I'd find simply giving her money to be more palatable than loaning it to her. All that loan is going to do is cause you heartburn and she's probably never paying it back anyway.
Dont loan money to anyone you dont know extremely well and trust. I wouldn’t loan money to a stripper but its not because of their job. They simply have no reason to honor any agreement with you just like anyone else.
Loan ok - just don’t expect to get it back - if want to give a small amount to maybe get her good graces thats ok - one time a stripper I had known and danced with for quite a while asked me to co-sign her car loan - she would make all the payments- I might be dumb but not that dumb- I still laugh about that one when I think about it- the same stripper asked me I think for about $100 one time b/c her cell phone was going to be turned off- I did “loan” her the $100 never expecting repayment
Loan? No. Prepay? Maybe. I was seeing a dancer weekly OTC before Covid. Once she asked if I could advance her a small amount of money and since she lived an hour away from me, I transferred the money from my bank account to hers which was very easy as we both used the same credit union. Yes. a lot of trust involved.
I was never asked for a loan but i was literally paying her parents living expenses, her college tuition for years and buying gifts on top. Coz i loved her that much. It wasnt p4p or sugaring coz i did it out of sheer love
As already pointed out, the word "loan" usually implies that one is expecting to get the money back. Maybe don't hold your breath on that one...
We will all now wait on @RonJax2 to provide the official formula for just how likely a stripper is to repay a loan... 😁
Purely out of the goodness of my heart, I once went a bit out of my way to pay for a stripper's hotel room one night. I was willing to do it that one time without expecting any kind of repayment. When she said, "I'll pay you back", I knew damn well THAT was going to happen. So I said "No need for you to do that. Next time you're at the club, I'll do 20 dances with you, and just pay you for 15 dances." Well, she LOVED that idea. Not only did she not have to come up with extra funds that she was never going to have anyway, she knew she had 15 guaranteed dances with her favorite customer, so it was an incentive for her to get her perfect little butt back in the club ASAP. I was going to do those dances with her anyway, so it all worked out great. She was cute AF, and those 20 dances were hot AF... :)
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last commentOh, not only no, but fuck no.
I'd find simply giving her money to be more palatable than loaning it to her. All that loan is going to do is cause you heartburn and she's probably never paying it back anyway.
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^ RonJax said in one sentence.
Only..only..ONLY, rare situation is if....she "pays you back". But it better be worth it.
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Never ever loan a stripper money
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Dont loan money to anyone you dont know extremely well and trust. I wouldn’t loan money to a stripper but its not because of their job. They simply have no reason to honor any agreement with you just like anyone else.
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Why not?
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Douse the money in gasoline and set it on fire. Same end result but at least it'll warm your hands.
I don't even loan to family and friends without a legal, binding contract.
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Wow. These responses. These are business women. What could go wrong.
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Loan ok - just don’t expect to get it back - if want to give a small amount to maybe get her good graces thats ok - one time a stripper I had known and danced with for quite a while asked me to co-sign her car loan - she would make all the payments- I might be dumb but not that dumb- I still laugh about that one when I think about it- the same stripper asked me I think for about $100 one time b/c her cell phone was going to be turned off- I did “loan” her the $100 never expecting repayment
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Loan? No. Prepay? Maybe. I was seeing a dancer weekly OTC before Covid. Once she asked if I could advance her a small amount of money and since she lived an hour away from me, I transferred the money from my bank account to hers which was very easy as we both used the same credit union. Yes. a lot of trust involved.
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I NEVER LOAN money to family, friends or strippers !!!! I buy what they need the money for that way I know what the $$$ is really being used for.
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I was never asked for a loan but i was literally paying her parents living expenses, her college tuition for years and buying gifts on top. Coz i loved her that much. It wasnt p4p or sugaring coz i did it out of sheer love
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As already pointed out, the word "loan" usually implies that one is expecting to get the money back. Maybe don't hold your breath on that one...
We will all now wait on @RonJax2 to provide the official formula for just how likely a stripper is to repay a loan... 😁
Purely out of the goodness of my heart, I once went a bit out of my way to pay for a stripper's hotel room one night. I was willing to do it that one time without expecting any kind of repayment. When she said, "I'll pay you back", I knew damn well THAT was going to happen. So I said "No need for you to do that. Next time you're at the club, I'll do 20 dances with you, and just pay you for 15 dances." Well, she LOVED that idea. Not only did she not have to come up with extra funds that she was never going to have anyway, she knew she had 15 guaranteed dances with her favorite customer, so it was an incentive for her to get her perfect little butt back in the club ASAP. I was going to do those dances with her anyway, so it all worked out great. She was cute AF, and those 20 dances were hot AF... :)
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