Taking a break
JamesSD
California
I haven't been to a strip club in two weeks. I know that sounds short to some of you, but frankly I often just pop in for lunch and to see who is new and working days. Or I'll try to make it in on the weekend.
My favorite civvy has stepped up her game lately. We're actively looking for a three some (the good kind) third. In the club I probably wouldn't look at my civvy side piece twice. But considering she gives me the full GFE for free with legitimate no strings? I can settle for a 30 year old 6.
I also have had a couple financial setbacks. My phone broke and laptop died within the past three weeks. I spent about $1,000 on clubbing the last year. I know that's chump change to many of you, but it's hard not to think about what else I could have spent that on. Arguably only half of it was money well spent.
Not sure how long this break will last. For the short run I'm gonna hold off on clubbing unless it sounds like a really good idea. Lately that just hasn't been true.
My favorite civvy has stepped up her game lately. We're actively looking for a three some (the good kind) third. In the club I probably wouldn't look at my civvy side piece twice. But considering she gives me the full GFE for free with legitimate no strings? I can settle for a 30 year old 6.
I also have had a couple financial setbacks. My phone broke and laptop died within the past three weeks. I spent about $1,000 on clubbing the last year. I know that's chump change to many of you, but it's hard not to think about what else I could have spent that on. Arguably only half of it was money well spent.
Not sure how long this break will last. For the short run I'm gonna hold off on clubbing unless it sounds like a really good idea. Lately that just hasn't been true.
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For me it's often hardest to strop rather than hardest to stay away the longer I haven't gone – I guess same can be said for many habits.
I would assume that 99% of guys that visit SCs worry and beat themselves up over the $$$ spent – but – that is what $$$ is for – to be used for things one needs and wants – if you only had one month to live would you be regretting the $$$ spent in SCs or reminiscing at the good times you had?
I guess there is no easy answer w.r.t. going/not-going; spending/not-spending; perhaps the old saying “everything in moderation” may apply.
I do find it that I often go for the sake of going/boredom and thus don't get as much of my money's worth or excitement from it – but when I'm in the mood to go and it's a good visit; it feels like money well-spent.
I don't think I'm done with the hobby. Like any hobby, interest can wax and wane. Of my last four trips, one was good, one was okay and two were dull. Naked dancing chicks bored me. I didn't like feeling that way.
I'll be back the next time I feel a strong urge.
I've taken a break too.
Mostly because I do not have the funds right now for, (in my mind) a good time.
If I don't have the $ to go to a club and be able to spend enough on a dancer I find attractive, then I'd rather just go to a neighborhood bar and have a few beers and watch the games rather than sit at a strip club and watch girls that I know I can't have.
Although, as soon as I'm able, I'll be back in the SC. I don't really miss it right now, but it hasn't been all that long since I've gone.
I'll be back.
I wish I had your discipline. When I first read it, I thought it as $10,000
There's a dancer I've done VIP with several times whose beauty takes my breath away. I've had limited success with extras (HJ & DATY) and feel with more time and familiarity there's more to be had, but time and familiarity cost money. So, slow and easy. Yesterday she texted me her work schedule for the coming week and I'm so looking forward to spending time with her that I'll find a way.
YTD, I have spent $15,000 on my CF on lap dances alone. She offers no extras. Good thing I only spend on one dancer.