It's Official,I am a PL
JacksonEsskay
Virginia
Not that there was ever in doubt, but after my latest experience I have to admit that I am about as pathetic a loser as there is. Simply put, I contacted a dancer I had met the last time ahead of my most recent business trip and arranged to met her at the club the first night in town. I had already planned to pull an allnighter with her and another dancer after having done a champagne booth with them both the previous time, and I let them talk me into the more expensive bottle. I then inquired about another dancer (the one I had wanted to see on the previous visit, but had ended up with the other two because she had left before I arrived). Turns out she was now dancing at another club, but they promised to get her back that next night -- when I spent entire evening with the three of them in the champagne booth -- even went to breakfast after the club closed. So, yes, I spent more those two nights than I would have on a first class vacation -- but this was really a "bucket list" experience and I do not regret it for the moment (perhaps with the passage of time and arrival of my credit card bill, that may change).
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She got a customer to spend 'high four figures'. I was say she is GOOD at what she does. :)
I'm with Dallas702 on this one. I'm just as big a PL as any man, but Jackson, you blew a valuable wad of cash for little in return. NO woman (and especially dancers) is worth that kind of expense unless you marry them.
(And even then, I would question my judgement).
That being said, I will admit that after reviewing my finances, I have spent $4,283.44 on sex since February. That doesn't include sex from dating, just sex from strip clubs, massage parlors and escorts. Most in one night was probably just over $400...but still. What makes me more of a loser than the OP is I CAN'T afford it!!
I know...I know...that only happens to the "TUSCL players" in here...but I was kinda drunk and she was really good at "the game". I remember waiting in a parking lot down the street for an hour for her to text me. Finally she does and says she was too drunk to drive so the bouncer was driving her home so her and I couldn't hook up after all. Thats when I suddenly realized....I got PLAYED.
Then there was the stripper that gave me an amazing dance....I wanted to go VIP with her...she said she'd be right back....then I see her in street clothes heading to the parking lot. Or last time I went and I had to drive back from the club (40 minutes) as drunk as I've ever been driving...shoulda pulled off at a Dennys or something to sober up...but a was a stupid idiot. Or all the times I tell myself Im just gonna go in and watch some gals, stage tip, have a few drinks, spend $80-$120....and I leave out well over $200.
Strip clubs used to be fun. I'd feel bad about blowing $80 and not getting laid...but I'd just go home and whack it to the memories. Now I usually take care of business at the clubs...no need to go home and whack it...but I'm out over $200 and in addition to not being any "less alone" in real life...I'm feeling inadequate because usually (unless liquored up) these strippers are so damn hot that I'm blowing my load after like 3-4 minutes.
But...I feel better after a strip club evening than I do after an escort/massage parlor evening/afternoon. There's just something inherently wrong when you're banging some fat/nasty hispanic gal for $60 or some asian sex slave who that the guy running the massage parlor has to wake up from her slumber when you arrive.
Good times.
I agree there are times when there is satisfaction in just burning it because you can. e.g. Maybe you did the opposite of what txtittyfuck advised financial and decided to cash out big capital gains from your long treasuries before the Obama tax hikes come in, so why not flaunt it a bit?
Btw, slight off topic. Does Art have a big bankroll than the Richy-Rich Ricky-boy-Dugan? I bet that one's a real horserace. (*sarcasm ;-) )
Lil Wayne and others rappers throw $50k on stage and have swag
Go figure
Why? I got smashed the other night in the club, had a great time.
Whether she is playing you or not only time will tell, but either way you have now set her expectations very high. Even if she does see you OTC, after what you have already spent she is going to expect a bundle and trying to bring her down into a reasonable territory is going to be difficult.
Unless this girl really has your ticket punched and you feel that she is worth a high price tag, you'd probably just be better off hitting the reset button and starting over with someone else.
Embrace your PL side, Grasshopper. It will make you stronger.
If you wanna' have fun and see things clear eyed, you can't take what happens in a club too seriously. One important component in doing this is developing a thick skin and not letting your ego fuck up your head. ;)
Thus spoke Ricky-boy Dugan who used to brag about having spent 10 years developing a system to get strippers to do OTC. That is until he was shot down in the discussions here when he learned it was less effective than "just ask" and ended up costing him more. These days he's pretty quite about the supposed efficacy now. :-)
Life is hard enough as it is – if you can afford to let loose and just go with it *every once in a while* then why not – do it while you can – one never knows what tomorrow will bring – are you going to save your $$$ for when you are too old or not in good enough health to enjoy it?
Having said this – perhaps the old saying “moderation is the key†may apply – as long as this type of behavior doesn’t become the norm; then enjoy what *your* money can afford/offer you – “life is for living†I’ve heard it say.
Most likely you will be able to make up the $$$ you spent and you will have had enjoyed yourself at the same time.
I used to tell myself the same thing LOL and it was during these types of visits that I would end up spending more that I usually would.
I realized a while back that it was futile for me to tell myself this LOL. If I am tight on $$$, most likely I will not go to the club.
Sometimes I will go with a cheap escort to blow my load and get me by while I steer away from the SC (since I usually tend to spend more $$$ in my SC visits than w/ an escort).
Btw, you have been bird-dogging me for several threads now. Is this some man-love thing? Did you like being manhandled by me and are trying to goad me into abusing you yet again? Is that nonsense you keep posting about me "greasing the bouncer at the Outhouse" actually wishful thinking? ;)
For those curious comments about the size of my bankroll? Let me tell you that it is shrinking by the second. I have three rigs drilling 24/7 at the moment up here in NWT.
POUR it on Rick!!! LOL
I think the PL is defined when there is an expectation that you will get more on the next trip and the same outcome keeps occurring. If OTC is your goal, make it happen and don't keep doing the same thing expecting a different outcome.
I'm not looking for OTC so I have different goals in mind when I am at the SC, that being said, some people may think I'm a PL because I spend $ and am not looking for OTC.
You do realize that there are strip clubs in Seattle, no? This site can even give you addresses and map locations. Just thought you might find this useful should you ever decide to leave your mother's basement and collect a little something relevant to share with other members of this site. ;)
The only sexual reference I've seen in any reviews is that you did mention greasing a bouncer in the outhouse. Yet, I'm the one with the man fixation, not you. Got it!
Of course I don't post names and specifics about activities ITC or OTC, nor does anyone else with a lick of sense.
Maybe because your reviews are fake? Or maybe because your interest in the women in the strip clubs, but the bouncers? Hey, why not have a coming out party with tittyfan?