ATF too frank?

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I've been seeing my ATF for about 4 years and when I meet her OTC we go to dinner, go shopping and spend an hour or so at a hotel. I generally pay her $500 for the pleasure of her company and we get together once or twice a week. Last night while driving home from the club she sent me a text saying I should feel prilvileged because a real hot guy paid her $800. just to be able to lick her clit. I wrote back to ask if she got off on it ( the money not the lick). Then I said are you sure he didn't want you to lick anything? She responded, well ya, but only a blow job. No CIM. No FS. Is she too frank? Should I feel privileged?
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last commentToo frank, not necessarily. Should you feel privileged? Lucky perhaps,in that she likes getting up to $1000/week on a consistent basis. She could well decide she may prefer $800 from the real Hot guy on in a while or even consistently.
Has she given into these temptations before? If this is new, then the end might be approaching.
Sounds like a rip off bitch
Sounds kind of like she has some type of resentment towards you. Perhaps she hates that you can control her with money but she has no real choice. I would take her words as a compliment and keep seeing her.
Ask her if he wants to lick her clit twice a week for $800 since you've lost interest. I suspect her attitude would change.
She’s either incredibly stupid not to be kissing yourass for the kind of $$$ you’re dropping on her consistently; or her words are a cry for help.
i bet there is more to it than what she is telling you, or its even made up totally ... either way she is trying to put the passive aggressive squeeze on you. sounds like she is getting greedy and i suspect is trying to make it seem like you have competition and you should worry/feel guilty. four years is a good run, time to find a new girl that will appreciate the company your wallet provides.
I read these comments yesterday. I'm confused what is going on.
sounds like a complete bitch to me i dont know though
Che - what a pessimist. She spends some of my money on young studs who can please her. She has had 2 other "customers" over the past few years. One @ $500 an hour; the other paid more. I'm 67 years old and she is 27.
Hehe. Yep. Only two others. Sure...
I think she only wants your money Mr. Gawker. The end of your relationship is near.
Che lol.
Che is more than a pessimist! Be careful gawker.
I'm 71. I hope you learn something by the time you get as old as me. :)
Gawker-
You're a fool. You're spending too much and believing too much. But if you're happy, then good for you.
She doesn't even have to look at price tags, 500 is a lot for just company (assuming that means no sex). Tell her she should be privaalged I waste gas to buy you shit and pay her mortgage because we know she lying.
To gawker:
Flip the switch! Tell your ATF when your not with her, you have an Ultimate AFT you see on the side except your U ATF won't except monetary gifts from you enjoys your company. Tell you ATF that your U ATF is named in your will because of this. Then ask your ATF does she feel special because she is getting the money up front, and not have to wait. Stupid Strippers!
I agree with the others that she is angling for getting more money from you. Anybody paying $800 for oral only is either a myth or an idiot.
She was probably drunk the dude spent $800 for VIP and is now broke. If the way she talks/texts with you continues to be uncomfortable...audition a new girl. The next girl is always the best one.
If your ATF is too frank, you need to find a girl instead.
You guys are a fuckin' blast! Too funny!
I don't like ATF with a frank
you guys are funny, this is just basic marketing. supply and demand, you know.
$500+dinner+shopping for an hour of sex? Assuming you're getting any sex, that is.
Shit, most girls around here would spend the night and make me breakfast for that kind of shellacking.
Paying 5 to 10 times more than most for such a service is no privelege.
Am I correct to assume you pay her $500 AND pick up the bill for all the shopping?
Maybe alutard is right. We are just letting outlet cynicism shine through. She probably thinks he is a very nice guy for demanding less and paying more than all those other jerks she has to deal with. That's really how it works, right?
If she is too Frank, maybe it would be better if she changed to Alice.
lol
Alice? You sure Anne wouldn't be better?
I know an Alice that fucks for $200.
And don't forget, you can get anything you want, at Alice's Restaurant.
This is a 9+ who takes great pride in her cock sucking. After 30 minutes of the best blow job I've ever had, she then does a reverse cow girl which brings a tear to my eye. I'm not as worried about the money as I am about the content of her message.
Pablo is probably right in that I know its the money she's after, not my shriveled old dick.
I fail to see how a great cock sucker takes 30 minutes to get a guy off and apparently she can't even do that with you. you still got stamina for RCG?
I would look on TER (the erotic review) for a high class escort to replace her.
It sounds like you are in love with her and too smitten to admit that she is replaceable.
I tried escorts for a few years and moved to strippers because its more personal. I've gotten to know this woman with all her faults. Shadowcat, either your envious of my staying power or you haven't taken advantage of modern pharmaceuticals.
Cleveland, I'm not in love but truly appreciate her forthright manner. This woman has made so many bad decisions (I'm only one of many) but I honestly think she's gonna straighten out one of these days. I get no stripper shit from her, no BS, and a million laughs. It's worth every penny while the $$$$ lasts.
Dude, maybe she's being too frank, maybe it's pure bullshit, but who cares? Just say yeah baby I know you're worth so much more than what I can give you, but it's all I can afford, sorry. Doesn't cost you a dime to stroke her ego a little. She is little more than an acquaintance to you, you should just be pleasant and polite, white lies are fine. You will both enjoy it more.
I want you to read your last xomment and try again?
Q: shadowcat may be onto something. Your either starting or are smitten with her. If not, you wouldn't give two shits what other people pay her. Matter of fact, you wouldn't take the time to go shopping with her? And then you pay to fuck her? Do you see the problem here? Your wasting money, most of which could be used on multiple days of fucking or other things, but you shop and wine & dine her because eyou want to make her happy. You should pimp smack that hoe, tell her, to suck yo dick anyway and fall back for a bit and analyze the situation (and your bank account).
2: the fact that you are worried if she's being too frank is giving warning signs about the situation and you should hear them
3: how can she learn to do right if you keep holding her hand and providing her with shit for little work. She not gonna get better any faster.
Why the hell does it take 30 to get your rocks off? I know your old but shit dude, that's definetely OD even old people. Does she get water breaks before continuing and how do you even stay excited if it took that long. Personally, I would get bored and give up
Frank? Nah, probably the opposite. She is probably full of shit and using this nonsense as a means of keeping you on the hook.
By "too frank" do you mean "disrupting the fantasy by informing you whose what went where"? Definitely, plus it's a little rude even mentioning that he was "hot(ter than you)". What she probably meant was that she thinks you SHOULD, in fact, feel privileged that she's doing you for a paltry $500. It was in bad taste, certainly, but probably harmless.