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6 years ago
There's other things I do with my life and without clubbing I would do them more often. I love investing and save more than the average person, so without clubbing the extra cash would be split between more investments and perhaps some nice vacations.
But I also don't think that one needs to club at the same pace for their entire life. When I have a CF who's worth it I up my game, but I do so in a responsible manner. The one I have right now is perhaps the best there ever will be. I think she understands what her shelf life in the industry is, and I plan on seeing that through. Then I'm going to slow down and club more casually, and dedicate more time/funds to other things in life that are important to me.
I've also started a side hustle that occupies some of the time that I could spend clubbing. I will gradually up the time that I put into this, and hopefully this will pave the way for even better clubbing experiences later in life.
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6 years ago
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IceyI put your ATF on a winning team
You peeked my curiosity. Other than money, what other qualities, if any, do they look for in a customer?
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6 years ago
Then I suppose we agree to disagree.
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6 years ago
"Yeah, I know, the long game."
I think the long game is great if it means she values you as a customer and wants to keep things going as they are . . . but at the same time, if the long game turns out to be something more, you don't find out until you've spend a lot of time and money with her, unless you've been incredibly perceptive . . .
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6 years ago
She could have offered me a dance and told me how much they cost, but she didn't take that approach. Had I fallen in love with her I assume that she'd have been happy to move in and start blowing about $16k each month.
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6 years ago
I've found that it's more likely for the price to creep up rather than down, like she did X the first time because she needed quick cash, but if X is going to become a regular thing then it will be a bit more each time. I've also had girls text me lower prices than usual on a slow night or if I get to the club before her and have already started spending she'll understand and make an exception. But if it's someone I like then we'll work out a fair price and if we both appreciate the arrangement then that's where it typically stays.
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6 years ago
I had one invite me to a table where her civilian girlfriends were hanging out. She asked me to buy everyone a round while the civilians told me that I should spend a lot of money on their friend. I got up and left.
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6 years ago
Just move on to another girl. I like a noticeable smell, but not what you describe. And I've found plenty that suit my tastes.
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6 years ago
When I haven't tipped her on stage, attempted eye contact, or paid the least bit of attention to her, and she plops down in a chair next to me and won't leave.
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6 years ago
"have you ever had a girl undercount and told her as a matter of principle, I have."
Yes - but not if the dance sucked, I cut it off after one song, and then she tries to tell me it was two. I had this happen once, so I dropped the exact cost of one song on the floor and walked out laughing.
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6 years ago
I hate it when they're not clairvoyant. A proper stripper will send me dirty texts whenever I feel like spending on OTC, and when I don't feel like spending she should send me texts saying that she misses hanging out with me and wants to know if we can meet at a bar just for fun. So far none of them have met my expectations.
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6 years ago
"but I suppose that it might give some guys a false sense that they are somehow closer to a girl."
I think a little speck of trust in a world that doesn't revolve around trust can be kind of cool. But you're right, it's best not to think it means more than it does.
"Ya, OP's mistake is wording it "gotten your CF to reveal her last name""
I re-read my question several times after reading your comment. I get what you're saying, but I don't think the insinuation is as straightforward as your interpretation. I would say there have been a number of times where I "got" my CF to reveal her last name just by being a decent customer who she felt comfortable with, and though I wasn't prodding for it, I do enjoy running background checks should the opportunity present itself. I prefer the former high school honor students over the hardened criminals, but looks are also a deciding factor for me.
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6 years ago
IMO the price of the dances should also be taken into account. If I'm at the Hip Hugger and paying $10 a dance then it doesn't bother me. If I'm buying enough that over counting becomes a possibility, then I just shrug it off and deduct the over counted songs from her tip. At $20 per song then it really depends on if she did a good enough job to deserve it. If I'm at a place that charges $30 to $40 per song then that's a completely different story and I'm not putting up with it. I'll get the manager involved if I have to, and only once has the manager been in on it. In that case I didn't go back until enough time had passed for significant turnover (I also heard the the manager was fired after a LE raid, so good for that jackoff).
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6 years ago
Anyone ever run a background check expecting to see something ordinary, like maybe a possession charge or solicitation, but when you see all the stuff they've got against her you're just like damn, that's fucked up, she seemed like such a sweet girl until now?