Holding hands

Dancers usually hold my hand when they take me to VIP, so I see nothing odd about this. The strange thing is that my ATF towers over me when leading me to VIP area. She's my height in bare feet, but her stripper heels make her seem like a giant.

I guess it depends on the club and the girl.

One club I've been going to since the late 80's, that has been standard practice for most of the girls.

Other clubs the girl just takes off to the VIP area and you chase behind her.

See it as pretty common. Its the girl's style. Also seen some girls lead the customer by the crotch, some have to support the older guys up, and one led her guy by a belt around his neck. That didn't look right.

@ Shadow and Motor: I particularly like that practice. I've often mentioned to dancers that it's a way to class up their presence in the club. Once a customer agrees to spend money on a dancer, then it behooves the dancer to treat the customer a little nicer. It's a little more ladylike for a dancer to escort a customer to the lap dance area--either by the dancer taking the customer's arm, or leading him by holding his hand.

At a club I used to go to, advance payment was required for the VIP room. Dancers and customers had to go to the bar to pay, which was at the opposite end of the club from the VIP entrance. Some dancers were so good at escorting their customers, that I often thought, I'd pay $5. just for that walk.

Happens to me all the time. No problem. I agree with Club_Goer's thoughts.

It has happened to me a lot. If they don't grab my hand I sometimes grab theirs. I have a fav that was sitting on my lap recently and she started holding my hand out of the blue and comparing my hand size to hers. I liked it

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I know a lot of you have been to infamous Hip Hugger in Kokomo, Ind.

They don't have a private VIP area. Just a bunch metal cafeteria chairs against the back wall. Often times on a weekend night, there is a line of customers and dancers waiting on a free chair. I like it when the girls hold my hand while in the queue. Makes me feel like less of a dork PL waiting it line to feel up a 22 year girl.

Its suppose to make you feel special? Then fuck that shit never works for me. I pull my hand away. While her hands may be soft, I'm not a baby, I can walk on my own thanks (and she's not my girl and we're too old for that shit). Or maybe I'm just really cynical.

Now if they start leading me by the crotch, then I'm a happy camper from the getgo.

I see this as a common. It's happened to me a few times. Guiding you back to the VIP room by hand is just something they do to better the experience of their customer/make you feel more welcomed.

Several dancers have held my hand when leading me to the lapdance room. I think it's kind of cute. I haven't had a dancer lead me by the crotch yet, that would be kind of hot.

Its very common. Sometimes I feel silly, especially if the girl is taller than me. But mostly it's to be expected at the clubs I go to.

On a side note I have been to Hip Hugger once and it was by far the worst club that I have ever been to, and I've been to many. Horrible experience.

I've had dancers loop their arm through mine to take me back. I appreciate it more than having to walk behind her. Besides, that puts me close enough to smell her. Most strippers smell great!

It’s happened to me every once in a while being led to the LD room.

As others have said, I think they are just trying to be sweet and make one feel special (like they really like you and thus are kind of giving one the BF treatment).

I don’t necessarily care for it:

1) in a busy club sometimes the dancer is dragging you by the hand while you are simultaneously trying to avoid stepping on anyone’s foot or tripping over somebody – so in a busy club it can be kind of unpractical.

2) if she is in front of me and dragging me by the hand; makes me feel like a little kid being walked to class by his mom.

I usually do that, so they don't tipped with chairs or tables for being too drunk.

At my favorite club, dancers used to lead me by the hand as we went upstairs for VIP. Then I had one who let me follow her upstairs and she took her panties off before we left the LD area. I enjoyed that more than hand holding.

OMG! Shadow reliving his prom night.

I find it quite common even if just going to the LD area.

I have had dancers do that but often they will put their arm around my waist and I'll put my arm around theirs. It is a nice way to cop a feel on a nice butt (sometimes by both of us).

Yeah this is pretty common. I wouldn't say it really "does" anything for me but its a welcomed practice. I am way past the point where merely holding a girls hand is something actually notable about a strip club experience though.

It's not that unusual for me either. Sometimes I've wondered if a dancer does it so that I don't get any ideas about hanging behind or hooking up with another dancer for dances before I get to the lapdance room.

Shadow, I know what you are saying. I have a local club where my favorite does this on the way back and it does indeed feel nice. I have fucked so many girls, and received so many BJs, that I almost take it for granted, but something as simple as a held hand or intimate kissing can really hit home.

It's a subtle form of advertising. They know there are other guys there that don't know what goes on in the back room but walking along holding that hot girl's hand looks pretty enticing so it makes them curious and more likely to try a run to the back.

It's pretty common and all part of the game - to advertise herself to others, and to give you a GFE moment of phony tenderness. Cha-CHING!!

I've had several dancers take me by the hand to the VIP, but I've only had one that grabbed my penis and took me to the VIP holding on the whole way there.

I have one regular dancer who puts my hand on her butt as we walk to the couches....not even VIP. That' s always a good sign of what's to come.

I thought it was a common practice. Sounds like it is very common in many places, and not in others. Anything to enhance the illusion of intimacy, without actually giving anything...dancers will surely do.

"and to give you a GFE moment of phony tenderness"

I don't particularly care for it either.

I laugh at how she leads you PL's on. It's better than the evening news.

I totally agree with rick the legand dugend

Feeling "romantic" about being a stripper's customer is fucked up. It's like buying medals on e-bay and feeling like a war hero. I think a lot of you guys have the same problem I do, what you find sexy about a woman has little or nothing to do with with what you find to be lovable. I don't think it's really going to help to try to get scraps of fantasy romance from a woman you are basically just horny for.

RickyBoy is a legend? For the time when he stayed home for months in nights when both his favorites were working? After all, if he talked to one it might offend the other and an offended stripper is not a pretty sight or easy to deal with. Legend for figuring out the brilliant solution - just stay home even if you wanted to go. Sheer brilliance!

It's just some girl's style. I also find it happens more if the club is crowded and the girl is trying to navigate without losing you.

Personally – I rather be led by my cock – the holding hands thing – doesn’t do much for me :)

“… Feeling "romantic" about being a stripper's customer is fucked up. It's like buying medals on e-bay and feeling like a war hero …”


LOL – great analogy! – and I agree w/ it – but some custies are perfectly comfortable w/ enjoying and partaking in the fantasy

In reality we're all being led by the crotch, no matter what she's holding onto on the way to VIP. I appreciate the extra little bit of contact I get from the hand holding.