Pretty sure I got suckered
So I'm at the club and see this smoking hot blonde bitch at the bar. Buy her a drink and get couple lap dances, some contact but nothing special. About 5 minutes later this bitch comes up and ask me for 10 bucks for some smokes. Me being hammered gives her the 10. Question is how to tactfully avoid this in the future.
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"Let's do some lap dances and I'll pay you enough for many packs of cigarettes," or
"No, smoking is bad for your health," or
"I'm sorry babe, I'm tapped our right now."
Many dancers have no shame in straight-up telling you what they want whether it's a tip on top of already expensive dances, telling you to buy them a drink, food, cigs, etc (some may even be as bold as to ask some PLs to take care of their house fee).
A custy is not there to please the dancers, it's the other way around, it's just that too many of us are hardwired due to dealing w/ civilians most of our lives instead of business sharks.
You are the one w/ the $$$ so you should be the one that makes the rules - if you don't want to spend your $$$ on shit for dancers then just tell them you only spend your $$$ on dances - if more custies stood their ground many dancers would not even try a lot of the shit many of them do.
If a custy does not learn to stand his ground in a SC he will often be getting short-changed & getting the short end of the stick - I've personally found that if I say no when I feel I should say no that I end up enjoying my visits more & the dancers actually treating me better b/c they don't take you for granted & will often be nicer to try to keep your business.
Only reason dancers are in the club is to get $$$ from custies - i.e. just b/c you say no to them doesn't mean they won't take your $$$ when you want to spend it on them.
This is not to say that if you are hanging w/ a dancer you really like & she's treating you well that you shouldn't pamper her some, but it should be something *you* wanna do not something you somehow feel obligated to do & not w/ every dancer just b/c she gave you some dances.
I avoid buying drinks for dancers - and if a dancer gives me the ATM approach - I move on pretty quickly. It's only $10 - so it's not an expensive lesson.