All time favorite
Timex345
Illinois
I broke up with my all time favorite girl this weekend. Too bad. She had potential.
I have known her for awhile. I have known for over a year now that she has a "man" as
she puts it. I had always enjoyed her company. But, visiting with her became like nails on
a chalkboard way back when I was in grade school. I made the mistake of giving her my
number. I always like the freedom of the no strings attached aspects of the showclub.
She would typically text me, never a call, on Monday telling me should would like to see me that week.
It was like clock work. I could set my watch to her Monday texts. I imagine she just sent a mass text to all
of her regulars setting up visits. I understand. Smart move on her part. I just decided to move on this past
Friday. I knew I should not have visitied her. But. I said I would so I hoped things would change.
They did not. She ruined the fantasy by talking about her man. I thought. Well, I am done. Her private
dances were always lame. She would grind on me for a little bit. She would always over charge me by one dance.
She would essentially give me one long hug for the time she "danced" for me. I go to showclubs to escape.
I constantly had to hear about her spoiled daughter. She is hot as hell and very outgoing. She is the perfect
entertainer. But, someone even gets tired of having sex with Halle Berry. It just became an annoyance
to be contacted every week by someone who would never be my girlfriend. I like to make unplanned visits
to showclubs and buy dances from girls spontaneously. She also informed me she doesn't do OTC.
I deleted her number from my phone. I won't respond to her future texts. She's gone.
I feel free again. I don't worry about her. She makes in two days what it takes me two weeks to bring in.
Also, she non - chalantly told me that if a customer no longer likes her and doesn't want to buy dances
from her it is fine with her. That was my out. I am dumping her guilt free. I did not tell her of my plans.
I am just becoming a ghost. I am afraid I will lose my temper and say some mean things to her.
Better to leave without a confrontation. She is on a hunting trip with her man this week.
Maybe they will shoot each other in a hunting accident. I hated hearing go on about how she lived
in Chicago, Miami. I get it. Your life is great. Mine sucks.
This really is just a rant not a discussion. I had to get this out.
I use this web site about showclubs as a way to talk about my experiences at showclubs.
My friends and family are very anti - adult entertainment. So, save me the personal attacks
and putdowns. By the way, I am not a professional writer. I hope this helps someone.
Chances are I won't even read the responses to this post.
I have known her for awhile. I have known for over a year now that she has a "man" as
she puts it. I had always enjoyed her company. But, visiting with her became like nails on
a chalkboard way back when I was in grade school. I made the mistake of giving her my
number. I always like the freedom of the no strings attached aspects of the showclub.
She would typically text me, never a call, on Monday telling me should would like to see me that week.
It was like clock work. I could set my watch to her Monday texts. I imagine she just sent a mass text to all
of her regulars setting up visits. I understand. Smart move on her part. I just decided to move on this past
Friday. I knew I should not have visitied her. But. I said I would so I hoped things would change.
They did not. She ruined the fantasy by talking about her man. I thought. Well, I am done. Her private
dances were always lame. She would grind on me for a little bit. She would always over charge me by one dance.
She would essentially give me one long hug for the time she "danced" for me. I go to showclubs to escape.
I constantly had to hear about her spoiled daughter. She is hot as hell and very outgoing. She is the perfect
entertainer. But, someone even gets tired of having sex with Halle Berry. It just became an annoyance
to be contacted every week by someone who would never be my girlfriend. I like to make unplanned visits
to showclubs and buy dances from girls spontaneously. She also informed me she doesn't do OTC.
I deleted her number from my phone. I won't respond to her future texts. She's gone.
I feel free again. I don't worry about her. She makes in two days what it takes me two weeks to bring in.
Also, she non - chalantly told me that if a customer no longer likes her and doesn't want to buy dances
from her it is fine with her. That was my out. I am dumping her guilt free. I did not tell her of my plans.
I am just becoming a ghost. I am afraid I will lose my temper and say some mean things to her.
Better to leave without a confrontation. She is on a hunting trip with her man this week.
Maybe they will shoot each other in a hunting accident. I hated hearing go on about how she lived
in Chicago, Miami. I get it. Your life is great. Mine sucks.
This really is just a rant not a discussion. I had to get this out.
I use this web site about showclubs as a way to talk about my experiences at showclubs.
My friends and family are very anti - adult entertainment. So, save me the personal attacks
and putdowns. By the way, I am not a professional writer. I hope this helps someone.
Chances are I won't even read the responses to this post.
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Thanks for sharing your experience with us and yes it does resonate with me so thank you once again for sharing
You are talking like you had a long time relationship with her and she acted like you were a customer. Even though you won't read this I hope you learn from this experience and don't make these mistakes again with the next dancer you fall for.
A) A whore fucks anybody A slut fucks anybody
but you.
I agree with others: Your ex-ATF gave lame dances (mostly just hugging you), consistently overcharged you, and incessantly talked about "her man". Good riddance!
But you won't read this :)
Strippers are not meant to be romantic interests – i.e. don't get emotionally attached or try to make them a substitute for a girlfriend; if you do; you will end up broke and w/ nothing to show up for it since she'll just move to the next custy(s).
Just like customers have significant others; so do strippers – too many of us often times give all the control to the dancers even though we are the one paying – so we are simultaneously paying them and doing what please *them* instead of them doing what pleases us.
One needs to be assertive in a strip-club (or in life in general); if not one is often taken advantage off and walked all over (especially in a strip-club).
If you keep doing what you've been doing; you'll keep getting the same results.
But it's your fault. Reading between the lines, you had expectations of her being FWB, while to her you're just another customer so your feelings are hurt. Plus, she cheats you out of money! I have found over the years that if I enjoy my faves for how they treat me ITC (and quickly dump girls like your ex-ATF), it doesn't matter if they don't want to get to know me OTC. And every now and then, you get surprised! My CF has no deire for any OTC, and she's still my CF because I accept that. I'm not hoping to change her mind.
https://youtu.be/269S4WgPWOw
IMO comments made to an OP also help others reading the thread – so the comments may not be in vain – I assume there are a fair # of lurkers on the discussion board that like to read the info but not participate/comment