Is there any chance that she's telling me the truth?
JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
We are going to VIP, and I find out that she just got out of VIP with some loser. She realizes that I'm thinking, "I don't want sloppy seconds" so she volunteers that she doesn't have sex in the VIP with anyone but me. My brain automatically translates this into StripperSpeak as either "I don't have sex with everyone in the VIP," or "I didn't give the last guy a blowjob like I will for you," or "I don't want to admit that I have sex with everyone in the VIP because that would make me feel like a prostitute." However, another part of my brain says this might be true because:
1. I pay her a very substantial premium for her services. Most PLs would not match what I pay.
2. The club is known for being strictly no extras. I read the recent reviews to confirm that nothing has changed, and the PLs are consistent -- pretty low mileage and absolutely no extras allowed. I'm still not sure how we get away with it, but I find it hard to believe that she could do this frequently without at least pissing off management and other dancers.
3. She's always been honest with me to date as best I can tell, even though I'm looking for and expect lies.
4. She's still new, so maybe she hasn't learned StripperSpeak yet.
Do you think she might be telling the truth, or is everything that comes out of a dancers mouth necessarily and always StripperSpeak?
1. I pay her a very substantial premium for her services. Most PLs would not match what I pay.
2. The club is known for being strictly no extras. I read the recent reviews to confirm that nothing has changed, and the PLs are consistent -- pretty low mileage and absolutely no extras allowed. I'm still not sure how we get away with it, but I find it hard to believe that she could do this frequently without at least pissing off management and other dancers.
3. She's always been honest with me to date as best I can tell, even though I'm looking for and expect lies.
4. She's still new, so maybe she hasn't learned StripperSpeak yet.
Do you think she might be telling the truth, or is everything that comes out of a dancers mouth necessarily and always StripperSpeak?
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I've said that many times, it's funny, and it's very often true. But at this point I still hold out hope that it doesn't always have to be true.
Dawg. Yes I posted Penthouse forum worthy stories.
SC, good advice. I chose to believe her unless proven wrong. Theres no harm in occasionally believing the best in someone, including a stripper, even though I know that I could be wrong.
Steve, under that principle, I think it requires more assumptions about her to believe that she is fucking others. However, the problem with that analysis is that we all know that our assumptions about strippers are almost always true. So I'm not sure I take a lot of confidence in the principle under these circumstances. Did Ocklam go to strip clubs?
Scman. my fault for not mentioning that obvious consideration. I did not taste or feel any remnants from the VIP predecessor
That's the part of your brain that cooks up rationalizations. It makes you feel good about things that you'd rather not face honestly. Strippers are adept at playing to it.
If you examine them closely, you'll realize they are all assumptions on your part
[After all, you didn't really believe it when she told you that she was single and happy that she met someone like you so that she could have sex again, right? ;) ]
Maybe if she wouldn't have gotten greedy and say it was only you the chances would have been higher. I might believe she didn't fuck the dude immediately before. Maybe he didn't want to, or couldn't afford to, or whatever. An isolated incident of "not" doing it is believable. To think its the other way around just doesn't seem likely.
I do believe though that part of what is letting her be so good with you is just that she can tell that you really like her.
SJG
So are you telling me that it really is true that before your Stripper without Blemish did your BBBJTCIMWS VIP dance, that she really never had done a "full contact" LD or any VIP dances, and that her talking about Evangelical Christianity was not just something she tries out on guys who look like they might be receptive to it?
I do really believe that she is able to be open and sexually really good with you because she can tell that you really like her, and that it is not just because you are paying well.
SJG
What's the traffic like in that VIP room? If it's looking like one guy at a time, you might want to keep an eye on who the dancers talk to before and after using the room, mainly bouncers or management, just to see if they're giving a cut of their money from extras to the house.
Good luck, John. I hope we won't soon be seeing a thread called "How I Broke up with my Dream Stripper."
How do you know when either one is lying?
When they open their mouth.
Geez! Talk about prescient, PG.
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