So after I said that the bbbj would be $100., his mood totally changed. He looked confused and said that he wouldn't want everytime be "this way" meaning he isn't about to give me any money. I didn't like the sound of that. I know that might make me sound shallow but I have school to pay for lol. He said that he would think about it. We continue to have good conversation and proceed to go back to his hotel room. We get to the room and he hands me my gift and then we both freshen up. I get down to my thong and we cuddle , makeout and he gets a bbbj for about 20 minutes while he has free access to my boobs, ass and clit. He doesn't cum because he says that he is tired but enjoyed it a lot. I orgasm once. As I leave , I tell him that I'll likely be back for a cuddle sesh but I don't come back. We give goodbye and once I get home , I send the following message
"Thank you so much for the opportunity of meeting you but sadly , I think you're looking for a girlfriend/hookup buddy. I still have money to make and if you feel uncomfortable with paying for sexual favors then that's something i don't want to push you to do.unfortunately, I do not do free sex at the moment. You're a great guy though. Maybe when you come back to Dallas on thursday , we can go to lunch or a club and have fun there."
Which he read (at this point we've been messaging on whatsapp) and didn't reply
@Amelia - I'm afraid that, in a roundabout way, I'm (at least partially) to blame for this debacle.
You see, ever since I lost 100lbs a few years ago and strippers began to take me for 10 to 15 years younger, coupled with my natural charm and innate savoir fair, I started to OTC date (FWB, not P4P) strippers just as hot as you (actually hotter). I may have casually mentioned it here a time or two, but you know how things spread on this board. Anyway, it appears that some of the more delusional losers on the board got it in their heads that they could duplicate my game plan and achieve the same success. (I may have inadvertently encouraged a few of said losers who PM'd me for tips).
In summary, I hope that you will accept my mea culpa for whatever part, no matter how unintentional, I played in this mess. And to any PLs on this board who think they can be the "next" two_bits, just remember, there can only be one two_bits.
I’m so disappointed to realize that this goddess is available in the Dallas area and here I am in Chicago after just spending over a year in Austin. AAAARRRRRGGGGHHHHH!!!
Wow, amazing. This much older guy, he HAD to know what the game was. No way this old dude could have thought he had a chance with this way younger hot chick without some monetary exchange being involved. I'm sorry but this is on him. Like really, what was he expecting? Must have read one too many SJG threads or something.
Diamond wanted me to ask if it was BBBJTCCIMNQNS. Not sure what all that means. I swear she must have had a job with the government at one point with all those acronyms, LOL!
I’d have to agree with Jack that you’re really an honest girl, I’d also agree that you handled it well, I’d tell you that you should know there are a lot of delusional guys here and all over, you should be aware that a guy doesn’t travel looking for an escort, he might travel for an experience like Detroit or Tijuana, or Germany etc. , but generally finds it easy enough, to arrange for an escort wherever he might be. In that respect I feel you might have more or less led him on, possibly unintentionally.
The bartender said awww tfw when you realize you flew to Dallas to pay $100 for a BBBJ.
I could swear one of the verified strippers here posted the other day about traveling for sex and that her civvie attractions were to guys in their 50s.
The guy knows the game, and he's an ass for milking it. It's the reverse my car broke down, rent is due, family emergency hustle that strippers play on guys except he's playing it on you by making you seem shallow, gold digging, w/e. Whether it's for sexual favors or the emotional connection he knew he was gonna have to pay.
Reading both posts, I’ll reply here. It sounds like neither of you had a clear understanding about any services happening or any payment happening when the two of you made arrangements to meet. I don’t think either of you are at fault here. I think both of you probably should’ve done your negotiations ahead of time but that’s beside the point now.
When it came time for the nitty gritty, the two of you didn’t have a meeting of the minds. You didn’t owe him a free blow job or a compensated blow job. And he didn’t owe you any money. The whole thing got awkward because of the late the timing of the negotiations. That makes for a lesson learned for both of you, I guess, but I don’t think either of you did anything wrong besides wait longer than you both should have to communicate on this.
Ok, I retract most of what I posted in the other thread. Seems like it’s pretty much all on him at this point.
Of course, we *have* only heard one side of the story. I don’t really ever expect the TUSCL member to come forward, but it would be nice to hear from him.
Perhaps he could created another not obviously related account and post his side from that one?
Do you have a clit in your throat like Linda Lovelace? You really had an orgasm while giving a bj to a random TUSCL PL for 20 minutes. And the guy couldn't get off on his end? What's wrong with dude? Anyway, you sound very sensual. My very favorite kind. If only all dancers at strip clubs could be like you...
1. Not a good idea to show your face online.
2. You are very generous with your time. Couldn’t you have made $100 at the club in less time and without having to give a BBBJ?
3. 99.9% of your run of the mill strippers would say no to meeting outside or would charge at least $300 for the experience you offered. The guy got an amazing deal.
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@doctorevil , I am $100 richer.
@jackslash , I could tell that he really was seeking a real-life emotional connection. That's not what I want to invest my time in at the moment.
You see, ever since I lost 100lbs a few years ago and strippers began to take me for 10 to 15 years younger, coupled with my natural charm and innate savoir fair, I started to OTC date (FWB, not P4P) strippers just as hot as you (actually hotter). I may have casually mentioned it here a time or two, but you know how things spread on this board. Anyway, it appears that some of the more delusional losers on the board got it in their heads that they could duplicate my game plan and achieve the same success. (I may have inadvertently encouraged a few of said losers who PM'd me for tips).
In summary, I hope that you will accept my mea culpa for whatever part, no matter how unintentional, I played in this mess. And to any PLs on this board who think they can be the "next" two_bits, just remember, there can only be one two_bits.
I could swear one of the verified strippers here posted the other day about traveling for sex and that her civvie attractions were to guys in their 50s.
At least you enjoyed it, so there's that.
When it came time for the nitty gritty, the two of you didn’t have a meeting of the minds. You didn’t owe him a free blow job or a compensated blow job. And he didn’t owe you any money. The whole thing got awkward because of the late the timing of the negotiations. That makes for a lesson learned for both of you, I guess, but I don’t think either of you did anything wrong besides wait longer than you both should have to communicate on this.
Damn - that shit sounds hot
Of course, we *have* only heard one side of the story. I don’t really ever expect the TUSCL member to come forward, but it would be nice to hear from him.
Perhaps he could created another not obviously related account and post his side from that one?
Also, you’re a really good narrator Amelia. :)
It will only be $5000 to start with.
Damn, just when I put away the Gun Oil Stroke 29, I have to fetch it again.
2. You are very generous with your time. Couldn’t you have made $100 at the club in less time and without having to give a BBBJ?
3. 99.9% of your run of the mill strippers would say no to meeting outside or would charge at least $300 for the experience you offered. The guy got an amazing deal.