The club I visit the most is decidedly a no extras club, almost to a fault. Even the girls you think would be a sure thing will not give a HJ, BJ or anything close to touching anywhere as a rule. So if you're going to get aroused it will be from grinding on top of your pants. I usually respond after a couple dances, and I feel bad for the girl the times I don't because I think they like that reinforcement that they're hot/doing their job. But not always!
One dancer who really had me going realized how hard Iwas as I was pushing back, and she went out of her way to stop the direct stimulation. I was pissed so we stopped at 2 dances, and I didn't tip her. She got really pissed off as asked why no tip. I told her that she only did half the job...she stormed off. I wasn't asking for LDK but she probably was afraid I was going to.
On the other hand, my ATF, while grinding on my very excited member recently, started complaining that too many of her regulars have a 'testosterone issue' which I thought meant they were too aggressive, as the 20 somethings can be in a low mileage club. I asked if she called a bouncer on them, and she said, 'No, I mean most are older men and they don't get hard at all, and I feel like I'm not doing my job.' Being older myself that was a nice ego boost! So she for one likes her customers to get hard.
So, what do you guys think? Not counting girls that are looking for extras I mean, as a limp dick is going to put a crimp in their income. Do they ever get timid or angry if they think you're about to LDK or do they encourage it?
No erection=No tipping. If you don't understand the reason you're grinding away on my lap then you shouldn't be stripping. Join the Icescapades.