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rickdugan
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When I lived in the northeast, I used to love road clubbing. Northeast clubs are expensive and generally lower ROI, so going to place like FL, SC, TX and other locales was a real treat. OTC was both easier to find and generally less expensive. As I got to know travel markets more, a lot of things opened up very quickly. For a long time, a lot of my clubbing occurred on the road.
Fast forward to today and I find myself in the exact opposite situation. I now live in one of those cheaper/easier areas and I'm well wired in a couple of different clubs. With a great local situation, road clubbing now feels much more onerous and I'm far less inclined to throw large sums of money just to get a girl OTC when I have a buffet of options back home at fairly reasonable cash.
Anyone else run into things like this?
Fast forward to today and I find myself in the exact opposite situation. I now live in one of those cheaper/easier areas and I'm well wired in a couple of different clubs. With a great local situation, road clubbing now feels much more onerous and I'm far less inclined to throw large sums of money just to get a girl OTC when I have a buffet of options back home at fairly reasonable cash.
Anyone else run into things like this?
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So now Rick, being a regular at some good clubs, do the girls sit on laps? Does this lead to front room makeout sessions?
Even if you are going to do your girl ITC, do you still find merit in then continuing to see her outside?
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I would say that I'm a bit more tentative in unfamiliar environments but I'm usually looking to make the most of it.
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But still I don't generally go along with the idea of sex tourism. Better to operate in places where you can be seeing girls regularly.
You want to be wearing out mattresses and waking up in the mornings with them.
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Hell, my local clubs suck and I still don't do any traveling. Suck the clubs may, but I have things wired up to the extent possible, and once I have a CF, I will always have a far better time with her than anyone I go travel to, it's only the time in between CFs that can get a bit ponderous. That said, I'm a hardcore CFer, variety doesn't interest me
The one exception I can see, I wouldn't mind traveling to an extras club now and then. I do miss in-club extras
That being said, it’s always nice to be on home turf. But I do need a road trip to Detroit, Atlanta and South Florida just to verify. COI sounds good too. Hell, I’d hit up some NJ dives too. Ok, fuck what I said a sentence ago.
I'd say majority of us PLs love variety of women.
To the extent local clubs can satisfy the hunger for variety - there's no reason to venture out.
Rick and Shadow - you guys seem to be in that category.
Me too - there are 150 strip clubs within 3 hour drive.
But for guys who live in areas where there are 3 clubs within a 3 hour drive - instincts will drive the guy to travel. Travel out of their geographic zone and well as out of their comfort zone.
But Papi is different animal altogether. Even if he is surrounded by 100 dancers - he'd still like to explore further and further out (for that fine-ass butt-flappin ebony beauty with large eyes and inviting smile)
I had to think a bit about what my reaction would be. As someone who currently mostly enjoys ATFing, rather than variety, travelling to clubs that I couldn't get to regularly just doesn't appeal to me that much. So if air dances were my only choice, I'd likely mostly stop strip clubbing and invest my time and money in other areas of the sex industry that get more closer to what I'm looking for -- today, that would mean SA, where I can both find a "traditional" SB to be my one girl, and also find lots and lots of strippers moonlighting as SBs.
My one caveat would be: even if all the local clubs went air dances and pasties, I'd probably spend some time trying to work the system for OTC. In fact, I found out (too late) that one of the local airdance clubs, guys were scoring OTC left and right, the past few years. I finally figured it out and made it to that club, only to find out it was shutting down in 2 weeks. But, if it had stayed open, I certainly would have worked it for a few months, and if I could get an attractive local ATF who would do OTC, I would've been fine going to that club sometimes instead of always taking the trip to the better clubs 60+ minutes away.
I like arriving at places. Traveling is a pain in the ass.
With the exception of Dallas and Houston stripclubs in the 90's were horrible from what I saw and a huge waste of time and money.
Now when I go it's usually very spur of the moment and alone. I passed on going to any clubs when I was in Las Vegas because of the reputation and I avoid going to them in DC ( simply because it is DC) but overall the past two years have been very, very good.
SA is my preferred method for the past five years and I've either been lucky or playing my cards right.
But no matter, so long as you can find a girl you like, you can be waking up with her in the mornings and making it as good as possible.
I had gotten the impression that you had an occupation which involves regular travel? If I am mistaken, or if you have retired from this, then maybe there is some kind of business you would like to start. All you need is regular, tax deductible, travel to one or two other US places. Could be doing some interesting and possibly lucrative stuff.
In the US there are some people of all races most everywhere.
I know, lots of people do sex tourism just to imbibe what it is like in some other place, reported to be awesome. Lots of guys do this. But you get more if you can fix it so it works for you closer to home.
Your state has colleges and technological industries in various places. I have studied the descriptions of all 50 states from World Book Encyclopedia. Laugh if you want, but these entries written in a standard way are actually very useful. Lots of diversity in manufacturing and former manufacturing areas, like Ohio and Indiana, and in crossroads areas, like West Virginia. And then lots of stuff around Knoxville and Seiverville in East Tennesse, because of the TVA, manufacturing like VW, and their university.
And yes, I am working to build an organization, right now just locally. If you were in that you would be getting drained dry by dolled up stripper grade hotties 365 days per year, and never any charge for that.
The men will be paying dues, but these should be completely offset by the career advancement help we provide, and also by the cost of living savings our people enjoy. The money will be strictly accounted for and my salary will be $1 per year.
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