Assuming I retained the benefits of the relationship, this would undoubtedly mean my own patronage of the club was acceptable and I'd be all for it.
I think my inner white knight would be protective, my inner lizard brain wouldn't want her to cheat, but if I thought about it rationally, why not, it could be a great arrangement?
Its context dependent. If i was retired, or really needed a place to live or a break on paying rent… i would be cool with it. A relationship has to have give and take. Her being a pornstar or stripper has to have some benefit to me. If nothing else, it means the relationship is now an open relationship.
I dont think most guys enjoy being cucks. Probably less than 5% actually enjoy being cucks. With these other guys who are dating dancers ive seen the same scenario.. the guy works a lower paying job, no job at all, or drug deals, while the girl strips and brings home most of the money.
In my 20s I probably would have been fine with this assuming she worked at a clean club where she mostly flirted to rip off horny idiots. My buddy dated a hooters girl, I briefly dated a bartender and they aren't that different aside from showing nipples. Remember, most strippers in the US are not extras girls and a lot are giving air dances.
^lol but a lot of these strippers and escorts are genuinely enjoying their encounters with their clients. Many of them arent providing the pimped, mechanical robotic service you want with your girls.
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last commentAssuming I retained the benefits of the relationship, this would undoubtedly mean my own patronage of the club was acceptable and I'd be all for it.
I think my inner white knight would be protective, my inner lizard brain wouldn't want her to cheat, but if I thought about it rationally, why not, it could be a great arrangement?
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I am not a cuck. No thanks.
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Its context dependent. If i was retired, or really needed a place to live or a break on paying rent… i would be cool with it. A relationship has to have give and take. Her being a pornstar or stripper has to have some benefit to me. If nothing else, it means the relationship is now an open relationship.
I dont think most guys enjoy being cucks. Probably less than 5% actually enjoy being cucks. With these other guys who are dating dancers ive seen the same scenario.. the guy works a lower paying job, no job at all, or drug deals, while the girl strips and brings home most of the money.
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@rick is right. I was going to mention that context is king here.
If you're 25 years old and looking to find a partner to raise a family with, it would be a terrible idea.
If you're 55, an empty nester, and looking at living your best life, it could be a glorious arrangement.
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Since you're in the 8th grade, she'll just go home to her parents' house.
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Any woman who's with me, we're faithful, that means she's not getting any other D and I'm not getting any extras.
I'd tell her "sure, go out and be a stripper, you just won't be in a relationship with me when you come back."
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In my 20s I probably would have been fine with this assuming she worked at a clean club where she mostly flirted to rip off horny idiots. My buddy dated a hooters girl, I briefly dated a bartender and they aren't that different aside from showing nipples. Remember, most strippers in the US are not extras girls and a lot are giving air dances.
I'm way too old now.
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JamesSD even at lapdance clubs theyre giving air dances, and thats most of them in the states?
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Its just a job. If youre too insecure that's your problem
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^lol but a lot of these strippers and escorts are genuinely enjoying their encounters with their clients. Many of them arent providing the pimped, mechanical robotic service you want with your girls.
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They even start pushing for longer term relationships if they find out the guy is a millionaire or somewhat famous…
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