[TIP] Keeping the Conversation Going
Call.Me.Ishmael
Rhode Island
Friday, December 4, 2015 7:29 AM
Most of us know the awkwardness of sitting with a dancer while getting to know her and running out of stuff to say (particularly in a first introduction). This may not be an issue with natural conversationalists, but for the rest of us it's not a fun moment.
What I've been doing recently is asking the dancer to "Tell me about something that made you smile or laugh today."
Though it sounds a little hokey, this causes the dancer to relive and relate a happy moment (and indirectly associate it with you). Typically, she both brightens up and relaxes, and that's not a bad thing.
Also, it opens up other lines of conversation, perhaps about pets, hobbies, favorites foods, etc. If handled correctly, that one conversation opener can make it easy to keep the chit-chat going.
While most interactions with dancers eventually become transactional, there is almost always a social aspect, as well. I have found that having skills relating to both aspects (transaction & social) typically yields happier end results for all involved.
I would be curious to hear everyone else's conversation tips and tricks, if you care to share them.
Ishmael
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