She's Gone . . .

What went wrong is you, Steve. I always advise other club-goers not to get wrapped up in just one dancer. I have always had several faves at any one time. Knowing full well that a dancer could disappear without warning, I have others I can turn to when that happens, and it has happened a few times to me.

So steve, they have the dancers schedules on the clubs website I'm assuming? I've read about that on TUSCL, but none of the clubs in my area do this, so I've never actually seen one.

There's one dancer I've been hoping to bump into, but I don't know when she works, and of course, with my luck, she wasn't at the club the last time I went by there.

It's good to see you posting again steve, I missed your threads. :) I didn't know you were taking a break from clubbing though, that explains why I haven't seen you post much in the last month or so.

Hope you have not become a RIL.

It is what it is. As I too experienced, it does appear tha these ATF/CF things have a shelf live sorry to say. On the bright side, your thing ended uneventfully.

Please see PM Steve. THX!

Yeah, I never did much of the regular/fav thing until a couple of years ago, when I started hanging out at a local club a little more. My last fav retired from the business about 6 months ago and I will admit that I still miss visiting her. Not only was she fun to hang with, but she was great in the sack too.

Life moves on...

Sorry to hear about it, but nothing went wrong. She's moved on; the sooner you do, the better off you'll be. Find another favorite (or two or ten) and put her away with your other pleasant memories.

I kept telling myself not to get too attached but yesterday, I saw this cute new girl with a very tight sexy ass with awesome legs. Had a few dances with her and today I can't stop thinking about it (the ass).

"and today I can't stop thinking about it (the ass)"

I know what you mean! I have an image burned HARD in my mind of a VIP moment with my new ATF. I won't FORGET it for a very, very long time!

Someone once said to me "Sometimes rejection is God's protection." If she really wanted to stay in touch, she would have. There are times when you feel bad about this situation, reviewing what could have been done differently - but in the end, it takes two to make a relationship.

Always, always have a rotation.

Or as some dancers refer to it, your harem.

I'm on sabbatical right now

One great thing about strip clubbing (is that a word?) is that you're actually better off with more than one woman at a time. I always try to have at least two favs at two different clubs. But it doesn't usually work out that way.

"I'm on sabbatical right now"

From What?

"I always try to have at least two favs at two different clubs"

That can be expensive. LOL

Been there. Done that. Twice. Last one ended last Sept after 8 years. Will it happen again? Who knows?

Currently I have 4 favorites at one club that I am Juggleing and a 5th at another club. It's a dirty job but somebody has to do it. :))

Steve, maybe you were Hall and she was looking for Oates?

Steve, you are probably overreacting if its just been a couple of weeks or so, she will most likely be back at the club in sometime. I have been in similar situation with just my ATF as my only fave, after much guidance from TUSCL, I have moved on and have multiple faves now. I would suggest you do the same, there is really nothing you could do to prevent this, just be prepared with other options.

Thanks for all the advice guys. I think I just need to go through the 5 Stages of Stripper Grief.

"Steve, maybe you were Hall and she was looking for Oates?"

@looneylarry - you think it's the 'stache?

Aaaahh! The eternal tuscl discussion board topic.............

Middle-aged male angst and the machinations of the favourite hot, young uncaring, unfeeling stripper.

Perhaps it is time to up the ante with more buck$, steve?

Stevie, there's some good advice on this board....My only comment is to always be the one in control man....be kool

Well, Steve, it's good to see you are just another PL like the rest of us...

"The 5 Stages of Sripper Grief":

1. Spend some money
2. You text her, spend some money
3. She texts you, spend some money
4. Spend more money
5. Get a new fav, spend more money

Ah Steve, I'm feeling your pain. I'm thinking my relationship with my CF/ATF is on it's way down as well.

Yeah, things seem to be stagnating with my current favorites. A couple of weeks ago I told one girl no thanks not even remembering until later that she danced for me several times already.

Found one dancer that almost gave me her number but I have to wonder how serious she was whispering something quick versus writing it down like she said she was going to do. Maybe I should have said I was interested in it. I thought I did but maybe I didn't.

Dude I did this ! Moved on got a new fav was having a goddamn good time then one day the bitch came back ! Oooooooooo ! Aaaaaaaaaaa! Then I was in a rock and a hard place ! Sheeeeeeeuuuuuuuuut !!! Those bitches shit you could deel the tenchon !