any picture the OP sends of himself is a dick pic.
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^
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I can see the logic of sending a dick pic, though. Might it provide some degree of confidence, for the woman, that the guy's dick isn't some STD-ridden, boil-covered, hairy monster? It also might provide her with some level of information about the guy. 1. she knows exactly what his dick looks like, 2. she knows he has the confidence (not the same as social tact) to show off his reproductive organ, 3. She knows what his pubes are like. It also immediately makes the relationship an explicitly sexual one, if it wasn't one already.
Similarly, if a girl spreads her legs and takes a flattering photo of her pussy and sends it to you, and it looks great, you then have some confidence that it's not going to be some crusty, hairy, bumpy thing.
Of course, some people might not really care about any of these things...
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^^ I'm more of an asshole but I'm also not sure why it send myself a picture either.
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Never sent a dick pic in my life but I'm curious what the protocol is (for future reference). Like do you do it completely flaccid or rock hard? Something in between? I'm assuming rock hard is the best way. Also should the nuts be included?
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I usually send it fully erect with a little sombrero on its head.
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Maybe this is something younger guys do. I never sent one.
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@flagoneer: I've got to ask - if you send a dick pic after your first date, how many SECOND dates do you get?? ;-)
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Second date?
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I have never seen a straight woman react positively to a dik pic. The pics that make it thru filtering are usually laughed at, then deleted and never given another thought. The guys who send them as thought of as desperate and pathetic. If the guys who send them think they actually impressing anyone, they are pretty delusional.
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@lopaw I agree. It's the modern version of cat calling.
If I take one it is going to be a joke for my wife.
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All the strippers I've sent dick-pics to told me how much they loved them.
I sent a couple for Christmas with a Santa-beard hanging from my balls and got very positive responses
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^ Yeah, you would rather, but you can't without paying significantly for it.
Civvie girls don't want retarded losers.
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Don’t forget to add the little umbrella to those dick pix ;)
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I don’t send any pics. NONE at all!
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I don’t see the reason to send unsolicited dick pics. In my opinion - there are already too many dick pics on the internet.
If a dude is cheating on his wife - I can see that he’d send a dick pic - instead of sending a face pic - so he’s less identifiable. But, it’s not a good choice either way.
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I'd still love some of the girls to chime in on how often you get them, and what your opinion is when they are received.
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I don’t really get them. But I think it’s because I can be somewhat standoffish in real life. That and people who don’t know I dance peg me as “innocent”.
The last time was from an ex boyfriend almost three years ago. We were already done with by then and I was starting to ignore his texts when I did that. He sent it and asked me how much I wanted it.
I already knew he was very self-absorbed, but that still shocked me somewhat.
(And it made me resolve to work on my terrible relationship patterns with “men.” Still not perfect. But at least in the past three years I’ve successfully avoided the abusive ones xD )
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I don’t think sending a dick pic is bad, but I wouldn’t say females want to see them as much as men want to see their nudes.
Personally, I’m neutral about dick pics. I don’t really care if you send it or not because I’ve aldeady made my mind up prior to you sending it.
Men are visual creatures, I believe (IMO) women are more verbally and emotional creatures so they are turned on more by what you say and your tone (how you portray yourself)
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"I believe (IMO) women are more verbally and emotional creatures so they are turned on more by what you say and your tone (how you portray yourself)"
Lol.....not me. I gotta see tits, ass & pussy to really get all fired up. But maybe straight woman are different. Dunno.
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In Spanish there's a saying:
"Men fall in love thru the eyes - and women thru the ears"
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@lopaw I love seeing a woman’s body and enjoy hooking up with girls too. Maybe it’s just a personal preference for me? Idk. I like men and women. Are you exclusively women only?
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Yeah gotta agree with what lolita said in her last paragraph
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@lopaw I label myself as “straight” but I have hooked up with girls and love watching lesbian porn more than straight porn!
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@LolitaLove789- yes I am exclusively women only now. I dated men before but soon realized that I didn't want them sexually. They are great as pals, tho.
I am very visual when it comes to sex. Never understood or related to the concept that women are verbal or emotional or whatever. I assume it applies to straight women only. But everyone is different I suppose.
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@DC9428 I take no offense :) I think I just classify as straight or tell ppl that because I don’t want to date a girl. Exclusively hooking, but I know I’m not straight ha. Lmao no way, I get what you’re saying. I think there is a whole spectrum, but that’s just me. I prefer men, but I wouldn’t turn down a hot chick.
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"If a dude is cheating on his wife - I can see that he’d send a dick pic - instead of sending a face pic - so he’s less identifiable. But, it’s not a good choice either way."
If a wife doesn't know what her husband's cock looks like, that's a guy who chose poorly in a lot of ways.
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@DC9428 ain’t that the truth. All the girls that have hooked up with me label themselves as “straight” and I had been their first/only girl hookup. They were random chicks either, always a close friend for a period of time! Yeah, agree with people who are bi have a preference too.
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Weren’t*
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Are you looking for a way to approach one of your male friends?
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It's a thing that I'll never do. And I really don't understand why guys do it. I've been told that it's more about power / dominance than sexuality. That seems more right than wrong, in my opinion.
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@DC9428 Not really because we were all friends long enough for things to never be awkward (except for one girl) in many cases we were both heavily drinking and they just seemed to be open about it. (I think waaay more straight girls especially in their late teens/early 20’s are more curious than we know) The one exception girl...we we actually suppose to go on a double date, but I jokingly was like want to ditch them and stay here...following want to hook up? And she said YES!!!! I was dying on the inside like oh my god haha. Long story short...I’m only friends with two of the girls now and it only happened once with each of them. It hasn’t affected our relationship at all.
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@DC
Speaking for flagooner here, was that after they met you lol ?
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"I swear that half the girls I know at least have hooked up with another girl."
At least half. Used to be only a few years ago I'd ask a dancer if she'd ever danced for a woman before and she'd giggle and say that she hasn't. Every new girl that I lap now has not only danced for plenty of girls, but she's more than likely down to do much more than just dance for me. I'm not complainin' :)
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I'm guessing @lopaw isn't sending dick pics.
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Good guess, flagooner :D
But I have been known to send out a camel toe collage here and there.
The girlies love 'em.
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^That was funny right?
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