How to politely declined a sexual offer but maintain the business of the client
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I’ll invert the standard advice we give customers looking for sex. Just tell him politely “no” and ask him if that’s a deal breaker for him. It probably is the end but you don’t know his exact range of clubbing enjoyment unless you ask.
Some just cut the guy loose once this starts in order to avoid future drama. While this is easiest on the nerves I'm sure, it is also toughest on the wallet.
Others try to deflect for as long as possible. Guys who are primarily looking for sex are going to move on quickly and there is no help for it. Simply put, there are just too many other girls in most clubs who are willing to accommodate established spenders. A guy has formed an emotional attachment may stick around for a bit longer, but sooner or later he is going to move on too, either because he also wants sex or he will finally realize that his affections will never be returned.
Yet others have developed artful string-along games, including romance hustles, designed to extend the payment flows for as long as possible. Truth be told though, it takes a certain type of girl to be able to do these things successfully and I have no idea if you fit that profile or not.
In any event, good luck.
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Some guys here bitch about girls who pull those games, but I say all power to you. Some of my best favorites were masters at it, but you have to be able to be seductive, lie convincingly and tolerate a lot of drama in order to pull it off. ☺
To lead a customer on you have to do something that customer that he/she hasn't seen you do before to another customer.
Maybe it's a simple finger bang, and you'd let him fuck if there's more privacy, maybe a lite Hand Job where you stop before he cums.
These actions could string a customer along a lot longer because there is the perception of hope that he/she may get what they want, and in the mean time they still get to feel "special".
That being said, once a customer has asked for sex consider him/her to milk after the expiration date that will soon become rancid. Better to start looking for other regulars.
Whether you can keep him as a customer depends on how hardcore a SCer he is - a lot of custies are not aware sex can be had with certain dancers and are just hopeful they can have sex with one - if he's already had sex with dancers in the past and/or that is his sole motivation when dealing with dancers then the chips will fall where they fall.
Maybe you can come up with a creative way to satisfy him without crossing your line. Offer to piss on him or fist his ass for a fee lower than the club's going FS rate.
Yeah, you can lead him on or string him along and make good money doing it. If generating revenue is most important to you, you’ll go that route. I’d note that generating revenue is not the same as banking money. A great many strippers make good money but are broke. But is it going to eat at you if you are deceitful? If you live by the creed “treat others as you want to be treated”, then it will corrode you over time.
None of us can tell you which choice to make. But you will end up choosing and will define yourself by that choice. I honestly think you are better off making bank by sucking his cock rather than being deceitful and pretending you’re going to suck his cock.
We should all pool our resources and send Huntsman on a strip club road show. ;)
sermonize about why it would be better for her to suck his dick to make that green instead of leading him on and making the money anw
He prefers to be the one to find a dancer who is unsure of her limits and unsure of her hustle and hasn’t quite learned learned how to make good money. That way, she gets impressed by his lowball offers of sex.
And he LOVES the drama attached to the whole process.
But unlike Rickyboi, I got something better for you darling. Let me define your boundaries for you and together we can make good money.
All you need is $5000 to get started.
It’s why these StripperWeb gals are always so uptight.
Unlike in Tijuana. Where it is documented they turn men into show donkeys to have extra fun with them.
In case you're not aware, you can go into your account and turn off notifications that way your email doesn't get blown-up with every response - once a thread starts no telling when it will end.
0.02 Good luck.
Agree to the sex take the money... all of it up front and then head to the back
Once in the room do the dances and all but when we pulls that little nasty pecker out take off running and screaming to alert the bouncers then tell them his trying to force you into sex
They will take care of things from that point on and you'll be counting stacks
Note only do this to big spenders you know you'll never see again because once that bridge is burnt it's over for life
Extra side note you may want to wear wigs because sites like this one will report it in hopes other men will avoid you... so change your stage name as well
Then your solid as long as you can live with yourself LMFAO
There are two (used to be three, but one has since succumbed to my overwhelming charms) current favorite dancers who’ve specifically told me they won’t do sex. They were upfront about it when I asked, and they both made a comment like Huntsman’s “if that’s a deal breaker, I’m sorry but...”
I still spend money on them. Not a *lot* mind you, just dances and a very occasional drink, but they don’t avoid me in the club, and they nearly always approach me, rather than the other way around, even knowing I won’t do a VIP or other long dance.
Bottom line, you'll still have your self respect, and probably his as well. In the meantime, keep giving him dances right to your limits.