Assuming I retained the benefits of the relationship, this would undoubtedly mean my own patronage of the club was acceptable and I'd be all for it.
I think my inner white knight would be protective, my inner lizard brain wouldn't want her to cheat, but if I thought about it rationally, why not, it could be a great arrangement?
Its context dependent. If i was retired, or really needed a place to live or a break on paying rent… i would be cool with it. A relationship has to have give and take. Her being a pornstar or stripper has to have some benefit to me. If nothing else, it means the relationship is now an open relationship.
I dont think most guys enjoy being cucks. Probably less than 5% actually enjoy being cucks. With these other guys who are dating dancers ive seen the same scenario.. the guy works a lower paying job, no job at all, or drug deals, while the girl strips and brings home most of the money.
In my 20s I probably would have been fine with this assuming she worked at a clean club where she mostly flirted to rip off horny idiots. My buddy dated a hooters girl, I briefly dated a bartender and they aren't that different aside from showing nipples. Remember, most strippers in the US are not extras girls and a lot are giving air dances.
^lol but a lot of these strippers and escorts are genuinely enjoying their encounters with their clients. Many of them arent providing the pimped, mechanical robotic service you want with your girls.
I’m in long term open relationship with a fully nude dancer. Her club is open till 6am and I spend most night by myself or with other random hoes, but she never asks for money. I have an undeniable cuckold fetish, I get so worked up imagining what she’s doing at the club. The only thing I can’t stand is that she doesn’t tell me shit! She’ll come home with $1500+ and I’ll be so excited to hear her tell me about it and she’ll just tell me it was busy and she sold a lot of $100/3 or something like that. Seriously, if anyone on this site would be willing to go try her VIP out sometime and entertain me by letting me know how well she served you, I’d absolutely love it.
Tbh I have never seen an existing relationship survive when a girl who has never danced before decides to become a stripper.
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In most cases it's because the guy just can't handle it, which is completely understandable. Sadly this often plays out over time, with the guy trying to hang in there but behaving badly in a variety of ways as he tries to cope with it. Then a blowup happens and it's all over.
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But even those closet cucks who think of themselves as enlightened and trusting eventually get the heave ho. Dancing changes these girls. Sooner or later they start to feel contempt for the guys they were with before it began.
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I've seen this all play out too many times to count. It makes me grateful that my live-in GF in my early 20s, when I was a broke college student working shit jobs, was not disposed to dancing. Shit we had a strip club literally walking distance from our first apartment together.
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The silver lining for these poor saps is that the girl was never going to be Betty Crocker anyway. Better that these girls show their true colors early rather than when they are several years in and maybe have a baby or two.
At my age and fuglyness there's more chance of me getting struck by lightning than getting into an actual relationship. As a hypothetical, I'd be fine with an open relationship. If her not-me sex is with people who pay her for it, that's irrelevant to me. Dishonesty is a big deal-breaker for me. But I don't necessarily consider her not wanting to tell me some things to be dishonesty. Privacy and intimacy are not incompatible.
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last commentAssuming I retained the benefits of the relationship, this would undoubtedly mean my own patronage of the club was acceptable and I'd be all for it.
I think my inner white knight would be protective, my inner lizard brain wouldn't want her to cheat, but if I thought about it rationally, why not, it could be a great arrangement?
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I am not a cuck. No thanks.
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Its context dependent. If i was retired, or really needed a place to live or a break on paying rent… i would be cool with it. A relationship has to have give and take. Her being a pornstar or stripper has to have some benefit to me. If nothing else, it means the relationship is now an open relationship.
I dont think most guys enjoy being cucks. Probably less than 5% actually enjoy being cucks. With these other guys who are dating dancers ive seen the same scenario.. the guy works a lower paying job, no job at all, or drug deals, while the girl strips and brings home most of the money.
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@rick is right. I was going to mention that context is king here.
If you're 25 years old and looking to find a partner to raise a family with, it would be a terrible idea.
If you're 55, an empty nester, and looking at living your best life, it could be a glorious arrangement.
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Since you're in the 8th grade, she'll just go home to her parents' house.
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Any woman who's with me, we're faithful, that means she's not getting any other D and I'm not getting any extras.
I'd tell her "sure, go out and be a stripper, you just won't be in a relationship with me when you come back."
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In my 20s I probably would have been fine with this assuming she worked at a clean club where she mostly flirted to rip off horny idiots. My buddy dated a hooters girl, I briefly dated a bartender and they aren't that different aside from showing nipples. Remember, most strippers in the US are not extras girls and a lot are giving air dances.
I'm way too old now.
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JamesSD even at lapdance clubs theyre giving air dances, and thats most of them in the states?
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Its just a job. If youre too insecure that's your problem
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^lol but a lot of these strippers and escorts are genuinely enjoying their encounters with their clients. Many of them arent providing the pimped, mechanical robotic service you want with your girls.
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They even start pushing for longer term relationships if they find out the guy is a millionaire or somewhat famous…
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Too many cucks on this website
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if she supports me it's fine.
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I’m in long term open relationship with a fully nude dancer. Her club is open till 6am and I spend most night by myself or with other random hoes, but she never asks for money. I have an undeniable cuckold fetish, I get so worked up imagining what she’s doing at the club. The only thing I can’t stand is that she doesn’t tell me shit! She’ll come home with $1500+ and I’ll be so excited to hear her tell me about it and she’ll just tell me it was busy and she sold a lot of $100/3 or something like that. Seriously, if anyone on this site would be willing to go try her VIP out sometime and entertain me by letting me know how well she served you, I’d absolutely love it.
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^im sure many on here would be willing to help you out. Which area are you in
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Ever notice how every thread created by the OP is negative and designed to cause conflict?
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Tbh I have never seen an existing relationship survive when a girl who has never danced before decides to become a stripper.
.
In most cases it's because the guy just can't handle it, which is completely understandable. Sadly this often plays out over time, with the guy trying to hang in there but behaving badly in a variety of ways as he tries to cope with it. Then a blowup happens and it's all over.
.
But even those closet cucks who think of themselves as enlightened and trusting eventually get the heave ho. Dancing changes these girls. Sooner or later they start to feel contempt for the guys they were with before it began.
.
I've seen this all play out too many times to count. It makes me grateful that my live-in GF in my early 20s, when I was a broke college student working shit jobs, was not disposed to dancing. Shit we had a strip club literally walking distance from our first apartment together.
.
The silver lining for these poor saps is that the girl was never going to be Betty Crocker anyway. Better that these girls show their true colors early rather than when they are several years in and maybe have a baby or two.
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Turn her ass out bruh!
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Pimping is wrong
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At my age and fuglyness there's more chance of me getting struck by lightning than getting into an actual relationship. As a hypothetical, I'd be fine with an open relationship. If her not-me sex is with people who pay her for it, that's irrelevant to me. Dishonesty is a big deal-breaker for me. But I don't necessarily consider her not wanting to tell me some things to be dishonesty. Privacy and intimacy are not incompatible.
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