Looking at johnsmith69's hypothetical question I have one if my own. Has your wife or girlfriend ever told you to stop going to strip clubs or its over? What did you do? What would you do if you were found out and asked/told to stop? Most women really think strip clubs are "no touch" and they still don't like them, imagine the shock of finding out about your husband doing OTC. Has it happened to you?
Well, since mrs sea was the one who initiated us going clubbing I'd say no. I don't have to worry about her finding out or saying to stop going. I don't even mention SC's. She'll just say she needs some titties in her face and away we go.
She never found out about strip clubbing. But she did find porn on my computer and went ape shit about me being "unfaithful." So her finding out about clubbing or my OTC activities would've been about 10,000 times more drama.
She's okay with me occasionally going to a club with friends but I'm sure she would think I have "issues" if she knew I was going by myself. "Occasionally" is a few times a year on "guy" trips.
My wife has no idea I even go; my g/f knows I go and hang out with dancers from time to time. I'm trying a new policy: I never lie to my g/f. So far it seems to be working out surprisingly well! She hangs out with other guys too which is fine since we're more FWB's than having any pretense going for a LTR. She's married too.
I went to strip clubs periodically at the end of my marriage she didn't know about it and i didn't spend much money (literally 30-40) but I was a one way lap getter. At the time I just wanted to see a naked women because my woman refused to do anything. My ex-wife was into porn so she knew I went online to look at it and was ok with it. We used to watch porn together all the time.
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I didn't cut back until AFTER the divorce. Lol.
She's okay with me occasionally going to a club with friends but I'm sure she would think I have "issues" if she knew I was going by myself. "Occasionally" is a few times a year on "guy" trips.