If she is a good fuck, well fuck her. This is a natural progression for a lot of them. When I met my atf, I already knew she was a whore as she was an extras girl. But she was such a good fuck...now she is still married, fucks me, and probably others. As long as the pussy is good and at the right price so what the hell if she is one? Your never going to own her.
Thanks guys! I never did fuck her and I don't see it happening anytime soon. I immediately told her I knew, rather than pull some shady shit and set up a session with an awkward surprise.
On the bright side 1)she went over all her screening details and even joined a site I talked about (how I discovered what she'd been up to) -- which seems a good, safe place for escorts to use -- so I felt better about her not ending up in jail , 2) she charges above average, and 3) she is quite popular.
On the not so bright side 1) she is quite popular (LOL), and 2) the fact she broke bad rather than accept my financial help (but is that really even a bad thing? Looking back, I'd rather her be honest and sell ass, than for her to take my money knowing she didn't want to really be with me).
That's the funny thing. Even though she was a stripper, she never once lied to me. She may have kept certain things from me. She told me she had a new thing sarting Jan 1st which she was looking forward to, but she didn't say what. Had she told me back then, it was hooking, when I was still crazy about her, I'd drank myself into a coma. Instead, I found out this weekend after I had given up on her months ago.
It was still tough. Like a fool, I read every one of her reviews, torturing myself. I couldn't eat or sleep for three days, until she finally answered me, yesterday. She said she changed her mind about seeing me because I became 'clingy'. That's being polite. Clingy? I went fucking mental... after a year and close to $7 grand blown (club, liquor, other dancers getting most of that) only to never land that date.
So last year this time, I broke, yelled at her and came the closet I ever came to getting kicked out of a club.
I got on with my life, started dating again, briefly. But that didn't work, cause I wasn't attracted to the girls I could get. So, I stopped.
She started talking to me again. I saw her a few times in some new clubs. Then, winter came and her financial problems started, and like the clingy, lost puppy I was, offered everything I could to help.
But like I said, she refused.
We still talked. She sent me dirty pictures, told me about the new gig (which I assumed was modeling). Then suddenly silence. And back to where we are today.
So there's that story.
Reading the reviews was funny. The whole idea made me sick to my stomach and lose sleep. But at the same time, her being a dirty little whore makes me more attracted to her. Imagine reading a dozen penthouse letters of that girl you never got. Hot, right?
But it's probably a good idea I leave it alone for now.
So, I am Doc Holliday, a PL.
I am going to eat a bunch of hamburgers and catch up on some rest.
@Doc I think it would be risky for you to make a date or even be in the company of this woman. You have a lot of anger towards her, you don't want to live with the memory of having been violent to her, and she doesn't deserve it.
Look at the other escort ads, see if there's another that's attractive to you. Probably seeing escorts will be better for you, because their "business model" is less likely to involve pretending there is a chance they might eventually have feelings for you.
You said it:
'So, I am Doc Holliday, a PL.'
Another guy who has leap-frogged over me on tuscl's PL pecking order.
Reading reviews of her 'performance' on escort websites?
That is major league PL, Doc. Championship playoffs major league PL. Time to get a life.
@Doc I been there. Part of breaking the pattern is recognizing that kind of of obsessive "love" doesn't mean shit. It's not that different from obsessive hand washing or that kind of shit. It's just an ingrained bad habit, not anything profound. Real love is a MUTUAL feeling that develops over time. People talk about love at first sight, but that just means being horny for somebody and later falling in real love over time.
Oh shit! I thought you were just joking. Sorry to hear that. I found out one of the strippers I had been dating did some hooking on the side. I was angry at first, but I realized there are plenty of other fish in the sea.
Fortunately for us they're largely all hookers to some extent. They don't feel that way about thenselves. One recently commented that she only gives HJ's. Another I spoke with told me she only gives HJ's and CBJ's. During another conversation a hot brunette offered me everything, "because she really liked me". She also commented that I was her only exception. LIKELY!!! Of course this is Detroit.
Next time use protection and fuck first, then if you still want to get to know her, you can spend a bunch of money. I worry about messing around with the wrong girl. I don't want to touch someone who may have permanent stds.
"Paying her for sex might help you get over her. I find that I idealize a girl that I haven't had, but once I've fucked her I don't care as much"
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I've known about five different strippers who became "escorts" after dancing. No biggie, to me. They got fired from local (Puget Sound Region) Deja Vu clubs. When that happens, the company seems to ban them from all of their Washington and Colorado clubs (run together as a single business unit). The remaining choices of local clubs are minimal, so they turn to escorting.
I may have just discovered a new dancer who tried escorting first, and then went into stripping. I just met her. It'll be interesting to hear her story.
I don't get it. Is there a point here?
Phase 1. Girl is involved in adult-oriented services. Makes money off of them. Gets interest of potential customer. He spends a lot of money on her.
Phase 2. Girl is involved in adult-oriented services. Makes money off of them. Loses interest of potential customer. He regrets spending a lot of money on her.
The change isn't in the girl, it's in the John. Right down the john, if I read things right. :O
“… But like I said, she refused (Doc’s money) …â€
Count yourself lucky “she refused†– in the semi-blind semi-obsessive state you seem to be over this chick; she could have really taken you for a bad ride (major league $$$ w/o probably getting anything for it)
As ilbbaicnl stated; it sounds more like infatuation on your part rather than “loveâ€.
Plus hooking is the oldest profession in the world for a reason – it seems some/many women desire money as much as men desire sex (at least is seems some (women), if not many, desire money more than sex). So although it’s not considered ok by many; it should not be a “major shock†many women turn to this for $$$ - especially in today’s internet age.
“… Next time use protection and fuck first, then if you still want to get to know her …â€
This is actually good advice IMO. Most people cannot make good decisions with a gun to their heads – and when a man is horny and hasn’t had sex; his dick is like the proverbial gun to the head.
I think women want to spend money. If they are married they can just spend and spend until they are hopelessly bankrupt and then expect their husband to pay up. If not married they need to try to get it anyway they can. Not all are like this but I've met several who couldn't wait to spend whatever money they get.
Escorts who are also or use to be dancers and generally more physically attractive, and much more annoying. Escorts who aren't and never where dancers are much less likely to be mind game players.
Thanks for all the advice and ball busting! The good thing about this site is the mix of opinions. You get both some jokes and some proper raking across the coals.
I realize I have a hard road ahead of me. If I still want to pursue this girl, I have to be able to handle all the bad that comes with the turf -- disease, physical abuse, arrests and the possibility of never being able to work a vanilla job again. But if she keeps her nose clean and pulls it off, she'll have stories few women can tell.
I also will not further jeopardize my life, especially after getting it back on track. But, I do still want to know her. And I have faith she can do this.
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Its really a woe this actually exist. Yeah I think its going to take a whike for you to get over her since this sounds like a teenager who is upset because he's in a unrequited romance. I cant say anything that hasn't alre ady been said and regular women just doesnt seem to cut it for you. Just hire a different escort every other week (or monthly if you can hold out)
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