Accounting for the Costs of Strip Clubbing / Hobbying
Player11
Texas
Friday, June 5, 2015 4:12 PM
I keep a spreadsheet of strip club / hobbying costs for a particular year.
Costs are recapped by girl, club, date, activity. Direct costs are associated with sex sessions. Indirect (Exploration Costs are associated with tips, dances, etc. You can get as detailed as you like. Each session has commentary and performance data relative to what I think is important. It is highly recommended this be kept password protected. You can track how many girls you did that year and how many sessions per each one, cost, etc. Excel is an amazing analytical tool and all kinda things can be graphed. This can be a horrifying thing seeing how it all adds up. An entry might record a session with Ann, a 32 year old stripper. It will indicate that you had sex (A) and she got you off with intercourse (B) or a hand job was necessary C). It might mention she modeled monokini and there were photos taken. The amount is given too. I know one guy who recorded how long it took them to get him off with stop watch during one year. If the financial result total bothers you or makes you wonder learn how to say no. Lean times could be ahead in the futue and you don't to wake one morning regretting the spending on this. I urge you stick to a budget and if necessary to stick to it take a time out, tell them your out of town, etc.
I wonder if you keep records of costs like I do and does it ever stress you out when you look at totals. Some guys do 1-2 sessions a month, others 4-5, some more. Which one are you. If you are starting to feel addicted, horrified at prior years totals, knock it down to 1-2 sessions a month and spend the remainder on some investment. IMO a standard cost for sessions (sex session at home or notel) with a stripper or CV (catalog value) is 150-200. Anything above that unless some cheerleader one time thing your getting screwed.
Do your numbers make you uneasy?
Are you spending like tomorrow is going to be another good day?
Have you had a warning or wake up call about it? This could be supernatural - dream, micro wave beeping for no reason, etc. It could be a friend you have seen fall into financial ruin bc of hobbying, addiction. A stripper once told me "I have seen them come in here with their pension check to spend here at the club." Or someone could comment about your strip club junkie frined "he is an old fool and will drag you down with him." Do you heed these warnings or shrug them off?
Are you caving into ATF demands which are draining your money especially over a period of time? Does she have emotional hold on you?
Are you so well off this is not an issue for you? Your investments more than finance it.
Do you feel death is near and spending not a concern?
Do you wake up at 430 am with worry about how long your job or career will go?
Do you simply live for now and tomorrow is of no worry?
this is for guys who are serious payers - some use the word players but sound of money leaving my pocket probably means played not player
Costs are recapped by girl, club, date, activity. Direct costs are associated with sex sessions. Indirect (Exploration Costs are associated with tips, dances, etc. You can get as detailed as you like. Each session has commentary and performance data relative to what I think is important. It is highly recommended this be kept password protected. You can track how many girls you did that year and how many sessions per each one, cost, etc. Excel is an amazing analytical tool and all kinda things can be graphed. This can be a horrifying thing seeing how it all adds up. An entry might record a session with Ann, a 32 year old stripper. It will indicate that you had sex (A) and she got you off with intercourse (B) or a hand job was necessary C). It might mention she modeled monokini and there were photos taken. The amount is given too. I know one guy who recorded how long it took them to get him off with stop watch during one year. If the financial result total bothers you or makes you wonder learn how to say no. Lean times could be ahead in the futue and you don't to wake one morning regretting the spending on this. I urge you stick to a budget and if necessary to stick to it take a time out, tell them your out of town, etc.
I wonder if you keep records of costs like I do and does it ever stress you out when you look at totals. Some guys do 1-2 sessions a month, others 4-5, some more. Which one are you. If you are starting to feel addicted, horrified at prior years totals, knock it down to 1-2 sessions a month and spend the remainder on some investment. IMO a standard cost for sessions (sex session at home or notel) with a stripper or CV (catalog value) is 150-200. Anything above that unless some cheerleader one time thing your getting screwed.
Do your numbers make you uneasy?
Are you spending like tomorrow is going to be another good day?
Have you had a warning or wake up call about it? This could be supernatural - dream, micro wave beeping for no reason, etc. It could be a friend you have seen fall into financial ruin bc of hobbying, addiction. A stripper once told me "I have seen them come in here with their pension check to spend here at the club." Or someone could comment about your strip club junkie frined "he is an old fool and will drag you down with him." Do you heed these warnings or shrug them off?
Are you caving into ATF demands which are draining your money especially over a period of time? Does she have emotional hold on you?
Are you so well off this is not an issue for you? Your investments more than finance it.
Do you feel death is near and spending not a concern?
Do you wake up at 430 am with worry about how long your job or career will go?
Do you simply live for now and tomorrow is of no worry?
this is for guys who are serious payers - some use the word players but sound of money leaving my pocket probably means played not player
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Player, you cited 150-200. How much time is that typically for?
I've never budgeted for anything in my life but I'm a saver (vs a risk taker) by nature (since I was a little kid and w/o anyone telling me to do so).
I've never coveted material things not b/c I “wanna be a humble person” - it's just my nature/wiring – I've always been genuinely content having what I need vs trying to get all there is to get.
I developed a “taste” for SCs at age 30 (currently 45) and that is my major expense as I am single w/ no kids and have low living expenses.
Over time and especially the last 2 years I def have spent more than I am comfortable with/and-should but have had a great time doing it for the most part.
I agree that budgeting is good and so is letting the #s tell the truth; but that just takes the fun out of living and SCing in particular.
Often I think “saving for a rainy day” is a should/must – but then again if something is going to happen is going to happen and it may not happen (i.e. not SCing is not going to stop w/e had may happen) – so might as well enjoy myself b/c tomorrow is not promised (health; death; etc) - not saying my views are the correct ones – just my current views which are subject to change.
So I know exactly how much I spend. The amount doesn't make me uneasy because I can afford it. I spend about half my discretionary funds on strippers. Looking at 2014, I see that my stripper-related expenses were more than my gross income 30 years ago.
My biggest problem is that I manage to forget to enter one or two expenses each month so my spread sheet doesn't match my bank statement... then I wind up pissing away a shit load of time trying to figure out what I f-ed up.
What I spend on the hobby is SIGNIFICANTLY less that what getting married would end up costing me.
My nightmares do sometimes involve work and then I want to quit and move. So far, they have just been bad dreams.
The possibility of being sucked and fucked by a girl 41,42,43 years younger than me..
I refuse to put a price tag, on prime pussy like that..
I'm dropping about 2k a month on strippers
I tend to keep very close track of all the *required* expenses, and pay very little attention to the exact magnitude of the rest.
Don't make that mistake in the first place.
Name the file ANYTHING except "DS Expense"
This spread sheet business takes all the fun and adventure out of it for me. The only spread sheet I want to see is the one with her laying naked on it and legs spread saying " Fuck Me Baby Fuck Me !"
Name the file ANYTHING except "DS Expense"
Brilliant points!