Do you do anything extra for a CF if she's special?
gentleman_scholar
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And I'm not talking she's special because you're a RIL and you just can't help yourself, but special because she's gorgeous, polite, reliable, fun to hang out with, and is basically better than any girl you've ever met this way.
For such a girl, have you ever done anything above and beyond giving her money and perhaps the random favor like driving her around or something? I'm looking for ideas. I want the girl to know how amazing she is without coming across like I want her to think of me as more than a customer (though I do legitimately believe that this girl considers me one of the greatest customers ever, not just for the cash, but because I'm respectful and a pleasure to deal with).
For such a girl, have you ever done anything above and beyond giving her money and perhaps the random favor like driving her around or something? I'm looking for ideas. I want the girl to know how amazing she is without coming across like I want her to think of me as more than a customer (though I do legitimately believe that this girl considers me one of the greatest customers ever, not just for the cash, but because I'm respectful and a pleasure to deal with).
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^^LMAO
I don't mind doing a favor for a dancer just for the mere fact she needs a favor like I would do for anyone else that needed a favor where I could help out - not b/c I wanna get on her "nice list" - my PLness has limits.
Don't be so hard on yourself. And I never called anyone on here a cretin. Perhaps you've confused me with a different member.
That's actually a really good idea. She's about 20 years younger, so it's conceivable that I'll die first, though I do exercise and take good care of myself. If she hangs out with me into old age without upping the price by more than the increase in inflation I might just do that. But for obvious reasons, she couldn't know until I die.
Does anyone else have a serious reply?
Perhaps I should rephrase the question, papi. Other than upping the price, is there anything one can do to ensure that the girl prefers him over other customers? If looking for a way to keep her coming back without upping the price is RIL territory, then what on earth do you say about the guys who sped more than their budget?
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I couldn't agree more. Men go to strip clubs for a million different reasons. And there's at least a handful of them with no other choices.
Oh good, now we're getting sarcasm from the one poster on here who's never made an intelligent comment, but just lurks about the message board killing time while hoping that a girl might actually return one of his texts, but they never do . . . especially if they've seen his little baby dick . . .
I'm a good listener myself, enough casual conversations where you let her do the talking will reveal something she's always wanted, or something she's never done, or the best food she's ever eaten before, etc. I'll jot notes down in my phone at the end of the night so I don't forget. You just need to not jump at the first idea she may be trying to inject into your head and wait for that subtle thing she mentions. Take her to a nice restaurant, and then pull out of your pocket that amazing bbq sauce she mentioned she had once when traveling. Take her for ice cream and then order 2 of whatever her favorite flavor is. The little things often show how much you care. Buy something for her dog or cat.
Assuming you know her real name, if all else fails, cyber stalk her facebook, twitter or instagram account and find the post where she talks about how much she "looooove lilies" or whatever. Then you need to get her into a conversation about flowers so she reveals that info, thus you don't come off as a creeper when you have a car full of lilies on that next date.
1. "Withholding your affection from girls who have given you theirs has nothing to do with being a real man."
Sorry to break it to you, but a stripper having true affection for a customer is about as rare as steak tartare. And in those once in a lifetime instances it is highly recommended not to get sucked into it.
2. "...the one poster on here who's never made an intelligent comment..."
The rest of what you said might be true but not this part. I wrote an intelligent comment a couple weeks ago. I can't remember what it was though. I think I was drunk.
Subraman has a patent on locking down a bitch - I won't speak for him but I'll paraphrase what he's posted in the past:
* he goes during the slowest time of the day when there isn't a lot of $$$ in the club that she'd be bypassing - for him I think that is early-afternoon but perhaps in your club a Mo or Tu early-eve could work
* he makes an appointment w/ her ahead of time (ph text I imagine) so she knows he's coming in and she can accommodate him
* he's posted he buys them drinks and food to pass the time
* and I assume he has communicated to her his expectations (she's only w/ him when he's there and has made an appt)
Anyway - not trying to speak for Subra; but this is more or less his system for getting what he wants (time w/ a fave).
Obviously the girls are there to WORK and make $$$ - a PL being "charming" and "having a great sense of humor" is not gonna pay her bills - i.e. it comes down to a value propo$ition for her as to whether your inve$tment is worth her extended-time.
:)
I gave it to her because she was a bad ass.
Did you want advice or just someone to write what you wanted to read?
I'm guessing you are a fucking millenial.
Stop wasting my time and get off my yard.
The Jerk
Clearly, this is a topic that you would know nothing about, so why are you responding???
That's so sad flagooner. Instead of just having fun with the girl and accepting it for what it is she taught you a lesson. And you didn't even learn the lesson the first time around, huh. You had to be in the position a few times, as you say, before you learned your lesson. Really, it's quite sad.
Just like the VIP room, with OTC you pay per experience, and when the time is up it's up. If it's good I'll keep buying more, but I still understand that I'm paying per experience and there is no requirement for the experiences to continue indefinitely. I'll tip for good service in VIP and for this one I'd like to do something nice for the good service I've received OTC. Is that such a crime?
When this girl moves on there will be plenty more waiting at the strip club. Whether or not I go above and beyond for any of them will depend on whether or not they go above and beyond for me.
For those of you capable of providing a serious response without projecting your own misfortune and inability to maintain your mental clarity around 20-year-olds walking around in their underwear and hustling for tips (ie., not flagooner), I sincerely thank you.
Ouch! Damn two_bits, just as I was starting to like you ... I'm pretty sure I didn't say "aim no higher than a 7.5" in that thread you're referencing . I think I was mentioning that (or 7?) as the bottom floor. Obviously, get the hottest chick, man!
Otherwise, Papi has Subrasystem down :) Except that I don't think I've ever actually said to a stripper "and you're only allowed to be with me the entire time", just taken action if she's playing the field, and moving on to the next fave (possibly permanently). The vast majority of the time, there's no discussion of anythng needed -- strippers whose business runs on regulars know the expectations of good regulars.
^LOL.
@OP-->"I want the girl to know how amazing she is without coming across like I want her to think of me as more than a customer."
^Perhaps I'm a cynic, but with you referring to seeking to wow her with a non-cash gift, this strikes me as inconsistent.