What's your exit strategy?
someguy360
Texas
When do you think you'll call it quits? Hang up your scing career for good? A certain age perhaps? Maybe go from club to club downing viagra and fucking strippers til your heart or wallet gives out? For me i think it will be when the girls would be the same age as my grand kids but at only 21 maybe mu opinion will change with age. Just curious what your guys end game is.
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Why does one need to “give it up”? What are you going to replace it with? Where else is an avg guy; especially an older guy; going to have young beautiful naked women all over him and in some cases fucking him and giving him a blowjob?
Most of us SC b/c we have a need that is being met by the SC –for many, if you stop SCing then all you are left is your needs being unmet (i.e. blue-balls).
if one thinks they should stop SCing b/c somehow it’s a problem; I suggest that SCing is not really the problem but a symptom of the true problem. One SCs for a reason; if one stops SCing it does not mean that reason goes away.
Maybe it should be looked at from a different perspective – i.e. why not take advantage of what we have instead of looking for reasons why we should stop going – enjoy it while you can b/c tomorrow is not promised to anyone.
One day we may not be able to SC even if we want to either b/c of health or financial reasons; etc – so why not do it while we can – when you are 80; are you going to think back about all the $$$ that you saved from not SCing and feel good about that; or are you going to look back at the memories of SCing and have a smile in your toothless mouth :).
My comments are not meant as gospel; just some food for thought.
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In other places, the women lead normal lives, and they have normative ideas. So basically they are useless.
SJG
I've said before that I think I'll go until I don't believe the girls could actually be interested in me anymore for anything other than my cash. I know that's probably all they're interested in from me now, but at least I'm still young enough (32) and baby-faced enough to think a 20-something chick might think I'm doable with enough drinks in her. When I feel to fat or wrinkly for that to even seem plausible, then I'm not going to try and pay someone to try and b.s. me and my ego when I don't even believe it when I try to b.s. myself.
1. I die
2. I get married
3. I find something more interesting to spend money on.
At this point, I am going with #1.
Is Viagra the primary reason for the proliferation of UHM strip clubs?
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SJG
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Do you mean that you don't use Viagra? I never have either. But I am also not what I was 15 years ago. The issue is just that I think that most of the change is psychological, from tough experiences in relating to women.
But do you think that the behavioral change which has resulted from the existence of such drugs is a big part of why these UHM strip clubs exist?
SJG
This is the comment to which I was referring. Sorry for not making that clear.
I have no contempt for marriage, neither with regard to my own, nor marriage in general. I *do* fee some contempt for those people who insist that there is only one type of legitimate marriage, and that all others are abominations. Despite history.
So then I am assuming that you have no serious negative issues about your own marriage, and that you are adamant that marriage can work in various ways, according to the desires of the two adult partners.
Since you mention your own marriage, may I be so bold as to ask, are you straight with your spouse about all that you do with strippers?
Do you think marital partners need to always be straight with each other?
Do you think marriage is at least potentially a very dangerous trap, if not for you, then for most people?
SJG
Yes. In general. I don't share specifics of who and what, except for one case.
Yes. I also think any marriage in which that isn't true is doomed to failure, sooner or later.
Yes.
That's the time I will hang it.
Thanks,
SJG
"I *do* feel some contempt for those people who insist that there is only one type of legitimate marriage, and that all others are abominations. Despite history. "
With me and my ex-wife, I wanted our marriage to be a partnership. By this I mean two adults who were consenting to work together and make life good. I specifically wanted insulation from what the media and other outside people were putting out, as I saw that to be corrosive.
But I did accept monogamy as a necessary concession. I would be faithful to her, as I knew that she could not live in a situation where that was absent.
But I did not want to be having to "keep up with the Joneses" and I did not want her to be always under the influence of her friends.
But none of this worked. She was actually a conduit for me to be continually subjected to pressure and invalidation of all types.
I was usually not 100% faithful. I went to our no touching strip clubs and to AMPs. But for long intervals I even stopped this. I tried to make it work with her. But no matter what, she just was not willing to actually be a partner. She would not allow us to be two people who communicated openly and found ways to resolve our differences, and then supported each other.
No, she always operated by pressure tactics and by not communicating and keeping her intentions hidden, and she was always being influenced by advertising, and especially by her friends. It became a nightmare. I did everything in my power to try and make it work. I held out the olive branch. But at the same time in the end I worked to have her removed from the home and made subject to court orders.
So George, if you have got something which really works, in any form that two adults are comfortable with, that is fantastic.
SJG