Would you stop going to the clubs if you were not as aroused from lapdances as y
Jpac73
This is maybe a question I should not be asking here but I have developed somewhat of a Erectile dysfuntion over the past 2years. Yeah I can still get aroused, but the strength of my arousal is not what it was some 4 or 5 years ago. I went to the doctor when I 1st started noticing a difference 2 years ago, and he prescribed levitra for me. It worked like a charm.
Well fast forward to this current day. I decided to try some of the Levitra again a few months back and it did not work. Heck I tried samples of the other 2 Cialis and Viagra and neither gave me any stimulation only a "stuffy" nose.
My question is would you stop going to Stripclubs or getting lapdances if you were in my shoes?" I just don't like the fact that when I was "at full strength" some dancers didn't mind grabbing my cock and commented on my size, now even though I enjoy the dance I don't get the crotch grabbing during dances like I use to.
Yeah I know it is kind of silly question but just seems like I enjoyed lapdances better when I had firmer erections than I do now and the attention of wondering hands from dancers.
Well fast forward to this current day. I decided to try some of the Levitra again a few months back and it did not work. Heck I tried samples of the other 2 Cialis and Viagra and neither gave me any stimulation only a "stuffy" nose.
My question is would you stop going to Stripclubs or getting lapdances if you were in my shoes?" I just don't like the fact that when I was "at full strength" some dancers didn't mind grabbing my cock and commented on my size, now even though I enjoy the dance I don't get the crotch grabbing during dances like I use to.
Yeah I know it is kind of silly question but just seems like I enjoyed lapdances better when I had firmer erections than I do now and the attention of wondering hands from dancers.
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If the sensation is gone, i addition to the erectile function, you need to speak to your doctor *now*, as there might be a larger problem that you don't want to progress any further.
However, to answer your actual question, yes I would continue to go. After all, my hands can still wander.
When I first starting having signs of ED I did have uncontrolled highblood pressure but I am on medication now to control it. I excercise 2 or 3 times a week. I am not saying the sex drive is gone, just the Erection size is different now. I guess some of it could be just getting older. I am 36 now so I guess I can't expect to be a full strength like I was when I was 30.
You really do need to speak to your doctor as this can be caused by a variety of medical problems.
In the last two years, I've put on an additional 25% of my body weight, and I have nearly stopped all "high heart rate" exercise. I dearly miss the feel of hot pussy rubbing up and down my rock hard manhood....sorry...hahaha. So, I am returning to the gym starting tomorrow, 30 mins on elliptical for starters. I'm doing this for my self. I'm doing this for my pathetically limp manhood. And finally, I doing this so the girls won't have to ask "what's wrong?" right in the middle of the damn dance!!!!
"I am 36 now so I guess I can't expect to be a full strength like I was when I was 30."
Dude, ya gotta be fucking kidding us...you're only 36 & you're having these problems already?? You need to get healthy in order to get off of those high blood pressure medications (and any other medications that hurt your chances of getting wood) if you can. If you need to see another doctor to get on the right track, then do so.
Not getting wood during every LD is no big deal, but what you're experiencing could be a a lot worse in the long run.
You sound about like me. I find that it takes an effort from the dancer to get the desired result these days. A "robotic" dancer usually won't do it for me, but with the right dancer (some "dirty talk" always helps), all can work out as expected.
Now, if you can't get aroused ;in s strip club, why spend the money?
IMO viagra is better than the others but it may not work well on a full stomach. A friend of mine is 71 and recommends it above all the others. If he has the money, he will do a girl every day. Cut a 100mg tab in half, and take about an hour before session. If nooner, you may want to skip breakfast just to be on safe side but this has not affected me. If after work session, go light on lunch or not at all. Anxiety is the biggest thing that can kill your hard, especially if your hit with drama.
As far as your question - no - that would not stop me.
Antidepressants like Lexapro can cause all kinda problems. Lexapro caused me to experience DE (Delayed Ejaculation). Only after researching the subject (Dr was no help) on the net did evidence point towards Lexapro. I dropped it with no side effects after being on it 5 years and things got much easier.
However, I wonder if, when getting a private dance, it there would be any point in telling the dancer that it is not going to get hard. Would she rub my dick more, or would she completely ignore it?
It can cause vision problems.