Getting bored with going to strip clubs
twentyfive
Living well and enjoying my retirement
Guys sometimes when you are on your way to the club do you change your mind and say fuck it I don't feel like being ripped off tonight, and jus go home. It seems to me lately that I have been getting in a rut, where the clubs are getting boring, it seems to me that the more I know about how these places operate, the more I get tired of them. All of the clubs seem to have the same stupid girls asking the same stupid questions, every conversation seems like "Deja vu all over again' to quote the late Yogi Berra. I think I'm going to take a break from clubbing maybe I can squeeze in some more golf or maybe I'll hit the casino. Anybody else get these feelings lately.
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I recently relocated for work and tried to go back to my old club from a few years back. I have tried a few times without success...by that I mean that the visits were uneventful and I actually didn't have that great a time in the club. Because of this, my frequency of visits has dropped off and also in part because I don't want to spend a ton of money to earn back my regular status just to have the same old tired girls that have been working there for years...
SJG
I suffer from Vuja de - the feeling that none of this has happened before
Brilliant!
rh48hr, good post.
Strip clubs offer much, but there are still limits. Need to set up other types of venues. Need to be more flexible. Sometimes sitting and talking, sometimes eating food, sometimes FS.
Some people really like those German FKK Clubs. If one can afford it, I think those are probably good because you can spend more time with the women.
SJG
The nice thing about taking a break for a few months... When you go back to your regular club, the odds are there will be a lot of new dancers on shift.
This is why we have TUSCL.
Thank you @Founder!
Too bad twentyfive that you don't have Viet Coffee Shops where you are. Atlanta has a couple.
SJG
First, we should have strip club / hotel complexes just as good as TJ's Hong Kong Bar.
But even that doesn't cover everything. Men and women need to find ways of working together to go beyond even that.
SJG
SJG
I'm actually scraping off the rust after a very long break from strip clubs. Can't say that I won't leave the scene again at some point, but I'm having fun right now. So yeah, take a break and see if the "itch" ever returns. No big deal if it doesn't; you've moved on.
Taking a break can help both your mental state and bank account too.
1. Go to different clubs. Travel if you have to. Much of your complaint seems to be with clubs you are understandably tired of.
2. Go to a great club like Follies where no heterosexual man can ever have a bad time. It rejuvenates.
3. Start focusing upon OTC instead of club visits. I've done this in the past year and it has totally changed my perspective on and interaction with strip clubs. The clubs are now just a warm up for the main attraction, instead of being the main attraction themselves.
Good luck.
I think this is the best!
SJG
I SC a lot (too much) and it was becoming kinda a pain dealing w/ the same BS as you put it.
As I often state; I like variety and why thus in the past I would rotate among a lot of different clubs in South FL so I would not have to deal w/ the same dancers and the same scene too often.
But w/ time; I got fed-up w/ many of the clubs and their SS/BS and started dwindling down my rotation to just about 3 clubs; and after a while I started getting a bit sick w/ these 2 or 3 clubs also.
Being a single guy I have the flexibility to come and go as I please to a certain extent – thus since I really enjoy SCing and really like variety; I find taking SC trips a lot of fun and kinda rejuvenating for me personally since I don't travel often and not able to get away from the same ole same ole.
I sometimes do the 3-hour trip to Cocoa Beach and hit Inner Room for a change of pace/scenery (and there are 2 other clubs in the area but I have not hit them) – Inner Room and Cocoa Beach are laid-back and I feel relaxed when I'm there and is very different from the Miami SC scene and the Miami scene overall.
Also – for me personally – if I have worries or problems in my personal life that will often cut down my SCing enjoyment and I have less patience for dealing w/ the club BS.
I am currently taking a break and doing very little if any SCing – sometimes I get the urge to go mainly out of boredom – but then I think “do I want to keep giving those bitches all my $$$ or do I want to keep it” (since more often than not I blow almost all my disposable income w/ my frequent local and out-of-area SCing).
I don't make “great” $$$ like I used-to but enough to pay my bills and have some fun – but $$$ is an issue in that I tend to burn thru all of it when I'm in regular Papi Chulo SC mode.
I am currently too familiar w/ my local SC scene and was not really getting my money's worth b/c I was wasting all my $$$ in the same-ole same-ole.
My hope is to abstain from local SCing which was not doing much for me and do some more SC trips down the line.
SJG
The opening line to the Nell Carter sitcom "Gimme a Break"
Papi I bet you used to drool over Nell Carter and her big ass didn't you? Lol
@Vince
Is this how you died ?
Hell i had one year i went to the club 3 times lol and the year before i was in the club over 100 times that year.
This is how i become a Poker Player, Little League Football Coach, Amateur Stand up Comedy, Rap Artists, Author of several books, black belt in several martial arts, photography...and the list goes on and on.
When i teach my students at my pick up artists boot camp is this
" you wanna get laid ? Then get a life !"
Basically this means don't focus on getting laid, focus on yourself...your hobbies your talents and the pussy will supply it self
I will always love watching beautiful women. But, the cost sucks. I once drove 90 minutes one way to
one of my favorite clubs. I sat in the parking lot for awhile. I then turned around and headed home
because I just wasn't into it that day. The conversations are boring. The women all are married or
have boyfriends for the most part. I have found one club I really like I will return to. But the clubs
closest to me are off my radar. One entertainer was or is so clueless, she proceeded to tell me in
anymore.
detail about her relationship with her boyfriend. He is basically her sugar daddy. I got tired of her and
all of the girls at this place so I quit. One club charges $3.50 for a cup of coffee if the waitress gets the
cup for a girl. If the girl goes to the bar and gets it herself, she is not charged. I could not handle being ripped off
When you come back to it, I think you need to be a lot more assertive in not letting the dancers who irritate you hang out at your table. I encounter lots of dancers like the ones you describe, but I don't tolerate them. I send them away to make room for the ones I want.
At one of the clubs I enjoy, quality wavers significantly. A year and a half ago, it was really good; 8 months ago, it had gotten super weak and the only thing that kept me going there was my then-CF. As of 3-4 months ago, it's been looking really good ... But there was a wave of firings last week, so who knows what it will look like next trip. To borrow the old cliche -- it's not me, it's them. As quality of the dancers rollercoasters up and down, I enjoy my trips more or less (unless I have an ATF, in which case, I don't care about any of it), you might explore your options a bit
Usually what happens when I decide to keep going home is the thought that it is going to be the same bullshit and I have already been there and done that with pretty much the same girls. Since I usually stop in after work, I don't really have the option to visit another club right then, and by the time I get home I get busy with other stuff and no longer have any need to go.
If you really don't want to stop in or have any doubts, trust yourself enough to know that this isn't the right time to go clubbing. At least that is the bullshit I tell myself, and it seems to work for me.
I try not to have any expectations w.r.t. SCs/strippers b/c often times they leave a lot to be desired in terms of customer-service; particularly since I mostly visit small-clubs/dives.
I try to go not expecting much and just take it for what it is – if it turns out it was a good-visit and I found some cool dancers; great; if not; well they are strip-clubs; I don't expect much – I enjoy the good times when they're there and accept the not-so-good visits when they are there.
Sad but sooo so true SMDH
:)