Aging and the pursuit of strippers

Well, gawker, congratulations on making it this far in life. That alone, is a great accomplishment. I'm not in my 70's yet, but I expect to live long past that. I take after my mom's side of the family genetically and my mom is 95. I've had some health issues to, but younger women like me. I just met someone online who obviously is hot to trot. Who am I to turn her down. I'm flattered. I've had some health issues yet, but my dick gets pretty hard with an attractive woman, I'll let you guys know how the current one works out. Medicine helps a lot, to be sure. I've never taken the blue pill or Cialis. I may at some point. Gawker, we've shared similar viewpoints in the past and I salute you !! Keep it up !! LOL

I've never had a problem getting it up for a stripper, but I'm a little worried whether I can do it with some of these MILFS. When you look at them closely, they look like a grandma. I think I'm gonna start with, and maybe stick to, nothing older than mid 40s. But to answer your question, I think every guy over 50 worries about how long he can keep getting it up on a regular basis.

I'm a few years behind you Gawker but I find that variety is the spice of life, or more specifically of my sex life. Nothing like the aphrodisiac effect of an attractive new partner, a new routine (in the car) or a new position or two.

Keep up the good work!

I just received my order of 400 little blue pills from India to split with a friend of mine. I know several guys buying from the same pharmacy. There is some concern amongst us as to whether or not they work as well as the Pfizer product but for the price differential I have no intention of buying the real Viagra. As for the testosterone, My test revel reveal the same as yours on the low end of normal. I do have an enlarged prostate and take tamulosin for it but my urologist recommends to NOT do any treatment for it unless absolutely necessary.

As I have said on here many times before, one side effect of the tamulosin is retrograde ejaculations. About 90% of mine are retrograde. The girls don't mind not getting a load in their mouths. :) Getting a hard enough erection for intercourse is getting more difficult if not impossible most of the time. Especially on these very tight young girls. Fortunately I do not have to get rock hard to enjoy a BBBJ. I have thought about penis pumps but I think that would only be an option if your are doing OTC with a trusted partner.

At 74 I'm still busting a nut twice a week and am not ready to throw in the towel.

By reading your note, I think you are doing great. Think about it, you are 70, had a cabbage, and just had 3 20 year olds blow you in 6 days. I'd sign up for that in a heart beat! I think you just needed a change in ATF. Maybe you were just tired of her and didn't realize it. I'm in my early 50s and struggle at times even with help of vitamin Ci but for some reason, I've always had this struggle since I was a kid. I think it is a conflict between the big head and the little one but never could figure out why. The dancers I know don't seem care and they keep grinding away. I'm trying to eat better and exercise more to see if I can get off the BP meds or at least reduce the mgs. Drop me a PM if you want to continue the conversation. I'd really like to know how you got those 3 to do what they do, except for the spitting on the floor. I could do without that. LOL!

Js69 - your questioning whether you'll be able to function well with some of the MILFs you've met on line made me chuckle. When i first started in hot & heavy with my ATF she very seriously sat me down for a warning. " you know you'll be spoiled forever" she said." Once you get used to fucking me you'll never get it up for older chicks y'know"
For an uneducated, culturally unaware, stripper from East Bumfuck she knew of what she spoke. Lol

I started using sidenifil from our friends from India when I starting having issues, but then was diagnosed with "low normal T" so I started using the gel. Well, I didn't need my Indian friends after that! The gel made a huge difference (pun intended). But I always take a pill before clubbing anyway and I always get an erection quite easily. It's like being 16 again.

I've got a few decades before I catch up to Gawker, but I've found going to strip clubs does wonders for the libido.

Mostly, I think it has to do with variety. I get tired of the same pussy all the time. It can get boring. And going to a club once in a while to find a new girl (or girls) is a fantastic option.
And I feel lucky to have that option.

^^^ the hunt is more exciting than the kill.

The LOW T ads are just a way for drug companies to scare men into buying drugs they don't need.

I'm in my 60's and a hot stripper will get me hard in seconds. I'm sure that at some point I won't be able to get it up any more, and then I hope to age gracefully and spend my money on more intellectual pastimes.

^^^^^ A most interesting view.

My own feeling is that most decline of capability is psychological in nature. I cannot however prove this, and I am not wanting to trivialize it or suggest that such limits are easy to overcome.

Probably though it is something like yoga which restores capability.

SJG

@jackslash: Everyone is different. Some people at your age need glasses and some don't.

In my case I was having ED issues and started using sidenifil. That worked fine, but then I was found to have low T and started the gel. It made a big difference!!! I could then get erections even without the drugs, and I felt better overall as well. As I've mentioned, I still take them for club visits but I probably don't have to.

BTW My gel costs $10 for 3 months, so my insurance co. is the one really paying for it. Well, I'M paying through my premiums I suppose.

I'm 61 and find that it usually takes several lap dances these days to get me off, whereas ten years ago one or two often did the trick. (I know, I know: "I haven't come in my pants since I was 15." STFU!) But my big discovery of the past 2 1/2 years is the joy of the VIP room blowjob. When I go to a club with a VIP room and I know that BJs are available, I don't bother with the half a Vitamin V (ordered online from India at about $1 a pill) because a BJ gets me off *every* time, at least if it's uncovered.

So far this year I've been to SCs about 17 times and have come 14 times: 8 times from BJs (all bareback), including one about two hours ago at Dollie's in Washington Park, and 6 times from lap dances.

I listen to these accounts and I become more and more convinced that the changes associated with age are psychological. I mean yes, the are 'normal', and even 'normative'. But there is still no physical cause.

If they were physical, what exactly is it that these chemical enhancers are able to do?

And remember that erection and ejaculation are not the same thing.

I feel that a heavy diet of DIY promotes ejaculation, but not erection. The point being that since you are doing it, and you are good at doing it to yourself, you don't really need much of an erection.

Erection is like being in jr high school, hard all day long watching ass, but can't do anything about it.

At the Brass Rail, one Filipino super hottie kept on getting her ass in my face and so I told her, "This is just like jr high school all over again." She really liked that.

On the whole, I want a girl to really let go and go over the top many times easily, and then I'll cum in her. So I don't cum fast and I don't want to cum fast. I don't want to LDK. I don't want to cum if a girl starts getting her hands on my cock. And the way I don't is just by letting go, opening myself to her.

I want to cum from real good FS, or from Anal, or maybe from BBBJ ( just sometimes ).

BBBJ can be a prolonged thing where it starts by the girl going down on me. Then we move to 69ing and I let her go over the top a few times. I like making girls cum and I like DATYing and FIVing them. Then after that I cum in her mouth or on her face. My point is it does not need to be fast. My own ejaculation is secondary.

The only exception to this would be a movie style scene, like where I see a girl, one I probably am already intimate with, and pull her into semi -private space and then her skirt comes up etc. But again, this is all just theatrics, being done for effect.

Otherwise slow and easy is better.

But as far a losing ability, I don't know what to expect.

I knew one guy who was in this 12 Step group called Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous. He felt that masturbation lessened your ability with each time.

I challenged this. I said that probably it increases your ability. Any reduction is just temporary. Like if you are lifting weights, you are diminished for a while right after, but beyond that you are improved.

But I also see that erection being separate from ejaculation, that masturbation might improve ejaculation but reduce erection capability.

Tantric sex sometimes does focus on non-ejaculation, while having a very long erection. And of course if you want to do a bunch of girls in sequence, this is necessary.

Most guys wake up with an erection, or with that ready at hand. So the on board systems must work. If you don't DIY, then that erection should be ready to go any time. If not, I say the reason is psychological.

For erection you have to let the parasympathetic nervous system take over. I mean you can't have an erection while under the sympathetic, fight or flight.

So you have to relax. I think most guys are just too wired once they get up and out of bed in the morning.

So I am building an organization, and every guy in it will have all the women he can handle and get drained dry 365 days per year.

So if it is like that for you now, I say just go with it. Maybe young guys want more quickies and older guys want more Toda La Noche's. Either way, my organization will deliver for you.

But if it is not like that for you, maybe a routine of some DIY to keep your ejaculatory abilities up to par, but then also some jr. high school style erection maintenance. Just let yourself stay hard for as long as it works.

But don't leer at women. A grown man cannot get away with what he can when he was 13yo.

So this is why we have strip clubs, even like the no touching clubs where I live.

So staying hard, like maybe from getting up in the morning without DIY, and also with some meditation practices so that the parasympathetic is available to you. I mean, some posts here and writing about my own long forgotten experiences has gotten me hard.

And then at some other time, just pump out as many loads as you can.

But again, I think this is psychological, you could say psycho-spiritual. It has to be approached with yoga techniques.

SJG
https://sites.google.com/site/sjgportal/

http://www.democracynow.org/2016/2/18/ap…

Also Rocky Anderson of Salt Lake City
http://www.democracynow.org/2016/1/29/fo…

Discussion of Front Room Makeout Sessions
https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=4…

Jestrite50 on requirement of front room makeout sessions
https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=3…

and here:
https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=3…

Anyone ever seen this? It does not look good!
http://www.pornkillslove.com/
Not sure where this is based, or that it even has a base, but the 385 area code should be Salt Lake City. Reminds me of the views of ColdnShallow, and of some other moralistic women I know. Shows me all the more so why Porn, Strip Clubs, and P4P Sex are so important.

Inside The Devil's Lair: Satanic Temple Revealed
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wxdka8eC…

The Satanic Temple performs the nation's first state-sanctioned Satanic Ceremony in history
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0r7mb4kj…

Doors - The End
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JSUIQgEV…