Comments by gentleman_scholar (page 2)

Absolutely . . . there's no better way to get other girls out of the club for some OTC than to have one of their stripper friends vouch for how safe she'll be with you . . . that goes a long way . . . But I'm not giving any money to the platonic friend. Period.

Flagooner - the post is about doing something nice for someone who has gone above and beyond and deserves it. Clearly, this is a topic that you would know nothing about, so why are you responding???

General and DC9428 - the two of you are both gentlemen and scholars. Thank you both for responding!

"Maybe grow a dick." Oh good, now we're getting sarcasm from the one poster on here who's never made an intelligent comment, but just lurks about the message board killing time while hoping that a girl might actually return one of his texts, but they never do . . . especially if they've seen his little baby dick . . .

"This forum has a lot of macho posturing, hence the replies." I couldn't agree more. Men go to strip clubs for a million different reasons. And there's at least a handful of them with no other choices.

I've already been accused of being a troll. I'm not. But if I thought what I was writing was worth money I wouldn't be publishing it here for free.

should read "Don't come back to the club right away . . . "

That's a tough one. I prefer OTC with girls who don't normally do OTC. It just feels less slutty and more triumphant. The downside, you could invest a fair amount of money into making the girl feel comfortable with you and then never get OTC. It happens. But the upside, when you score with one of these girls it's an incredible stroke to your ego. So I prefer girls to say no at first, and I'm polite about it when they do. When I finally get their number it's cool if she doesn't text back. The key is not to hound her about it and play like it's no big deal. Other customers might be hounding her. Boys her own age might be hounding her. Set yourself apart. Do come back to the club right away, and when you do act like it's no big deal that she didn't text back and just do a few dances. It's even better if she can feel a huge wad of cash in your pocket, but don't spend it on her there in the club. Just spend enough to make her feel appreciated. Do that a couple time and she'll start asking you for OTC. It can be a long process, so I find it's best to play the field, enjoy some variety, and when it happens it happens. I try to keep my spending under control while I play the field, and only do a couple dances per girl until one strikes my interest, and then I gradually up the spending to what I would be willing to part with OTC. If I don't have her attention with that type of spending, then it's a good thing I've been playing the field and won't be starting completely from scratch with the next girl.

Thank you, NJ. You're a gentleman and a scholar.

"I fuck so many bitches that it has to be small." Sigh. Denial is such a painful place to be. I hope things improve for you.

"That's RIL territory whether or not one wants to classify it as such or not." Perhaps I should rephrase the question, papi. Other than upping the price, is there anything one can do to ensure that the girl prefers him over other customers? If looking for a way to keep her coming back without upping the price is RIL territory, then what on earth do you say about the guys who sped more than their budget?

"You can put her on your will - that's nice" That's actually a really good idea. She's about 20 years younger, so it's conceivable that I'll die first, though I do exercise and take good care of myself. If she hangs out with me into old age without upping the price by more than the increase in inflation I might just do that. But for obvious reasons, she couldn't know until I die. Does anyone else have a serious reply?

"If ur so wealthy and high class why u asking us cretins for advice?" Don't be so hard on yourself. And I never called anyone on here a cretin. Perhaps you've confused me with a different member.

Thanks shailynn. I have an event to go to, so ideally I'll hit day shift, which I've done before at Blush on a Friday and it was pretty damn good. But I often find that Saturday day shift isn't up to par at a lot of places. So if that's going to be the case I'd rather stay in the burgh later than I intended and just catch UFC at Cheerleaders after my event instead. Does that have any impact on your answer?

"If you found trace bits of my cum, then you are all the better for it." The girls also tell me that you blow a small load. It's big of you to be able to admit that, so to speak.

Daddy_Tricks - my lawyer will slap you with a slander suit faster than you can say "Why'd my bitch just walk out the door with that rich lookin' fella?" I'm not going to dirty my hands with it myself, I'm too busy scrubbing them clean after I've had the misfortune of stumbling upon a club that the likes of you generally frequent.

This youtube video should sum things up on this topic: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pucmmb_uLCo

two_bits, I greatly appreciate your well-written, insightful, and thoughtful response. You truly are a gentleman and a scholar. But as far as number 3 is concerned, how do you handle these shot girls if you think they might have some sort of redeeming value, perhaps between the sheets, yet hold absolutely no value as a shot girl? How would you handle the bitch in such a situation?

I'll take what pauldrake describes over an air dance any day. Worst dance I ever got was nothing but air. The fact that she thanked me halfway through for understanding and told me that only a handful of customers had ever complained about her dance was icing on the cake. I didn't tip. And I laughed when she asked if I wanted another.

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Thanks for the advice, but I've been around long enough to weed out the trolls, such as yourself.

My ATF is special and I want her to know it. While I won't necessarily stop what I'm doing for this kind of text, when I do get back to her I tend to say something like "Sorry I couldn't help last night, just saw your text" and then I let her know my availability for our usual thing (which is what keeps her hanging around anyway). If other girls pull this kind of shit I tell them they're just someone I chose to spend a couple hours with while my sugar baby was waiting for her nails to dry. That tends to solve the problem.

I start with a mid-range hotel, perhaps the Red Roof Inn, and if things work out and we keep seeing each other I gradually progress to the Hyatt or the Hilton. The really nice places are the best with nice girls who don't generally do OTC, but will with me because I make them feel comfortable. These girls tend to really appreciate it and will eventually prefer hanging out with me over working a busy Friday or Saturday at the club. If she comes across as a whore I might just leave her at the club, or Super 8 at best.

It's healthy to take a break from clubbing every once in a while. Go enjoy a different hobby and stick your SC cash into some conservative investments. When you start back, spend less than you used to until you see a girl worth spending on. I know plenty of girls who feel the need to take periodic breaks, and it's probably best if the customers do too.

I am richer than two bits