Pet peeve
mayberrywell
North Carolina
I know it has been said many times, many way, but I strongly dislike lazy strippers! Recent trip during the day, 6-7 strippers working, when not on stage they all sat together at the bar and drank. While 5 guys sat alone watching the stage show. One by one each guy( me included) took bills to the stage, each girl left the stage and joined the gaggle at the bar. As I left I asked the manager how the club was doing, " slow" was his answer. Why? Lazy strippers!
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+ there are lazy people in all kinds of jobs – why not strippers?
+ in some clubs – mainly dives IME – dancers get way more No’s than Yes’s for dance requests – this can have an effect on their motivation?
+ some dancers may only hustle when it’s busy (e.g. weekend nights; etc.) and may feel it’s not worth to hustle on slow times?
Makes one think why they are there if they are not going to be trying to make $$$? – maybe b/c the club forces them to be there a certain # of hours/shifts?
I was a mid-tier club a while back down here in Miami (Showgirls) – the DJ announced a 2-for-1 and then told the dancers over the mic they would be fined if they were not circulating asking custies if they wanted the 2-for-1.
In the situation you mentioned, that's really tacky for the d.j. to announce over the PA system that the dancers will be fined for not circulating. A discreet note posted in the dressing room should suffice. Another good reason to do away with deejays.
Not much bothers me in clubs anymore. One of my few remaining pet peeves is when girls don't do a proper stage set. If they refuse to take off what they are supposed to, or decide to mail it in by just standing around or waggling their asses, then they are dead to me. There are a few clubs I visit every so often where it is exactly like that with almost every dancer. I walk out with almost all the money I walked in with and, if I am approached by one of these rocket scientists, I send her away fast.
Why I visit you may ask. Every once in a while you find the gem and then rarely have any competition to land her. Usually a $5 on stage will do the trick. Or for her, I make the exception and ask the dancer or "chase" her down.
I've tried the same, but that didn't work in the clubs I visit. They would come up and still annoy.
Where in Florida was this? I had that happen in a club, but that was about 40 years ago. I was in a club and a woman was there. Unheard of back then. She sat by me and without much other than a hello, made her sales pitch. I figured LEO and just said not interested.
In my club I see the same issue with a select group of girls. But keep in mind, these are the same girls who complain at the end of their shift that they didn't make a dime, and they really need to go to another club. Strangely enough, I keep moving all night long, and rarely comes the time that I feel the need to complain. If there is a night that I feel I came up short, I can usually look back and place the blame right onto myself. We are in a service industry. It requires that we actually work, and not sit on our butts, at the end of the bar drinking. I don't know very many of my regular clients, out-of-town customers, or people just passing through that come to my club to watch the bright, pretty lights, the smoke machine, and a group of antisocial, half drunk females, sitting 100 feet away at the corner of the bar.
I'm at the club to provide a service. And that service is entertainment and experience. But maybe that's the difference… I'm a self-motivated individual, who takes pride in her work, and continues to build up regular clients, based not just on my body and my ability to do tricks on a brass pole, but because of my personality, dedication to my craft, and my ability to provide that experience that my customers expect. A little work ethic doesnt hurt either...
I used to be more pro-active in the early days, but rarely did chasing or waiting for a girl yield a positive experience for me. More often than not, I ended up with girls who had feelings of entitlement, or who were shy and boring, all of which led to lower mileage and fewer opportunities. Hell no, no more.
I'll take a good looking hungry and motivated gal over the other option any day, regardless of how hot the lazy girls are. And if there isn't a motivated girl in the entire club, then they can all go home without my money in their pockets. There is always tomorrow. ;)
Is this during the day during slow times?