Would any of you take a stripper to your personel residence for OTC? I can't think of any earthly reason why you would want to do this but I thought I'd ask in case I was missing some logical reason you'd want to open up your personal life to all the unsavory elements that surround most strippers.
Over the counter? Well not sure if I know what OTC means but I've brought my share of strippers back to my residence quite a few times. I just hide my jewelry and cash when we get there, and let the good times roll lol
If one has an SO then of course it is out of the question.
But if you are unattached, then maybe. If she (or one of her compadres) is planning to do you harm, then it can happen no matter where the OTC is.
But IMO, most OTCers just have the cash in mind and something “happenning†to you can of course happen, but I think it is the pretty rare exception.
The more obvious downside is that she knows where you live and if you both have a falling out, she knows where to find you to pester you. Or she may pester you when she is hard up for $$$.
"The more obvious downside is that she knows where you live and if you both have a falling out, she knows where to find you to pester you. Or she may pester you when she is hard up for $$$."
My gut feeling is THIS negative would override any possible short term positive there might be.
Perhaps an investment in a cheap by the hour motel (aka no-tel) is the safer way to go. Most no-tels don’t even require a credit card so no paper trail either.
I *might* do it with my SB. Other than that, no, I'd prefer not to give a a potential thief a guided your of my house. Even if *she* wasn't so inclined, her boyfriend or pimp might be.
I always have them over to my place unless I'm out of town. Never had a problem with this. Save money on hotel/motel is the most obvious reason, plus you can some alcohol to offer them if they want, plus it's just more convenient.
I seem to buck the trend and usual advice on this subject. It comes up from time to time. I've had a great number of dancers over to my house (a condo) for OTC. It has never caused me a problem, either while they were there, or later on. I let them use my master bedroom and bath as a dressing room. One dancer actually told me she looked around those two rooms to see if I had a gun. I don't. I don't have any valuables in that area, and I keep doors to other rooms closed while a dancer is in my house. It works very well.
As Papi_Chulo stated in his first response in this thread, a dancer who knows wher you live could become a nuisance. I declined even getting dances at my local club with a dancer who lives in the adjoining condo complex to mine, because I didn't want to get "OTC-friendly" with a dancer that lives that close to me. She knew I did OTC with others in her club, and I thought she felt it'd be very convenient knowing me and how close I lived to her.
Never had but thought about it. I once started to get friendly with a dancer whom I had been over to her place a few times. Considered moving to her town if I was offered a job I was going to an interview for. I stopped by to visit her briefly just to say hi. She was excited about the possibility and suggested she could come over and dance for me every day of the week. I was a bit surprised at that statement. Every day? I was surprised to hear her say every day. I was wondering what she had in mind. Sounded like she wanted to move in.
I've always lived a bit far away from most dancers and do get concerned with dancers getting a lot more attached to me than I want them to be. That's the reason I did not give out my phone number to one dancer recently. I thought there was a real chance she might show up at my door unexpected and not want to leave. 99 percent of the time, I am not concerned with dancers getting too attached to me. It's that rare time when a dancer seems to stalk you and you aren't sure if it's safe to let her know where you live. Maybe she was one in a thousand and the risk is really low.
I have done this three times. Once was a big success. The other two times were a bit of a fizzle. I have no compunctions about letting dancers know where I live because my farm is in a very isolated rural area. If I entertain a girl at my farm I always meet them in the city or at the airport to drive them out to the country. The girls have no hope in hell in finding my place on their own in order to stalk me. My security is not an issue.
@Jabthehut I can respect that but I take no chances just in case they may have a pimp driving. She could report what she sees and have him break in during the sex or one other day or something. Thus I'm escorting her myself.
Estafador,
The ones that come over I have known for quite a while. I have been to their places and in some cases have met their parents, kids, and even husbands/boyfriends/moochers. One's husband thinks she comes to clean my house when she is really cleaning my pipes. My avatar is her ass.
I had one pretty dancer offer to clean my house topless. For a per hour charge though. She told me she started up some kind of topless cleaning service. I can think of better things to do for 50 to 100 an hour or whatever she was charging. She made no hint that she would do anything else. Most dancers seem to live one to two hours away from me. That's too far for any quick stopover. I have been surprised by meeting a few dancers who actually lived in the same town as me or close. I haven't hit it off with any nearby dancers so far.
I'm not even sure if I would want to be that friendly with a dancer who lived that close to me. She might suggest she do a few dances for me and both of us skip driving two hours back and forth to get to strip clubs. Might be fun though with the right girl. If I had enough girls like that I might be able to start my own strip club, lol.
Most strippers seem to have "dark side" connections. I'd prefer to keep that side of my life seperate my regular business, social and country club activites.
I'd always be afraid that she might tip off somebody on what and where she saw it and I'd become a crime statistic and lose some valuable property to a girl more than willing to sell me out for 10% of the "take".
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But if you are unattached, then maybe. If she (or one of her compadres) is planning to do you harm, then it can happen no matter where the OTC is.
But IMO, most OTCers just have the cash in mind and something “happenning†to you can of course happen, but I think it is the pretty rare exception.
The more obvious downside is that she knows where you live and if you both have a falling out, she knows where to find you to pester you. Or she may pester you when she is hard up for $$$.
"The more obvious downside is that she knows where you live and if you both have a falling out, she knows where to find you to pester you. Or she may pester you when she is hard up for $$$."
My gut feeling is THIS negative would override any possible short term positive there might be.
As Papi_Chulo stated in his first response in this thread, a dancer who knows wher you live could become a nuisance. I declined even getting dances at my local club with a dancer who lives in the adjoining condo complex to mine, because I didn't want to get "OTC-friendly" with a dancer that lives that close to me. She knew I did OTC with others in her club, and I thought she felt it'd be very convenient knowing me and how close I lived to her.
I've always lived a bit far away from most dancers and do get concerned with dancers getting a lot more attached to me than I want them to be. That's the reason I did not give out my phone number to one dancer recently. I thought there was a real chance she might show up at my door unexpected and not want to leave. 99 percent of the time, I am not concerned with dancers getting too attached to me. It's that rare time when a dancer seems to stalk you and you aren't sure if it's safe to let her know where you live. Maybe she was one in a thousand and the risk is really low.
LOL – that one never crossed my mind :)
The ones that come over I have known for quite a while. I have been to their places and in some cases have met their parents, kids, and even husbands/boyfriends/moochers. One's husband thinks she comes to clean my house when she is really cleaning my pipes. My avatar is her ass.
I'd always be afraid that she might tip off somebody on what and where she saw it and I'd become a crime statistic and lose some valuable property to a girl more than willing to sell me out for 10% of the "take".