bonding atf/sb out of jail
max_starr
Cleveland, Ohio
So I held out and did not bond her out of jail....But I did pay her fine of 180 and that was a big mistake...wife found out, the abusive ex found out...everyone had a fit....She of course was ecstatic and wanted to run away with me, but I'm not too sure about that, ruining my family and the wife saying I'll never see the kids etc...So I take her home...and of course, she goes back to the abusive ex....
He also calls my wife and those two chat, but she realizes he's completely nuts. What a bunch of drama.
So since that time I haven't talked to her or her friends any more. She has called asking me to come see her, but I have not. I'll probably end up staying with my wife as I am trying to do things right now...But if by some chance I don't, then the likelyhood of atf/sb dating me will be very very low...She's too much trouble for me....I'm tired of the truly insane ex....he's really a pain and I'm not up for murder...and she really can't even make up her mind about anything including getting clean....A stripper in a nutshell I guess..
I should have followed the cardinal rule with her and ignored that "I love you"... I found she has a pattern of finding successful guys with money and dating/moving in with them...Introducing them to drugs and irresponsibility and draining them of their money. She as much told me this. She met the last bf when he was married or recently separated and had a job and money. She got him high fucked his brains out and he lost his job. Hence why she feels bad for him and supports him now...I was to be the next one, she tried 5 or 6 times to get me to leave my family and take her away and get a new place...But I was hesitant....Would she really leave the abusive ex alone? Would I ever get to see my kids? My wife would try her best so I couldn't....Especially if I was living with an addict stripper. And, do I really love her? She sprang that shit on me, and honestly I cared about her but not sure about loving vs liking etc.
its been a wild ride and I'm going to compose a story about all this one day...with the names changed of course...
He also calls my wife and those two chat, but she realizes he's completely nuts. What a bunch of drama.
So since that time I haven't talked to her or her friends any more. She has called asking me to come see her, but I have not. I'll probably end up staying with my wife as I am trying to do things right now...But if by some chance I don't, then the likelyhood of atf/sb dating me will be very very low...She's too much trouble for me....I'm tired of the truly insane ex....he's really a pain and I'm not up for murder...and she really can't even make up her mind about anything including getting clean....A stripper in a nutshell I guess..
I should have followed the cardinal rule with her and ignored that "I love you"... I found she has a pattern of finding successful guys with money and dating/moving in with them...Introducing them to drugs and irresponsibility and draining them of their money. She as much told me this. She met the last bf when he was married or recently separated and had a job and money. She got him high fucked his brains out and he lost his job. Hence why she feels bad for him and supports him now...I was to be the next one, she tried 5 or 6 times to get me to leave my family and take her away and get a new place...But I was hesitant....Would she really leave the abusive ex alone? Would I ever get to see my kids? My wife would try her best so I couldn't....Especially if I was living with an addict stripper. And, do I really love her? She sprang that shit on me, and honestly I cared about her but not sure about loving vs liking etc.
its been a wild ride and I'm going to compose a story about all this one day...with the names changed of course...
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# just keep it real (:
Skibum your story lacks all the essential elements of drama we like to read about here. Oh and yes we got it, you are happy with your life choices but what's the point in rubbing it in op's face.
And get asked for OTC....and then dating, yes I'm an ass and wrong and all that. You got me there.
After I did that, my wife decides she wants to bang me brains out every single day...I'm not too see the stripper any more and stay out of the club....This blurb was my last contact with her and an additional fuckup of paying her fine...
now upright citizen the ex was pissed because she went behind his back and called me .... she was still trying to ditch him and come live with me...problem is I decided not to ditch my family I have to much invested and I do love them after all even if 5 years of little or no sex....They also put up with my shit as well....my wife actually found out about a lot of this coming directly from me...except the fine she found the receipt which was very bad because I wasn't supposed to do that and obviously I didn't tell her.
I was fixated on the 5 years of her telling me she wanted a divorce in my mind it already happened.....another big mistake.....these women will tell you things like "I'm leaving", "you should leave", "We're done"....over and over to hurt you but not mean it...You can't always take them literally.
My wife will still say similar things to my kids once in a great while too without realizing it...very hurtful statements that aren't necessary....and myself I have told my wife similar things when I'm in great pain...I want to leave and never come back.....I'm not sure we always realize the pain such statements can cause.
Probably about 75% of these guys that post here are “cheating” just like you so no need to apologize. The other 25% are divorced or just too damn creepy to find even a fat ugly woman with 3 kids from 3 different guys to marry them.
She’s toxic - and her addiction isn’t helping her (or you). Her ex has many issues too. There is little good that will come from you continuing a relationship with her.
This proves one other point - that Gawker is a fucking legend! Very few can do what he does with drug addicted strippers.
Max or his imaginary stripper addict girlfriend?
Once I got tired of jerking off for five years, and I experienced some really great sex with someone who really paid attention and then spent time with me, as much time as I had....(all day if I wanted)...it really changed something in me.
I'm not a stud, nor am I totally ugly...I could find a civilian girl if I was single...It just happened that this girl got attached to me and undoubtedly my money and things happened from there. I certainly never planned it...It was insane, exciting, and dangerous......
If i was going to make up a story, I wouldn't have been so pathetic in it...and I'd have rode off into the sunset.....But I'm not making this up....I couldn't even....Yes gawker is a legend....but I don't quite have his budget and I'm still married...He is a widower......and a bit older than me...
YES!
SJG
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Never too late to break the chain, max. You can do it.
But what of the syringes say I? She said I got it right: Butt what about the syringes? Yup. Slid two right up the ol' wazoo. Now she filled both body cavities as I drove through a very busy city, completely removing shorts and thong. More than one pickup truck swerved as we passed. Oh, apparently butane lighters are not allowed, so she put one of these where the sun don't shine , too.
No wonder the addicts are so much fun.
You using them, or they using you?
Overall, I don't think it is good, and I would not deal with girls like that.
SJG
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But the line should be NO SEX until that person cleans up and gets their life together.
SJG
How can she say she’s serious about detox while filling her body cavities with drugs?
I have been there. Strippers always go back the the abusive ex.
I'm sorry for your troubles and I hope you're getting it all under control. In addition to posting the story as an object lesson here, it might be wise to seek some outside counseling or help.
Also, it's possible that strip clubs really aren't the best place for you to have your extracurricular fun. Just my 2 cents. I suspect that you're already thinking of these things on your own. Good luck.
Partially off-topic... I'm on SJG’s block list (supposedly...). Could someone inform our resident narcissist dick-clot that not every thread needs to be about him and his crazy-pants world view.
Not that it'll help...
SJG
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I only laugh because this entire story is such obvious BS.
"their game is truly weak."
Coming from a guy that is supposedly losing his wife and kids.
Stay strong by staying away. There’s no need to step closer -
Most married guys whine about how their wives haven't had sex with them in years, so I'm counting marital sex as braggable.