Do you ever regret the money you spent on strip clubbing / hobbying

No.

yes i do. reason being i could use it for a house

It's not like there is anything better to spend money on than fine whores, so why would anyone regret it? Only thing I regret is not leaping at some of OTC I was offered.

Fuck more whores!
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I don't regret it. The money I spend is money I work for and I don't have anyone depending on me for money or anything else.

No, not really.

It's what I choose to spend my entertainment dollars on.

I love sports but am content to watch the Super Bowl on TV rather than drop five grand for tickets. Or spend $20k a year for a golf CC membership.

Or any number of things. I've spent a bundle but had fun.

I have tried to reduce the spending but it has been tough. There are 4 of them plus a 21 yo stripper texting me constantly to meetup, see them. While I have got pop down vs prior years, it all adds up. I could probably have one of these whores every other day if I wanted. Lets see last week I had the 40 yo divorced child care gal for 140 (she has offered it to me bareback), monday it was the 34 yo separated office mgr at 140 (both off SA), and Sat the married x stripper is available at 100 (been shagging her 4.5 yr). Since I did her for 200 (gave her extra for holidays) last time next two are at 100. Rotating these gals draining my bank acct.

I think I am gonna try the zoosk personals off facebook to c if I can find any for cheaper.

Yes I do regret my hobby and the expenses. Sometimes I think it would have been cheaper just to marry the girl.

But then again...............what's a few dollars here and there?

@Player11.

If you get any cheaper, you will wind up screwing an artificial pussy from the local.adult store. (price of shipping not included)

Yes I do! I am a lot more discerning who I do lap dances with. I use the bar side chat as an audition for any action in the back. I don't go as often either. Too many of these dancers aren't worth it and seriously flaky.

Yes I do! I am a lot more discerning who I do lap dances with. I use the bar side chat as an audition for any action in the back. I don't go as often either. Too many of these dancers aren't worth it and seriously flaky.

Every time I indulge in it, I regret it...but the feeling's dimming out.....slowly. money could be better spent on graphic tablets, rent (where I don't have to dip in my savings), clothes all that good ish. But those finely shaped bodies, smootth skin and seductive faces have me coming back every time.

Over all, no, but in individual incidents, yes.

"Over all, no, but in individual incidents, yes."

How true! How true! Very well put Clubber

Due to a few binges in the past, I try to budget better when I head out and plan how to spend the cash. I only have regrets if things don't pan out, such as drinks being expensive or lackluster laps and if I let myself get talked into something I know better I shouldn't. I've stopped visiting a certain Vegas Club for almost all of these reasons. I rarely return to other cities though so I have to make a visit count, therefore . . . TUSCL.

I've gotta go with Clubber too.

I have no regrets but some of them in vip weren't worth what I paid. You have to get thru a few culls before you find a really good one.....I found a really good one awhile back and any money spent on her a good thing.

I do not regret it. I figure I am saving money compared to some very expensive hobbies. Such as golf, boating/fishing, expensive sports tickets, etc.

And the benefits are really great. But occasionally I do get a dud or hustled. But nothing is perfect.

no its my fav hobby you just have to learn to budget yourself i overspent my club budget over the holidays so i will backoff a few weeks

I agree with Clubber and others, overall it's been fun and I do not regret spending money to have fun. There have been individual incidents where I would not have spent money. However with this hobby, trying out something new is sometimes the only good way to know if you're going to like her or not. Sometimes I just go for it instead of doing a lot of analysis about the situation. Sometimes that can go well, other times not.

I guess I could have stayed home and blown less money at the golf course but who knows, green fees and cart fees might add up to 40 to 60 dollars and if the other guys always made bets, that could go up another 50 dollars or more, plus gas driving around the place. I think I had more fun visiting strip clubs. Who knows though, I might have given up the opportunity to be a professional golfer because I didn't play enough. I was getting pretty good on the golf course when my boss from work was taking off early from work once a week to hit a nearby course.

I mention golf because my father played golf a lot and I know some golf club memberships cost thousands of dollars a year just to be a member and that does not include the cost to play a round. There are lots of other ways to blow money for entertainment.

One thing I didn't mention, the regret came later and usually after I sobered up. Doesn't happen often any longer, but it did in my younger days.

Hell yes I have regrets! I've made just about every newbie mistake any PL posted about. It has been a very expensive learning curve.

I've spent far to much on dancers with no ROI and spent too much time in clubs that are very low mileage.

Overall though, I have to second Clubber. I love this shit.

Clubber's pithy comment cannot be improved upon.

My experiences match his almost exactly except that in my case the sobriety lapses continue (regularly) to this day.

During the most active 15 years of clubbing, I probably spend around a quarter million dollars. Do I regret it? Ya I do a little bit. It's an expensive hobby - more expensive than golf. But today I have all I need materially and financially. I am still married to the same women for 30 years. Prostate cancer surgery put Hoss out of commission for most of 2011, and I stopped going to clubs as often. (no return of cancer). I will not return to the glory days, but I can still wander in and feel some young perky titties when the mood strikes. I'm gratefull.

Clubber nailed it.I don't hunt,fish,play golf,have season tickets or other "big ticket" hobbies.My children are grown,gone and (thankfully) no longer need my help,so overall,no regrets.But I can look back and wince,knowing I got "played" a few times.No disgrace in making a mistake,provided you learn from it.

My big head says NO, it was worth every.penny. My other head says get your head out of that pussy you dumbass.

Have you ever tried to get piss out of a toilet?

No but I regret reading these comments.

I don't fully regret it, because it's my favorite form of entertainment, but I got into the strip club habit before I fully escaped from my parent's home and thus spent longer living with them than I would have otherwise. That doesn't count the fact all of my jobs before my current one were basically unstable and never were going to last, for various reasons.

Every dime I spend in strip clubs is disposable income. All my bills are paid (including the country club membership) and 10% goes into retirement funding right off the top before I spend a nickle in strip clubs.

Have I spent money that in hindsight I wish I had back? Without question. Part of the learning process. Something about these 58 year old hands and mouth touching that 20-29 year old flesh makes it worthwhile :-)

No more than I regret money spent on expensive cigars. Yes, it's an indulgence I enjoy.

Only occasioanlly when I am doing a club fact finding tour. Then I reget the wasted time more than the money.

Yes, but what the heck, you can't take it with you.

I used to beat myself up over it at first b/c I was not used to throwing around that kind of cash. I tend to be on the conservative side and I’ve always being more of a saver than a risk taker.

But I just finally admitted to myself that no other hobby/expenditure brings me more pleasure than this hobby and I have some very fond memories/experiences that otherwise I would not have had.

I am also unmarried and have no kids; so it makes it easier to live w/ the decisions of spending major cash in this hobby.

Why don't I regret blowing so much money in strip clubs? I'm very careful with my finances, and I regret it when I don't get a good deal on a purchase or when I lose money on an investment. But the strip club experience--the blur of booze and boobs and bodies--produces no regret.

I spend a little over 50% of my disposable income on clubs and strippers. Travel is the only other pleasure that I spend a lot of money on. I could invest my strip club money but where would the fun be in that?

No regrets and I agree wit Gator

Clubber is probably closest to my opinion.

Clubber nailed it. But sometimes I wish I hadn't wasted money on some *other* things. It could have better been used for mongering.

Damn! I said something that most agreed with. I'm losing it!!! :)

I spend about $800 a month on the hobby on average. Some months its been as much as $1200. Yes I am a strip club aholic. I am a card carrying member of SCA. (Strip Clubs Anonymous) I am trying to get well but it's hard. I love fondling beautiful women. I have an ex stripper who understands my problem and is counseling me. Only problem she charges $200 per hour for her fee and I don't seem to be getting any better........ can someone help me..... LOL!!!

Sorry Player.......didnt mean to stop your discussion....... you were getting some nice comments for a while....

Jestrite, at least you are seeking treatment for your affliction. I'm doing so as well. With many more sessions I think better progress can be made for everyone.

I do sometimes regret it because I could use some of that money I'm spending to pay for my house, but at the end of the day you only live once so I keep strip clubbing.