@Trap: you are making an assumption that all men are doing OTC behind the wife's back. When I was married, I still went to strip clubs, but NEVER went past a simple lap dance on a couch. Now that I am single, there is no longer anyone, except myself, to answer to, so please stop making general assumption of all the men here.
I'm not making any assumptions. I'm asking a question. The vocal minority on TUSCL think go to clubs for extras. I'm just asking if they'd let their wives do the same. If it doesn't apply to you then good for you.
I'm sure some wives are tired of old fat husbands and would love to fuck a 9 or 10 bareback even if they pay for it. Doesn't mean they don't love their husbands, right?
I object to your use of the word "let". I don't "let" my wife do anything, any more than she "lets" me do anything. That presupposes we have some sort of inherent right to tell the other what to do. We do not. We discuss things, but we make our own decisions. If my wife wanted to do OTC with a stripper, no matter what gender out of the 736 genders we now have, we'd discuss it it and she'd decide. If the Unless the person was skivvy, or a better skier than I am, I doubt I would object.
Let also means to empower or entitle. By having a discussion and making it her decision, you are in effect letting her do it, or not. Your premise is vague and ambiguous as key words in it can have more than one meaning.
TwatBaby, of course not. But in case you were expecting to have some great "Ah huh!" moment when someone responded like this, I'm perfectly comfortable with the double standard and too bad if you don't like it.
I have to say that this discussion board has been taking a weirdly defensive feminine turn the last couple of years, including snarky fake dancers and some guys posting like they've been neutered. Most real dancers don't even get this twisted up over this issue, first because many of them are cheating themselves in one way or another and, second, because they'd go broke without married customers. Only in this weird bubble board does this stuff play out like this.
DC so you really believe Trapbaby isn't Iceyloco? That one instance of him 'defending' you from 'her' just looked like an attempt to trick people. Seems it only worked on you.
Or who knows, maybe CMI is right and Icey/Trapbaby are the same person and a girl, not a boy. Whatever. Shit's all entertainment at this point.
I'm confused Icey. Who said that they despise the women that they pay? Certainly not me. If I take a girl OTC, it is partly because I enjoyed my time with her ITC.
Also, your comment about the nature of dancers is a little naive. A girl who already takes her clothes off for the entertainment of men and does various things with them in LD/VIP rooms has far fewer boundaries to cross on the road to paid OTC than a girl who makes coffee at Starbucks. She's already rationalized a lot to make it OK in her minds to strip for a living, the additional leap doesn't need to clear a chasm. So while not every dancer will do this, many will with the right incentives.
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I'm sure some wives are tired of old fat husbands and would love to fuck a 9 or 10 bareback even if they pay for it. Doesn't mean they don't love their husbands, right?
They say two wrongs don't make a right. I disagree.
I have to say that this discussion board has been taking a weirdly defensive feminine turn the last couple of years, including snarky fake dancers and some guys posting like they've been neutered. Most real dancers don't even get this twisted up over this issue, first because many of them are cheating themselves in one way or another and, second, because they'd go broke without married customers. Only in this weird bubble board does this stuff play out like this.
Or who knows, maybe CMI is right and Icey/Trapbaby are the same person and a girl, not a boy. Whatever. Shit's all entertainment at this point.
TFP, coz everyone on here has to be a geriatric white trick, or they're fake, right?
Personally, I just think men who pay to fuck women they despise have to be sick in the head.
Also, your comment about the nature of dancers is a little naive. A girl who already takes her clothes off for the entertainment of men and does various things with them in LD/VIP rooms has far fewer boundaries to cross on the road to paid OTC than a girl who makes coffee at Starbucks. She's already rationalized a lot to make it OK in her minds to strip for a living, the additional leap doesn't need to clear a chasm. So while not every dancer will do this, many will with the right incentives.