Threesome with a lame duck

You needed to get a refund from the other one early on. How much did you pay each girl? Did the period one do anything at all? Or just sat there

She CBJ and was involved enough. That wasn’t what I was expecting though. Didn’t want to make a huge deal about it since the other girl was great but definetly don’t feel I got my money worth with just the CBJ from her.

I agree with chunkychicano. You should ask for a refund from the girl on her period. But I am doubtful she will give you one. So if she refuses, I would ask her for a solo OTC at a greatly reduced cost.

A first time threesome is always a crap shoot. It sounds like the hotter girl orchestrated this since she was on her period but still wanted to get paid. . We live and we learn. Maybe next time work out the details a bit more before the event, like making sure she knows that you only pay the full double freight if they both fully participate. . I've done a handful of threesome over the years. A couple were great and the rest were meh to ok. It was fun for me as a novelty, but probably not something I would do again.

Refunds from strippers? You guys recommend he call the BBB too?

Your opportunity to renegotiate occurred when she informed you of her condition, which essentially voided your initial deal. You agreed to the updated terms of your agreement at that point. I would have either waived her or both of them off or offered her a discounted rate commensurate with the reduced service, but that ship has sailed.

She's not completely without blame, she could have handled it better by informing you prior to showing up. You could have renegotiated or rescheduled at that point with no hard feelings. You can certainly attempt to negotiate a follow up at a discounted rate, but that seems sketchy and unlikely to bear fruit. Asking for a refund after you agreed to go through with it is absurd though. If it were me, and I made the same mistake of going through with it, I'd write it off as a mistake and move on from that girl. I wouldn't go out of my way to tell her why, just pass next time. If she asked why, I'd tell her. And I'd consider her offers if she attempted to make amends for her part in the situation, but I wouldn't peruse it further. I may move on from the other one too, if I felt she was aware and went along with it.

Yeah the refund window is gone now- if he was a regular customer of that period dancer he could still bring it up with her and possibly get some free dances or some sort of consolation in a future OTC

But it sounds like these chicas were in his hotel room or at his house from my understanding… so what he should have done is just taken the money back as soon as the girl mentioned being on a period. I dont mean requesting a refund- he could have just taken the money back.

But now it looks like the period girl still offered a CBJ, and still spent time participating in the event, so it wouldn’t be fair to get a full refund- and on her end she can claim she still provided him the time spent and cbj.

It might affect future interactions with her but theres nothing wrong with handing a chica money, she puts it in her purse, says shes on her period , then you take the money back. She was supposed to inform you beforehand about the period, or not even schedule the OTC on that particular day to begin with. So its not on you if she wasted her time driving to the OTC place. But now that she actually spent time in the room with you, and performed a CBJ, she provided some level of service.

When i was new to escorts i paid a chica the hourly rate- i didnt want a cbj, i wanted lapdances to start off- but whether it came to lapdances or full service she tried upcharging me- and basically forced me into the cbj. She also put my money in a safe at the start of the appointment… if that scenario happened now i would feel obliged to give her a 1-2, take her phone or other valuables and leave .. i mean what would you do if some bully tried taking your lunch money? Or someone tried robbing you. Its basically the same thing…

Maybe he felt obliged to pay both of them thinking it would ruin things with the other girl- it just comes down to being willing to let the deal fall apart… its clearly dishonest of her to wait until after you handed her the money to tell you shes on her period- its an intentional scam. Thats why the situation is still bothersome internally

I think the period situation has only happened to me once.. and the girl straight up showed me her pussy and pulled out a bloody paper towel from it… and we negotiated a lower rate for just a CBJ/HJ… by the way a CBJ or even bbbj are at best worth half of a full service rate. So whatever you paid that chica was double the amount

Refund lol. I once told a stripper I was reporting her to the Stripper Board of Ethics. She got mad, to a degree where I wondered if she thought that was a real thing. Lame duck seems like the right take on it. Either she's seriously dumb, or she wasn't interested in getting any more of your money.

Like Steve Winwood said, don't worry too much, it will happen to you. Assaulting someone who's ripped you off is a highly risky solution. I experience fewer ripoffs simply because strange doesn't appeal to me that much. Usually it's ambiguous whether it's a clear ripoff, since sex workers avoid saying in detail beforehand what they are willing to do. As long as prostitution is illegal, they have non-rip-off reasons for doing so.

I had an experience recently where I was in a club where extras were hit and miss and I was looking for a hit. It started out promising. The hottest girl in the club approached me for dances. They were good but I did not get the vibe that things would be better in VIP. So neither of us brought it up.

Next up was another decent looking dancer and I accepted a dance from her. Then she hits me with "don't touch my breasts. I just had a baby and am breast feeding. I dismissed her rapidly.

First dancer returns and starts talking the talk about VIP. She offered what I wanted at an acceptable price and off we went to VIP. I paid the house up front for 30 minutes and she asked for her money upfront too. I was not pleased with that but went along.

Then she starts in with the 3 some talk with the dancer I had just turned down who was breast feeding. And she wouldn't take no for an answer. It was obvious that she was trying to help her friend out financially at my expense. This went on for 15 minutes and did nothing but turn me off. So I cut my losses and walked out.

The lesson here is that a lot of 3 somes are just one dancer trying to help another. Beware!

Every time I've been duped into a threesome, all ITC, it wasn't worth the extra $. As to OP's situation, agree he's in no position to ask for a refund, and wouldn't get it anyway, and I would have no interest in requesting future "discounts". She's a ROB at heart, and I would have nothing to do with her.

Manuella the only thing is, the OP claims he has done FS with the period dancer before. So shes not totally unwilling to provide it, but it looks like she wanted some fast money in this case and didnt want to wait till the period was gone.

Also @ilbbaicnl there are plenty of dancers and escorts who will outright discuss explicit details with you once you know them. Or, in some clubs, they will be somewhat specific even for the first VIP.
Youve stated numerous times that you keep your pants on OTC, and pay exorbitant amounts of $600+ just for lapdances OTC. Since youre just getting lapdances, obviously there is almost zero chance of you being scammed… but you are getting taken advantage of.

I agree with Dolfan, what I don’t understand is why is she a lame duck, that makes no sense to me whatsoever.

There's no refunds in this game, lol.

With that said, threesomes are ALWAYS going to be inequitable and awkward! Even if the one chica hadn't been on the rag... there still would have been a lame duck in the mix. There always is in a trio, and as long as the lame duck isn't you I think you're doing alright.

IMHO, the idea of a threesome is almost always better than the actual experience, especially considering the cost.

For a threesome you should bring a sex toy. Do DATY on one girl and finger her, use your other hand or toy on the other girl and alternate. Have each girl lay down beside you and jerk you off while doing a threeway kiss