Holiday gift ideas for an ATF
osogrande
Maryland
Christmas is just around the corner. If you have a regular/ATF to whom you want to give a gift, what would you buy her? I get that the dancers are there for the money, and no doubt cash would work out fine--I understand that bills are almost never returned for being too large. But if you wanted to get her something special, what would be your move (personal but not creepy)?
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My 2 PL cents.
I would resist the temptation to make a grand gesture with a gift, almost certainly it's a waste of money and she'll resent having to pretend to value it. Whereas she'll truly value cash, or the fact that you upgraded from a VIP room to a Champagne room, or just a big tip. If you MUST also buy her a present to make it more personal (which, in the end, is more about satisfying your needs than hers), buy her something small & inexpensive ... e.g., a little stripper survival kit (her fave vodka, some redbull, & a hit of molly), etc.
A shopping trip. She models the clothes for me that night, then I get to remove them.
A vibrator. DS loved this gift.
Bluetooth speaker. We use it to play rap music on dates.
A couples visit to a spa. Sex is better before than after the spa.
Dinner at a nice restaurant. After dinner she gives me my gift.
An iPad mini.
His usually start:
“Dear Bitch ...”
His usually start:
“Dear Bitch ...”
I just lost it on that one...lol...sad but true
Make it simple. Perfume, a gift card, money, a phone case, earrings. Something that has little or no meaning.
I only once in my life gave a gift, it was a bottle of wine from my trip to France. Needless to say she was overjoyed and gave me good times that day!
I bet pussy juice will fly
Fuck you - I just spit my drink on my computer laughing so hard from that one.
This is what I've basically heard from strippers I've remained in contact with after they retire, when they're super transparent about their stripper days. One ex-stripper I remained good friends with told me that gifts were basically meaningless to her -- they'd break up roses in the locker room and each girl take one, throw away food, give away any low cost gift, and for most high cost gifts, give them to family. She kept a few expensive gifts she liked, but after she retired, "I gave all those things away -- having them in my house reminded me of who I had to blow for what. I don't want anything that reminds me of any customer."
Which is why I say that giving the girls gifts rather than cash is usually more for the PL -- he wants to feel like he's giving her something meaningful, and that their relationship is more meaningful than pay-for-play. There are definitely girls who break the mold, and guide their PLs to buy gifts they actually want (at a budget far higher than those guys would have paid in cash). I don't blame a PL for wanting to feel that way, but for me, I'd rather buy an extra VIP room, in most cases
-*Most* dancers would appreciate a Tiffany necklace or bracelet. If it's sterling silver you can get one for a couple hundred bucks.
-A lot of girls are into name brands. You can get a Michael Kors purse for 200-300. Most strippers would like that, and a lot of them like those bags.
-A gift certificate to Victoria's Secret. $100 doesn't go very far though so I'd say 200-300.
So if you have 2-300 to spend, I think those are all good ideas. But it wouldn't hurt to ask first. Say something like, "so what kind of jewelry do you wear outside the club?" or "I've seen a lot of girls wearing those Michael Kors bags, do you have one?" See how receptive she is to those questions.
Does she like any sports teams? Tickets are fun. One of my old regulars got me plenty of gifts "just because," and since he knows I love the Tigers, one time he brought me in an authentic Verlander jersey and two tickets to an upcoming game (he was much older than me so he bought the tickets for me to take a friend with me, not him lol). It was a thoughtful gift, and I immediately put on the jersey, unbuttoned of course, and pranced around the club for the rest of the night looking cute.
This is the most on point comment in this whole thread. I really am trying to stop SMH but I can't. It's just moving back and forth involuntarily at this point. A stripper could give a flying fuck about you guys. If tomorrow you told your ATF you were broke and wanted to know if the two of you could still hang out and do whatever it is you say goes on she'd laugh in your face. You may feel like you have a connection but the only connection is between her hand and your wallet. I can guarantee when another stripper asks her where she got her $200-300 Tiffany bracelet, VS gift card or name brand purse she's simply going to say "one of my regulars" and that will be the nicest possible way I can spin her saying it. That's even assuming she keeps it and doesn't re-gift it as a christmas present.
Do you buy your doctor presents? Your accountant? Your weed dealer?
I use gifts to spur discussion and increase the sc related trust. I buy my favorite a $40 sexy dress she likes, she can try it on for me and we can discuss if it fits, what color would look better etc... It increases her comfort level with me and spurs OTC opportunities. I don't really give a shit if she likes it or not as long as it drives discussion and the perception of a comfortable relationship even if it is p4p.
seriously though, I've never given any stripper a gift/present.......but i agree with you guys that it would be wasted. subraman did a good job of explaining it. its a thoughtful gesture by a PL, but the problem is it turns something that is strictly business into something more personal....
nina's post suggests other wise though......
She asks for birthday and Christmas gifts but I tell her no. I spend enough on her already.
With that said, Nina gave good advice. I've never known a date who wouldn't like a $300 designer hand bag or real gold/silver from the Tiffany's catalog. Seriously, both are good options.
I used a know a sugar baby (we worked at the same office) about 16 years ago and her SD got her a $2500 Prada hand bag, once. She used that thing pretty much every day. So that was a good, thoughtful gift. The nice thing about Tiffany's is the gold and silver is pure enough for daily use (for example earrings that won't irritate her ears like cheap ones will).
A number of the strippers I know would be VERY irritated if you bought them a $300 handbag... for these girls, their conspicuous consumption does not allow for such cheap handbags.
Yes, it's bizarro world
So there's your answer. Buy her a Burkin bag. :)
Here's what we have in Cleveland:
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^^^Most of the girls want these. It's quality stuff and sort of rare.
The only other time I have given a present to a stripper was in January, when I happened to take a favorite extras girl out on her birthday for dinner and a postprandial BJ in my hotel room. To make her birthday less than completely disgusting, I gave her a bath and body wash set, a birthday card, and cash beyond what we had agreed to. She seemed to be delighted and told me it was her favorite birthday in years.
In principle I agree that the only present most strippers appreciate is cash.
This practice of giving gifts to whores doesn't make sense to me.
Does her service improve after receiving these gifts?
If no, it seems like a waste.
If yes, she didn't deserve it because she had obviously been holding back before.
And of course, the gift of my presence. Which she seemed to appreciate, considering my face looked like a glazed donut later that day.
Does her service improve after receiving these gifts?
If yes, she didn't deserve it because she had obviously been holding back before."
I think this is the usual thing that happens, her service improves, at least for that night -- and, well, yeah, in ANY male-female relationship, the giving of gifts tends to yield significant benefits back to the male. And it's in the female's best interests to reward this behavior so it might happen again. All in all, I'd say, just like your girlfriend will be extra nice to you after you give her a gift, so will a stripper or escort.
I do think that you're thinking strictly in utilitarian terms, though, and most customers think of stripper/customer relationships -- at least their ATF relationships -- in other terms