How long do your favorites last? How many times do you see them before the disap
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How long do your favorites last? How many times do you see them before the disappear?
It's been six or seven months since I saw my favorite dancer at a particular club. It's an extras club and she lives far, far away - She doesn't want to do her business where she might be recognized, I guess. I send her text messages now and then and she always responds, but no clear dates on when she'll return. At this point, it's been long enough that I've assumed she isn't coming back. I hit that club on Saturday for the first time in a while. I decided to draft a new favorite. As a matter of fact, I got with a dancer that I know is friends with the previous favorite. She confirmed what I suspected - The old favorite is out of the game and trying her hand at a 'civilian' job. Good luck to her.
Well, I met that dancer in early November of 2015. I saw her approximately once a month until around August 2016, about 10 months. I was off the SC scene for a while before her. But prior to that I had a couple favorites at a different club. One retired from dancing after about 3 months, then came back, then the club closed and she got married and retired again. The other moved back to her home country a few months after the club closed. Before those two, I had a favorite dancer who hung up her heels after Missouri passed some puritan lapdance laws. Then, my very first favorite became the club bartender after about a year.
I spent too much money on these girls. But I also had way too much fun. In reality, I saw most of them pretty infrequently. Maybe only 10 times each at the most. So I don't regret spending any of it. In fact, when I think back, my only regret is that I wish that I spent more on them and made more memories while I had the chance.
It's been six or seven months since I saw my favorite dancer at a particular club. It's an extras club and she lives far, far away - She doesn't want to do her business where she might be recognized, I guess. I send her text messages now and then and she always responds, but no clear dates on when she'll return. At this point, it's been long enough that I've assumed she isn't coming back. I hit that club on Saturday for the first time in a while. I decided to draft a new favorite. As a matter of fact, I got with a dancer that I know is friends with the previous favorite. She confirmed what I suspected - The old favorite is out of the game and trying her hand at a 'civilian' job. Good luck to her.
Well, I met that dancer in early November of 2015. I saw her approximately once a month until around August 2016, about 10 months. I was off the SC scene for a while before her. But prior to that I had a couple favorites at a different club. One retired from dancing after about 3 months, then came back, then the club closed and she got married and retired again. The other moved back to her home country a few months after the club closed. Before those two, I had a favorite dancer who hung up her heels after Missouri passed some puritan lapdance laws. Then, my very first favorite became the club bartender after about a year.
I spent too much money on these girls. But I also had way too much fun. In reality, I saw most of them pretty infrequently. Maybe only 10 times each at the most. So I don't regret spending any of it. In fact, when I think back, my only regret is that I wish that I spent more on them and made more memories while I had the chance.
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Some have moved away, others quit due to boyfriend not wanting them to dance, and a couple others got civilian jobs.
I have known my current favorite for a year now, however she only achieved "CF" status about 6 months ago.
She is on her way to "ATF" status if she keeps up the great GFE.
Have been visiting her 2x a month, but i'm taking a break from SC'ing for a few weeks.
On average I get 3-4 years out of a girl. One CF who just quit was at least 15 years though, while my ATF danced for about 6 years before quitting.
1. Favorites as in someone I see OTC.
The longest I've had a relationship like that is 5 years, but my average seems to be more like a little over a year and I saw them on average once every 6 weeks (I never have lived in the same town as them since I travel for work). I've seen several strippers otc maybe 3 times and then we lose contact for various reasons - I would not consider them a favorite.
2. Favorites I've never met outside the club.
Id say a few months and maybe 4 visits. If she hasnt done OTC with me by then, or ITC within the 3rd visit, I cut my losses and move on.
-->"I send her text messages now and then and she always responds, but no clear dates on when she'll return....The old favorite is out of the game and trying her hand at a 'civilian' job."
For many, when they're absolutely certain they'll transition successfully, they purposely purge all their contacts and change their phone #, so if she's taking your texts and returning them, she's not totally sure yet. On a few occasions, I've been the "side hustle" for an ATF who is transitioning to a civilian job. Of the last 2 times this happened, one successfully transitioned, the other came back to stripping.
DS I stripped for about a year and a half. She's willing to still duck me if I want to.
DS II stripped for about six months. She too is still willing to duck me.
DS III stripperd for about nine months. Her phone no has changed but she'd still fuck me if I could find her.
But my favorite lasted 6 months. She was my first favorite, I got a little too attached and it ended abruptly. Sucks, but I knew it would end eventually.
Too bad I don't have infinite money, I would have seen her more often, lol. Whatever, had fun and have some great memories. No regrets.
It just so happens that my next prospect stated she's been dancing for 6 months and she's got a normal job lined up in a couple weeks.
The search continues.
...generally my prostitutes last until I stop paying them.
I assume most girls do it as long as they need to or can handle it and many leave for various reasons from a relationship to burnout to wanting to get-on w/ a "straight life" - and it seems fairly easy to come in and out of stripping.
Strip clubs seem like a transient environment w.r.t. dancers, staff, and custies - regular custies often disappear out of the blue and sometimes come back and sometimes not.
i currently have one, but she's a few hours away from where i live, so i only get to visit her maybe 6 to 7 times a year. i have her number and she's good at responding when i ask about her schedule.
so i'm not really sure how long it'll last, but we shall see
So we could be finished already or we could continue for another several months.
The ATF lasted several years. At the peak of it, a visit every 2-3 weeks was the norm. CF-west has been in the game for about 3 years now, but only see her when work take me there. Recent CF-east's have not been lasting long, disappearing without a trace after 3-6 months.
I think that is about 12 yrs.
;-)
I've also got a #2 who who I've seen off and on for almost 9 years, but far less frequently. I also know a couple of daytime dancers at my favorite club who are good for a BBBJCIM when needed.
My ATF is changing and we may be going our separate ways. She's broken up with her long time BF and father of their 11 year old and has started banging lots of scumbags she's met in drug rehab. She's gotten fired at three different clubs in one month and is moving tomorrow to an apartment two hours away to be near another club. She's been off heroin for almost 2 months but has been drinking and occasionally getting coked up and feeling sorry for herself for the predicament she finds herself in - permanently revoked license, outstanding warrants for not showing up in court, broke, and no one she can lean on for help ( a role I can no longer fill).
- Lost touch for 2+ years when she ran off to have a child
- Lost touch for a year when she decided to stop completely to try to save her relationship w/ her babydaddy
- Several times, for a period of a few weeks, our OTCing was her sole source of support while she was between jobs
- I followed her to 4 different clubs. She, in fact, is the reason I shifted from extras clubs to my current no-extras alcohol clubs
Until around 2012 my favorites all lasted for at least 3 years
Tiffany & Shauna 3 years
Tara, Ivy & Brice 4 years
Skyler 5 years
Heather 6 Years
Since then most have lasted less than a year.