bonding atf/sb out of jail
max_starr
Cleveland, Ohio
Tuesday, June 19, 2018 10:40 AM
So I held out and did not bond her out of jail....But I did pay her fine of 180 and that was a big mistake...wife found out, the abusive ex found out...everyone had a fit....She of course was ecstatic and wanted to run away with me, but I'm not too sure about that, ruining my family and the wife saying I'll never see the kids etc...So I take her home...and of course, she goes back to the abusive ex....
He also calls my wife and those two chat, but she realizes he's completely nuts. What a bunch of drama.
So since that time I haven't talked to her or her friends any more. She has called asking me to come see her, but I have not. I'll probably end up staying with my wife as I am trying to do things right now...But if by some chance I don't, then the likelyhood of atf/sb dating me will be very very low...She's too much trouble for me....I'm tired of the truly insane ex....he's really a pain and I'm not up for murder...and she really can't even make up her mind about anything including getting clean....A stripper in a nutshell I guess..
I should have followed the cardinal rule with her and ignored that "I love you"... I found she has a pattern of finding successful guys with money and dating/moving in with them...Introducing them to drugs and irresponsibility and draining them of their money. She as much told me this. She met the last bf when he was married or recently separated and had a job and money. She got him high fucked his brains out and he lost his job. Hence why she feels bad for him and supports him now...I was to be the next one, she tried 5 or 6 times to get me to leave my family and take her away and get a new place...But I was hesitant....Would she really leave the abusive ex alone? Would I ever get to see my kids? My wife would try her best so I couldn't....Especially if I was living with an addict stripper. And, do I really love her? She sprang that shit on me, and honestly I cared about her but not sure about loving vs liking etc.
its been a wild ride and I'm going to compose a story about all this one day...with the names changed of course...
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