Would you stop going to the clubs if you were not as aroused from lapdances as y

4/12/2010 10:52:22 PM

This is maybe a question I should not be asking here but I have developed somewhat of a Erectile dysfuntion over the past 2years. Yeah I can still get aroused, but the strength of my arousal is not what it was some 4 or 5 years ago. I went to the doctor when I 1st started noticing a difference 2 years ago, and he prescribed levitra for me. It worked like a charm.

Well fast forward to this current day. I decided to try some of the Levitra again a few months back and it did not work. Heck I tried samples of the other 2 Cialis and Viagra and neither gave me any stimulation only a "stuffy" nose.

My question is would you stop going to Stripclubs or getting lapdances if you were in my shoes?" I just don't like the fact that when I was "at full strength" some dancers didn't mind grabbing my cock and commented on my size, now even though I enjoy the dance I don't get the crotch grabbing during dances like I use to.

Yeah I know it is kind of silly question but just seems like I enjoyed lapdances better when I had firmer erections than I do now and the attention of wondering hands from dancers.

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georgmicrodong

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15 years ago

If the sensation is still there, but without the erection, you need to speak to your doctor; he might be able to help with a slightly higher dose. If you're on blood pressure medication, cut down on your sugar intake, get some exercise and get off of it; some can exacerbate erectile dysfunction.

If the sensation is gone, i addition to the erectile function, you need to speak to your doctor *now*, as there might be a larger problem that you don't want to progress any further.

However, to answer your actual question, yes I would continue to go. After all, my hands can still wander.

Jpac73

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15 years ago

They gave me the full dose of the pills taken, but I don't think the last doctor I went to really cares that much.
When I first starting having signs of ED I did have uncontrolled highblood pressure but I am on medication now to control it. I excercise 2 or 3 times a week. I am not saying the sex drive is gone, just the Erection size is different now. I guess some of it could be just getting older. I am 36 now so I guess I can't expect to be a full strength like I was when I was 30.

rickdugan

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15 years ago

Damn dude, it's not like you are 60 either. There are guys a lot older than you on this thing that are carrying their woodies from club to club.

You really do need to speak to your doctor as this can be caused by a variety of medical problems.

georgmicrodong

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15 years ago

jpac, if you're on BP meds, those make ED *worse*. The artificial lowering of you're BP lowers it for *everything*, including making you're dick hard. When my doctor first explained that connection a couple of years ago, and I really should have made the connection myself, I went on an immediate change of lifestyle to get rid of it. I'm almost there, and it has made a world of difference. The ED meds are now only really necessary if I expect to go at it more than once a day. I'm only 49, and it's way too early to be losing my hard on to the extent that only medicine can get it back.

deogol

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15 years ago

Yes, change of lifestyle is needed. Ya got to live healthy.

mmdv26

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15 years ago

The more lap dances I get, the less I am stimulated. I have seriously cut back SC'ing for that reason. Waste of time and money if I'm not a top performer.

In the last two years, I've put on an additional 25% of my body weight, and I have nearly stopped all "high heart rate" exercise. I dearly miss the feel of hot pussy rubbing up and down my rock hard manhood....sorry...hahaha. So, I am returning to the gym starting tomorrow, 30 mins on elliptical for starters. I'm doing this for my self. I'm doing this for my pathetically limp manhood. And finally, I doing this so the girls won't have to ask "what's wrong?" right in the middle of the damn dance!!!!

MisterGuy

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15 years ago

"but I don't think the last doctor I went to really cares that much."

"I am 36 now so I guess I can't expect to be a full strength like I was when I was 30."

Dude, ya gotta be fucking kidding us...you're only 36 & you're having these problems already?? You need to get healthy in order to get off of those high blood pressure medications (and any other medications that hurt your chances of getting wood) if you can. If you need to see another doctor to get on the right track, then do so.

Not getting wood during every LD is no big deal, but what you're experiencing could be a a lot worse in the long run.

jabthehut

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15 years ago

No, I wouldn't stop going. I have noticed that I don't last as long of late but heck I'm 63. I can still get it up and in though I can't maintain for as long as I did when I was 60.

LeeH

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15 years ago

Also, depends on how you define "stimulated". If there's a beautiful naked woman rubbing herself on me, I can be very stimulated even if I'm not sporting a full woody the entire time.

Clubber

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15 years ago

J,

You sound about like me. I find that it takes an effort from the dancer to get the desired result these days. A "robotic" dancer usually won't do it for me, but with the right dancer (some "dirty talk" always helps), all can work out as expected.

ArchiePitcar

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15 years ago

In life, we find that we are attracted to some women and not to others. Can't it be the same way with dancers? Some get you going, and some don't. This strikes me as only being natural. I'm 49 and don't exercise as much as I should. Sometimes a lapdance gets me going pretty well, and sometimes not at all. I think the main factor is whether I am attracted to the dancer and whether she at least *seems* interested in me.

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15 years ago

Talk to your doc about your BP meds. They fucking with your hard on.

Now, if you can't get aroused ;in s strip club, why spend the money?

Player11

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15 years ago

You may take a 50mg viagra as a "test shot" and then go into sc to see how it works. It will make you really horny so I hope its an extras club like mine. There are many factors that can interfere with hardon including being worried about what stripper might think of it not getting there.

IMO viagra is better than the others but it may not work well on a full stomach. A friend of mine is 71 and recommends it above all the others. If he has the money, he will do a girl every day. Cut a 100mg tab in half, and take about an hour before session. If nooner, you may want to skip breakfast just to be on safe side but this has not affected me. If after work session, go light on lunch or not at all. Anxiety is the biggest thing that can kill your hard, especially if your hit with drama.

As far as your question - no - that would not stop me.

Player11

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15 years ago

I take BP meds and don't believe it has affected me. You will need to consult your doctor bc he may put you on something different.

Antidepressants like Lexapro can cause all kinda problems. Lexapro caused me to experience DE (Delayed Ejaculation). Only after researching the subject (Dr was no help) on the net did evidence point towards Lexapro. I dropped it with no side effects after being on it 5 years and things got much easier.

Raincoat

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15 years ago

Some people drive to the mountains to enjoy natural beauty, and I am fairly certain that none of them achieve an erection from the experience. I go to stripclubs to enjoy natural beauty.

However, I wonder if, when getting a private dance, it there would be any point in telling the dancer that it is not going to get hard. Would she rub my dick more, or would she completely ignore it?

bigdude012

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15 years ago

Maybe, I wear glasses and am very nearsighted when I tell dancers this it almost always get me a face full of boobs.

Raincoat

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15 years ago

Anyone else ever tell the dancer the have ED?

Raincoat

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15 years ago

Anyone else ever tell the dancer they have ED?