The club I visit the most is decidedly a no extras club, almost to a fault. Even the girls you think would be a sure thing will not give a HJ, BJ or anything close to touching anywhere as a rule. So if you're going to get aroused it will be from grinding on top of your pants. I usually respond after a couple dances, and I feel bad for the girl the times I don't because I think they like that reinforcement that they're hot/doing their job. But not always!
One dancer who really had me going realized how hard Iwas as I was pushing back, and she went out of her way to stop the direct stimulation. I was pissed so we stopped at 2 dances, and I didn't tip her. She got really pissed off as asked why no tip. I told her that she only did half the job...she stormed off. I wasn't asking for LDK but she probably was afraid I was going to.
On the other hand, my ATF, while grinding on my very excited member recently, started complaining that too many of her regulars have a 'testosterone issue' which I thought meant they were too aggressive, as the 20 somethings can be in a low mileage club. I asked if she called a bouncer on them, and she said, 'No, I mean most are older men and they don't get hard at all, and I feel like I'm not doing my job.' Being older myself that was a nice ego boost! So she for one likes her customers to get hard.
So, what do you guys think? Not counting girls that are looking for extras I mean, as a limp dick is going to put a crimp in their income. Do they ever get timid or angry if they think you're about to LDK or do they encourage it?
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No erection=No tipping. If you don't understand the reason you're grinding away on my lap then you shouldn't be stripping. Join the Icescapades.
The pen is mightier than the sword
As long as they're making money, I doubt that they care whether you get a boner or not. As for me, if they can't give me a boner, they aren't going to get a second dance and certainly no tip. I only tip for happy endings.
No,I'm 3"s with ED.
Shadowcat said boner.
I don't think they care one way or another as long as they get paid.
I think some of them do. The ones who dont are in the wrong industry
Some dancers will work on getting you a boner. Some will not. More fun to the guy who happens to get treated by a dancer who goes down and blows hot air to your pants.
Either it's an accomplishment to make a guy cum or they are laughing at our shit eating grins when we blow our loads.
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I've had many hundreds of happy endings caused by lap dances from probably a couple hundred different strippers and I can think of only one who showed any displeasure. (By the way, her name was Tessa Rae, formerly at Brad's Brass Flamingo in Indianapolis -- her reaction qualifies her as a ROB to be called out.) Most dancers seem pleased when I cum -- it validates their sexual attractiveness, and it means they're likely to get repeat business from me.
Rock,do you ever want to hit a Richards lick that makes their panties come off?
To erect or not to erect – that is the question.
Just like all custies are not the same; all dancers are not the same – and just like some people enjoy their jobs; some hate it; same ole for dancers.
I’ve had more than one dancer complain about my “happy†commando penis; and some actually seem to enjoy it (erect penis) and the dance.
My thought is that most dancers would want to get custies hard b/c in their (dancer’s) minds that would mean the custy was into them and would want to spend more money. I normally get very hard and pretty quickly which often leads to dancers often asking me almost as soon as they start dancing for me; if I want to do VIP – I guess they assume I’m super-horny.
Over on SW; I often hear dancers state that what they do is supposed to be a “fantasyâ€.
IDK if that is a way for them not to feel as bad about what they are doing; or what – but it doesn’t make sense to me.
As a custy; you want me to get turned on enough to hand you (the dancer) all my $$$ yet not get turned on enough to get a hard-on which may bother you – really?
i personally enjoy a good grind on a hard dick, it gets me excited. i like to get the erection as close to my wet pussy as possible ... how do dancers ask/expect additional tips? i would guess less than once a month a guy tips me beyond the standard dance cost ... that said most of my customers will get several dances from me with a 4 to 5 song average, with a break then we go back to do more. I feel grateful for the numerous dances and i dont really expect more $ than what is given to me. some customers do tip me large bills on stage though.
The dancers who are making the most money are the ones who are able to get a guy hard and get him to pay for more dances or the VIP.
I once had a fave dancer start rubbing on top of the pants and asked "Boxers or Briefs?" My answer was: "Commando". Her reaction: A smile, followed by "Good. That makes things easier", then she retrieves Johnson from his black microfiber prison, starting a nice HJ. Don't think she minded the erection.
Since it's not so obvious on me I make 'em stick their hand down my pants to find out how excited I am. If they come out dry they are disappointed that they didn't earn a nice juicy $$$ tip. I don't think any of them have ever pulled out dry. Win-win.
OP: "Do Dancers Really Want You To Get An Erection?"
No they want to dance for homos. What kind of a question is this?
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Damn, lopaw!
STOP IT!!
@art - :D
fuck yeah, the harder the better
Lopaw you sound like so much fun!!! wish you could come to my club ;)
One thing I have noticed in just about every club I have been in in the past 38 years is that the harder and more aroused I get, the better the dance becomes and the wetter the dancer gets.
Lopaw is in high demand this morning!
^^^If any of you guys ever get the chance to club with her, you'll have a blast. Best wing woman ever.
@ sclvr: I knew I shouldn't have moved away from L.A. !!!
@Dougster - LOL.
Usually don't get erections from LDs. It happens not not often, I think I need more action and contact to get truly hard(usually semi erect, like hes looking for more ;). I always wondered what the dancers were thinking of wih my lack of erections. I would hope the dancers would try harder to get a better response. I could never understand how anyone could LDK. Not that I have anything against it.
I would expect that even the most strictly clean dancers will be aware that the likelihood of an erection is a common part of the procedure. She's "selling a fantasy"? Oh, she is, certainly: and what the fantasy is and how she sells it, may be very likely to get a man hard. Then what?
It's what you want to do (or want her to do) with that wood that she may have an issue about -- to use the celebrated phrase, never assume.
(of course if it's truly completely an air dance, then erection or non-erection should be irrelevant)
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