OTC with strippers
Clackport
Washington
I have done OTC with strippers before, but never P4P. I think that is all about to change.
There is this one stripper that literally has me drooling every time I see her on stage. Her face is ok, maybe like a 7 or 8, but her body is out of this world (10+). She is probably in her early thirties. I have talked to her a couple of times, and she literally has nothing going on in her head. I have a good feeling she fucks customers. I don't want to hang out with her, I just want to fuck her in the near future. I don't feel like trying to work my game on her, I just want her to fuck me for cash.
My question to you TUSCLers is where you do you fuck strippers OTC?
So far all the strippers I've fucked have been at my house or her house, and it's never been a problem. For the most part I get to know them a little before I fuck them. None of them ever stole my stuff or brought their pimp or anything like that.
I'm thinking that I should I fuck this stripper at a hotel since it will be a business transaction, but call me a cheapskate because I don't feel like paying for a hotel room. I wouldn't mind fucking her at her place, but you never what could happen at a hooker's place. I don't mind fucking her at my place, but I would think you have to be extra careful with girls that fuck for money bringing them over to your place. They might steal your stuff or maybe bring a pimp along. Plus I'm not sure if I want her knowing where I live.
Thoughts?
There is this one stripper that literally has me drooling every time I see her on stage. Her face is ok, maybe like a 7 or 8, but her body is out of this world (10+). She is probably in her early thirties. I have talked to her a couple of times, and she literally has nothing going on in her head. I have a good feeling she fucks customers. I don't want to hang out with her, I just want to fuck her in the near future. I don't feel like trying to work my game on her, I just want her to fuck me for cash.
My question to you TUSCLers is where you do you fuck strippers OTC?
So far all the strippers I've fucked have been at my house or her house, and it's never been a problem. For the most part I get to know them a little before I fuck them. None of them ever stole my stuff or brought their pimp or anything like that.
I'm thinking that I should I fuck this stripper at a hotel since it will be a business transaction, but call me a cheapskate because I don't feel like paying for a hotel room. I wouldn't mind fucking her at her place, but you never what could happen at a hooker's place. I don't mind fucking her at my place, but I would think you have to be extra careful with girls that fuck for money bringing them over to your place. They might steal your stuff or maybe bring a pimp along. Plus I'm not sure if I want her knowing where I live.
Thoughts?
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Then I stopped being so paranoid and have just had them over to my place ever since. Never any problems with them or psycho boyfriends. If you are worried about it though, I think former member "dalex" said you might say something supposedly off the cuff to give them a hint that you have the potential to go psycho if they should mess with your stuff by stealing, etc. Probably overkill - so just an idea. :-)
One up to that would be cheap inns and motels, one of them I went to was at Deluxe Inn Motel at SE 69th Powel Blvd. Paid about $55, still high end for me, though.
We did one day roadtrips, paid normal prices at Motel 6 and Super 8's. She never bitched about it. Still behaving good. So far so good.
She never complained, as this is my test how she will react, if she gets bitchy then this is the end of the road for us.
Look online for “hourly motels†in yo area – you may find some decent enough for maybe $30 for an hour or 2.
Sounds like this one is better: If she goes out with you, there is always this chance she will stick to you no matter what. It's a girl thing, you F her she will stick around for you and your money.
Take her anywhere you like the second time, no problemo amigo.
My suggestion would be go to priceline or Hotwire and get a room. If you're looking to just fuck then most hotels on there are acceptable. Looking for somewhere where you know you won't get bed bugs then go with at least a 3-star. If you want to look somewhat impressive do not bid/buy anything under 3.5 stars. Typically you should be able to get a decent room for around $60, and rates are usually cheaper on the weekends (Friday and Saturday) unless you're living in a tourist dominated town.
As for not wanting to pay for a room, if it were me I'd much rather pay $60 to fuck someone in a clean hotel room versus the back seat of my car, but to each his own. If you start negotiations and her price is high, maybe you can throw in the bargaining chip that you have to pay for room adding more costs to you - maybe she'll brings her price down.
And how about the question of how she will get to your rendezvous site? If she is driving a hotel may be best. If you pick her up and drive her then your place might work fine. The cost of a room can be held to a minimum if you look hard enough. Rooms near the airport or downtown are usually more expensive. Those in the suburbs less so. Just search through options on line and something suitable will show up, even if you have to drive a bit further.
Or you could always take her to a secluded park along with a blanket and have an outdoor experience! Don't knock it until you've tried it. Ifyou drive a pickup truck you have a built in bed!
My house is best. I don't worry about pimps. I lock my doors and I have several firearms handy.
If I was single, I wouldn't have any problem with using my house. I would just stay alert while she was there, which is the same thing that I do in my hotel rooms anyway, and I never let them stay the night in any event.
I have used my car a few times, but fucking in the back seat of a car, even an SUV, sucks. I remember one summer night a few years ago when I had to stick my head partially out of one window just to get the best angle, lmao. It was kinda' fun in a way, but I'm getting a little too old for that shit now. I also did it in their homes a couple of times, but the two girls involved lived in sorry enough conditions that I found those experiences to be a little depressing.
If you are getting into the P4P game you can't start to worry about the pennies.
What do you do when all of the hotels in the area around the club are sold out? What if the cheapest room available is as much or more than what you are paying for the sex itself? Do you pass, or take the chance of doing it in your home or hers?
Those situations are how I ended up doing the one off situations I mentioned above in my car or their homes.
I don't know about you boys and girls, but a lot of my OTC activities are game time decisions. I'm not big on pre-planning, nor can a lot of these girls be counted on to stick to a plan made one to several days prior. I've also eaten enough hotel room charges over the last several years, for events that did not come to fruition, that I am no longer inclined to pre-book a room before I get same night confirmation.
So instead I end up booking the room that night, often on my phone while I am sitting in the club. But, of course, the risk in doing so is that, every so often, rooms will not be available.
Find a room and do the deed. Over and over until she cannot work until the next day. And when she does go back to work she'll still be sore from your romp.
As for me I always have a hotel room so that's the easiest for me, when traveling I try to get a nice room as close to the club(s) I want to go to for convenience as well. If I feel like drinking I take a cab to the club and that could be a hinderance to going to a strippers residence as well. Frankly when I have done that in the past, more times than not the strippers residence is not up to par on the shailynn sterilization scale and at times I was uncomfy even sitting on the bed. Amazes me how some people are so well put together in person but their living conditions are so nasty. In my experiences it has been rare that a dancer has left with me, usually that's because of club policies.
Safety is another issue and by going my hotel room route that eliminates a lot of those concerns.
One lesson I've learned, I used to go to a club early (around 9pm) hang out for awhile and negotiate OTC for when the dancer would get off her shift (usually around 2 or 3 am). I would sleep and set an alarm for a little before the agreed meeting time to get cleaned up. This worked great for awhile but dancers would back out too frequently leaving me high and dry. I chalked this up as usually the dancer was too tired after her shift or made enough money during her shift not to have to mess with me or wanted to go party after her shift. I was always smart enough not to give any Monday for a "down payment" up front, but my success rate was at about 50% and that wasn't good enough for me.
I've done my house with strippers I know VERY well. Beyond that, both in the case of my house (steal my stuff? Come back and be a nuisance? case the place for her pimp to hit later? etc) and her place (bf unexpectedly comes home? etc), the risk far exceeds the small monetary advantage. We all have our risk tolerances, but to me, just a bad choice to invite someone into my house who I don't really know.
As I said, scout out some hot tub places in advance, if you can find a nice clean one, it's a pretty good deal. I found a nice one in my area, always feels clean, we can shower before and after, costs only $40 and I pay cash with no ID needed. I'll typically meet her at the bar around the corner for drinks first so we can get a bit liquored up.
Hotels are definitely the best choice when you can find an affordable one. YOu can sometimes find dayrates at hotels near airports. I don't worry about how close the hotel is to the stripclub, since Uber is so fucking awesome.
The cost of the motel/hotel room is just part of the cost of doing business. If you're gonna sweat it, you might want to reconsider play for pay.
There have been several incidents in Portland the last decade where the OTC exchange has turned into robbery or in the case of Jessica Ryman (she propositioned me a few times, my spideysense told me to pass), murder during a botched robbery.