Worst reaction to OTC request?

Nothing bad has happened to me. Yet.

No bad reactions. About 50% positive.

I was in the VIP room with one dancer and I didn't ask anything, but either just to make conversation -- or as a pre-emptive strike -- she tells me she is NOT a prostitute and gets tired of guys asking. Then she reaches into her purse and shows me a stack of business cards for an escort that she gives out to guys who ask for sex.

The only bad reaction I ever had was this story: I had agreed to do an OTC at my house. (I do all of mine at home, unless I'm travelling and already have a hotel room.) The date was agreed upon three weeks in advance, with specified activities, price, apparel, and length of time. 75 minutes before the dancer was due to arrive at my house she texted me to say that if she was coming to my house she'd need at least $200. more than we had negotiated. I told her I'd call another girl instead. I never spent another dollar on her again. (She didn't have a car, which I knew. I sense that she'd have had to take a cab to get to my house, which could have been the reason for the sudden price increase. Since then, I've made sure any OTC candidate had her own car.)

At Columbus gold the dancer tried to sell me on the VIP when I requested OTC. Later that night I did VIP with another dancer. The first dancer got jealous and went to management to complain. When I got done in VIP bouncer told me I had to leave because the first dancer told him I was trying to arrange OTC.

I've never had a bad reaction. Some dancers decline but they don't get mad. Of course, I ask politely and don't treat them like whores. (But if they accept, they are whores, right?)

When I met my CF in April, she declined and claimed she had never done OTC. She does OTC with me now.

" if they accept, they are whores, right?"

Not according to the RickyBoyDugan. After all, anyone can get a whore to have sex with you by "just asking" and paying, and the RickyBoy surely didn't spend ten years trying to figure out such a non-accomplishment did he? A genius mind like his? Hardly! Therefore, even though they are accepting payment for sex, they are not whores. I'll let RickyBoy explain the rest himself.

I have actually never asked a stripper if she does OTC. I have had many many offer, sometimes as their opening line.

i never had a bad reaction even if i was turned down ive never had a negative reaction which is quite suprising now that i think of it

Nothing serious. "I don't do that" is about the worst.

I can't remember any bad reaction. About half even add "sorry" to "I don't do that". Not that they are really sorry. Or maybe they are, given what a handsome, witty, charming young man I am. :-)

In reality my clubbing is more low key than the majority of my fellow pervs. Fun as it is to contemplate finding the deep throatIng BBBJCIMNQNSQWERTYUIOP queen who does OTC for a bucket of the Colonel's XXXtra KRIS-pay I am actually married and just restrict activities to ITC.

So I've never asked. I have had girls volunteer a "I'm not a whore" or "I don't see guys OTC". Most surprising was a girl that said she didn't do OTC and had recently been asked if she worked outside the club. She said she thought he was asking if she had another job and that she replied "yes" only to discover what he really wanted a few minutes later. I think it was a true story. She seemed new to the game. Hot girl (probably a 9) and fun to talk to, but definitely not a girl to win the hearts of TUSCLers.

Who know what has gone on with her. Hopefully not a slide into drugs and other self destructive behavior.

^^^ BTW, newbie hottie described above did actually get me to LDK. Atypical, but something about a LD from such seemingly wholesome girl elicited the LDK my bros.

Who knows...maybe the wholesome girl next door stuff was an act. Don't know and don't care. 'Twas fun and that's what it is all about!

The worst reaction I can recall was on the order of "Ewww! No."

It sometimes surprises me, even after 35 years(!) of clubbing, how many strippers are not only willing, but enthusiastic about fucking outside the club.

"Enthusiastic" in the "sure, I'll take your money and not share it with the club" way, not the "sure, you're such an amazing guy you make me wet just looking at you" way, in case anyone was confused about that point.

"I don't do that" is about the worst. Usually I wait until they bring it up and the ones that bring it up immediately I usually do not take seriously.

Zip man,

What does LDK mean?

LDK= Lap Dance King

He's a TUSCL member

If someone says LDK, that means the person nutted in their pants/shorts during a lap dance

This is what Lap Dance King proudly admits to, so that's why it's known as LDK

I have to laugh at Lone_Wolf's use of the word "tactful". As subjective as that word is in the real world, it's even moreso here. Some of the guys on this board probably think they're being tactful as long as their dick isn't out of their pants when they say, "hey, baby, wanna fuck?"

I'm really a novice with strip clubs. Just a few months ago if you had asked me what OTC was I would have had no clue. However, not too long ago I was in the VIP room with a gorgeous stripper who was being extremely friendly... So I took what I considered was a super long-shot and asked her if she'd fuck me. To my absolutely amazement, she said yes. I said, "really" to which she responded, "you know how this works". We worked out the details.

That experience led me to this site and I guess it turns out that my experience is basically part of the game sometimes.

So far, 100% and no bad reactions :)

@LeeH: You laugh. I've used a variant of that once in a while, if I think the occasion warrants it. For instance, if she's showing an interest in taking my money, I've fairly often asked, "Do you fuck in the back?"

I once reacted badly and took back my money.

In my younger years, when I was less discriminating with who I asked, I had a few bad reactions, most along the lines of "I"M NOT A WHORE!"

The reality, however, is that there are many things worse than a loud and dramatic reaction. Asking the wrong girl can lead to one becoming a pariah in the club, even with girls who might have otherwise been willing. It can also result in stringalong and other games designed to extract cash ITC.

Like I always say, "know where you are", meaning know the club and the area you are in, which factors heavily into how easily one can source OTC and the likelihood of a bad reaction. It also doesn't hurt to target the types of girls most likely to say yes, but that is a separate conversation.

RickDugan: "Asking the wrong girl can lead to one becoming a pariah in the club, even with girls who might have otherwise been willing. It can also result in stringalong and other games designed to extract cash ITC."

RickyBoy, you still have absolutely no social understanding even after what is it now? 15 years of visiting strip clubs. Simply amazing!

Considering how many of them offer itc and hint they do otc I would be shocked with a really negative reaction. Rather than asking "hey u do otc." I ask if she will meet otc or if she plays. Some no reactions I have got: a. "thats not what I am about" - 18 yo UCI cheerleader / stripper at Imperial Theatre in Anaheim. Had spent about 200 on her - $10 dances in vip, really got to feel her good....... b. "Give me $400 to get my car fixed and we can do it next week." 41 yo ROB - Stevie at Ricks Cabaret South - Houston. c. "I would have to get to know real well first." 28 yo blonde hottie stripper at Heartbreakers. Translation "I want to rip you on dances and tips."

The worst reaction I've had is the dancer walking away saying "well have a good night".

My last otc favorite told me she didn't do that early on..ended up having a 7 month otc fling with her

I had one lecture me on the dangers of unprotected sex and seeing hookers.

My last three visits (all different Detroit clubs) I have been offered OTC complete with slipped phone numbers. This doesn't make me think I am a stud. It just makes me think times are tough. No sympathy though but also no response as these are not girls I would like to see in daylight. If I wanted to drop money on a woman I would hustle at Krogers. ITC works for me as it quick and ,sometimes, clean.