Stripper boyfriends coming to the club. Sigh

I think there's a reason that many clubs don't allow boyfriends to sit around in the place cock-blocking the customers.

Anytime you get annoyed or puzzled by a dancer remember she is a dancer. She grinds on men for a living. Thier poor decision making and life choices is why you will be leaving with a LDK.

She is working him too by not stripping or she would be dancing like he was not there. Alternatively she could be getting the "I dont want you to strip anymore" ultimatum and she is just "working it out" with him that night.

If she shows up the next day without him all options are open for you and her. He is just another non supportive bf...

How was the boyfriend able to get his Xbox console into the club and hook it up to one of their TVs?

I know one couple that met in a stripclub and occasionally the boyfriend will come in to visit his girlfriends new club and get dances from her. I have stayed away from both of them when this has occurred.

The worst was that my ATF's BF was the cook. He was always there. Not that I didn't have fun with her in the VIP, but he would stare me down when she was sitting with me. And of course, she had to mention the time he spent in prison for assault with a deadly weapon.

She was a 9 and her BF was a toad. Couldn't make out what the attraction was?

I once had a CF who was dating one of the club managers. He seemed cool with it. He would always welcome me to the club and shake my hand and say how much "Tammy" liked me. He had to know what I was doing to Tammy in VIP. I suppose he appreciated the money I spent on her.

tuscl666, screwing the cooks girlfriend in the VIP = not brilliant!

You have to know that your BBQ sandwich was boogers and cum in Arby’s sauce on a bun!

If my woman was making money I would leave her alone! lol

Most clubs try to keep boy friends and husbands out of their clubs but it is impossible to know which customers are boy friends or husbands when they have a couple of hundred dancers working.

I remember one case at Follies. Once of my favorites decided to change life style and went lesbian. Her butch came into the club every time she was working. She stopped doing VIPs and hung out at her table most of the shift.

I never go to the club my dancer g/f works at when she's dancing. She needs to do her thing without me watching.

Dancers are weird anyway. After bitching to me about young guys wanting to date her earlier in the evening, one former cf sat with non-spending young guys for 30 minutes, About 10 feet from me, before coming over and asking for dances. I found it so ridiculous that she would ignore someone who had spent on her as recently as Monday, that all I did was stare at her blankly for about 2 minutes, with neither of us saying a word, (felt like an hour), before she got up and went back to the dressing room. Luckily we have a lot of good clubs here, because I doubt she'll be coming over again any time soon.

I like to eat steak - but I have no desire to visit a slaughterhouse to see the cattle before they are killed.

If I lost my mind - and decided to date a stripper - I wouldn’t come to see her getting groped - or sucking a random dudes cock - in the club!

Shop talk is fine if your boyfriend works in a bank - and you have insomnia. But in other jobs - it’s a very bad idea.

Lol JAprufrock

No boyfriends allowed is the policy in all but the lower-end clubs, IME

Had a very friendly favorite one time who sucked and fucked me regularly for a while, both OTC and ITC. Then one day she introduced me to her boyfriend. The bouncer who’d been working there all along.

He never appeared to notice, but I assume he did.

She left shortly after that, relieving me of the awkwardness of having to decide whether or not to let her eat my nut anymore.

About 5 years ago I took a dancer to VIP that had a reputation for doing extras. She was taking 5 or 6 guys to VIP every day. I didn't care. Afterward I found out that her BF was a bouncer at the club. She eventually got fired because they got into several arguments in public over his flirting with the other dancers. He got to stay because his brother was the manager.

Some strippers have weird ideas of what constitutes cheating. :)

if the boyfriend doesnt want her dancing, sometimes he'll try and get her pregnant.

I'm curious by some of the statements.....I think some of you would be really surprised to find out just how much dating goes on between the dancers and other staff members.

^ Funny you should say that I was thinking the same thing, it actually much more common than you guys realize.

Most of them that I've been aware of has been more of FWB relationships than BF/GF relationships. But it still leads to jealousy and drama between the dancers.

If the BF is coming, you just need to find a different girl. But get her into your own bed ASAP.

SJG

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@Warrenboy- interesting, I didn’t know it was that common.