She's Pretty, You Like Her, but Why Won't You Buy Dances From Her?
Sunday, June 12, 2016 12:00 AM
The reason I'm posting this on here and NOT stripperweb (as i'm sure ya'll will tell me to do) is because I want the opinion of strip club patrons not other strippers. I want ya'll to tell me what you guys are thinking. What I want to know is, if you think a girl is gorgeous to the point you say you're "in love" blah blah blah why won't you get a dance with her? I make an effort to have a good fun conversation and pepper in some sexiness but I've been coming up dry and I'm not a new dancer (2 years experience). Everyone wants to talk to me forever and blow my head up with compliments but I can't get anyone to do dances with me. They always say maybe later or "i'm just hanging out tonight".
When I finally DO sell a dance the person always ends up getting at least 1 more if not 4 or 5 more, or going to VIP with me. I've even sold 10 dances in a row (which is funny because it would have been cheaper to go to VIP for the same amount of time and a bigger room but he didn't want to for some reason). Customers tell me I smell good, my skin is so soft, I'm so pretty, they would marry me if they weren't already married, I'm the best looking girl in there (not true but i'll take it) my ass is perfect, my body is amazing....yet no one spends money on me. Its frustrating. I try my best to look like I'm having fun on stage, walk around and talk to people, be friendly for the sake of being friendly i.e. saying hi as i'm walking by not even trying to get a dance. But I can't sell lap dances unless I get someone who is specifically looking for a black girl. Even the girls I work with will see me come out of the dressing room and tell me how amazing I look without me prompting it or anything....I guess I'm just confused. Whats even more confusing is when people will stare at you and I mean REALLY stare but as soon as you start walking over they look away and then barely talk to you when you say hi.
One thing I hear often in the club is, "you look like your making money" but I probably make the least amount compared to the others. I'll describe myself: I'm a fit girl, not skinny, definitely not fat but toned. Long thick hair that i wear in loose curls i.e. kim kardashian 2010. No tattoos or piercings except for my ears. I speak proper grammatical english, whiten my teeth almost daily, always popping listerine strips while working so my breath is fresh, and am a professional makeup artist so my makeup is always on point. I also wear outfits that compliment my body type and skin tone, usually ordered online because Im a 34C (hardest size to find in the stores). OK so, for example, take tonight: I spent 2 hours on my hair and makeup, paid $70 to get my nails done, and looked like a million bucks. And no, thats not based on my opinion thats based on what all the patrons were telling me. If i could have turned my compliments into money I would have made a 1000....instead I made $29 after 8 hours of work.
Oopsies, this was probably more suited for the discussion section but fire away.
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