Prostitute vs dancer
Shekitout
South Carolina
I was at my favorite club & got a 2 for 1 with this cute as a button dancer only 4'8" tall & a fantastic body. I squeezed a breast at the beginning of the first song and commented to her that I liked natural boobs. Everytime I would try to feel her breast after that she would push my hand away. At the end of the dances I said " gather you don't like your boobs touched" She responded "I'm not a prostitute, I'm a dancer. Excuse me! She was rubbing that fantastic butt all over my crotch thru the 2 songs and would lie across my legs and rub her crotch on my crotch, so does that make her a prostitute and not a dancer? Comments from dancers & customers are welcome. Stay off this topic, RL.
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I've had fun at clubs where I knew many of the strippers 'like to play', as they put it, but without going for FS. Most of the time, that's how I approach getting a lap dance.
For example, I was in Houston Saturday afternoon at Treasures and I decided to get a set of 2 dances from a hot looking dancer. Anyway, she let me suck on her tits and feel her ass, which is what most clubs allow in that town, and she was grinding me good. Now here comes the odd part: she asked me after the two songs "Did I want to play?"
I turned her down, even though I was tempted. I was mildly surprised because I didn't even ask for anything approaching full service when I met her, but I surmise that since many clubs in H-Town do offer the full menu, she was checking to see if I would do too.
Besides, even though I had a raincoat available, I didn't go to Treasures to f++k, when you can go to spas for less cash for the same thing.
BTW, what's you favorite Providence Club? I haven't been there lately and am out of touch.
Concuct during a lap dance is pretty simple. You let the dancer call the shots. If you are respectfull and clean she will put forth her best effort in order to get as much of your money as possible. If you don't like what she does or allows you to do on the first dance then don't buy another one. The wildest experiences I have ever had in an LD where all initiated by the dancer and always within the first song.
Yoda, you're response sounded angry even if you didn't mean it that way.
i'm not saying that i think it's ok to hit everyone who pisses you off. but strippers do put themselves in a very vulnerable situation, and security can't be there all the time. because i'm very very strict on my no contact rule, i have to be constantly alert and watching the guys hands. i think if a customer actually touched me between the legs, i'd kill them.
if someone tried to sexually abuse me in the street, at a nightclub, anywhere, i'd hit them or fight back. i'm very clear at the beginning of a dance about my rules, there's signs posted all over the club and in the LD rooms reading "strictly no touching the girls at all times" and they announce it over the microphone all the time. but if some asshole STILL can't get it that he's not allowed to touch me after all that, then i think he deserves a smack in the face.
LapFanM20: I agree with you that dancers should be disciplined for abusing customers. Why shouldn't customers be held to the same standard?
If a customer gets out of line it is the bouncers job to handle that customer (and a bouncer who hits or punches a customer without provication is not only in risk of getting fired, but arrested for assult as well)
Plus the club owbers really dont like the cops having to come to the club, hey to many calls constitutes a public nuisance and the place gets closed on a permanate basis.
Another dancer said she didn't like her breast touched too much so I didn't touch them too much but when I did touch them she didn't slap or punch me or kick me in the balls. Actually she said nothing to me wqhen I did feel her breasts.
When you've touched, kissed or sucked on a nipple were you asked to do so by the dancer or did you ask permission to do so?
In strip club terms, I seek restaurants; what you describe are food museums.
makes me realise how naive i am to it all... i honestly had no idea that there were clubs like that out there. i don't understand why girls would bother stripping somewhere like that and doing that kind of stuff... why not just be an escort or work in a massage place or something? i dunno... it all kinda fascinates me really
seriously, from what i've read on here and on the stripperweb forums, i think i was working at the tamest strip club on the planet!
i'm going to be completely honest and say right away that from what i've read in the other topics, i'm the kind of stripper that the majority of you would hate. i'm constantly using the "i'm a dancer, not a prositute" line. why? because that's exactly how it is, for me anyway. at the club i worked at, in south australia, any kind of contact is STRICTLY forbidden. if a guy was to grab my breast during a dance, i'd kick the shit out of him. but then again, i don't "grind" on laps. i don't dirty talk or nibble ears or let anyone lay so much as a finger on any part of my body. i have never met a customer OTC for anything, i don't discuss my sex life with customers. in the private lap room, i dance seductively while taking my clothes off. yeah i'll sit on his lap but i certainly don't grind or do anything that comes even remotely close to getting him off, and while i am dancing for him his hands stay down the sides of the chair at all times. i don't engage in the typical "stripper shit", and i'm usually what someone referred to in another topic is a "hit and run girl". i'm not one for conversation or befriending customers for money, i'm not one to hug & kiss my regulars, i have the attitude that i'm there to get paid to dance naked, if you would like to look at me then give me money and i will do my job.
so for me, being that i simply dance naked and nothing else, the "i'm a stripper not a prosititute" line is totally applicable. but regardless of that, there is a very fine line between stripping and prostitution. some girls would probably see grinding on your groin until you cum totally fine, but would get angry at you for trying to touch her. like someone said above, maybe it's a control thing. i don't know. i've never been in that situation. i guess where you draw that line is a totally personal thing, and varies between each person, be it dancer or customer.
And they will all say that about all the other girls.
I remember a club I used to go to had this girl who was the type I liked, something like the second or third time I took her into VIP and with no prompting from me she is all the sudden undoing my pants and starts fucking me with her tits and then sucking on my dick, another time, I figure it will be a repeat performance and she all the sudden is fucking me.
This was not a club where extras were the norm and maybe one other girl ever did as much as play with my dick through my pants.
Every dancer I've ever known defined "prostitute" as any girl willing to do more for money than she does. I've known a lot of dancers who went out with a customer after hours because he was extra nice to them and treated them really well and they liked him. Does that make them prostitutes? I think "prostitute " is one of those terms that you can't define. Like "pornography." Everyone has a different working definition. And that definition changes depending on the person and the situation.
tiffany1: She didn't tell me not to touch her breasts-I gathered she didn't want 'em touched by the way she would move away when I tried to touch her breasts. She should have stated her boundaries prior to the dances if she had boundaries. If a dancer tells me before hand what her boundaries are I honor those boundaries but to have to discover what they are for yourself is a bit much. I guess I better ask not only how much the dances are but what are her "rules".
I have never considered the dancers to be prostitures per se but I know some are.
BTW, there are no dancers who think they are prostitutes. Doesn't matter if they occasionally take money in exchange for sex, in their mind they're only doing it because they like the specific guy at that specific moment, and the money is incidental. In their mind they are dancers, not prostitutes. There is nothing to be gained by arguing the point.