discussion comment
a year ago
The problem with this is that after a while some closet racist liberal will come to the conclusion that “delegating trans women (men) to work at specific clubs is discrimination - they should be able to dance at Desire, or Vivide, or Pandora’s or Flight Club”
This is going to lead to all our favorite clubs featuring several trans dancers and those of us who don’t fuck with that stuff will be labeled as bigots.
discussion comment
a year ago
It’s fun at first, but definitely gets old after a while. When I first moved here, I’d leave a half hour early just to stop at one. That lasted about 3 weeks and then I kinda just stopped going
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minnowAny place that interests me.
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Terrible, awful.
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This guy is incoherent
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Very generic review. Waste of time to read.
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discussion comment
a year ago
Nm…I’m slow. I get it now
discussion comment
a year ago
*Pause*
discussion comment
a year ago
1. For those clubs that try and sell “dancer drinks” I just politely decline.
2. Be flirty and friendly with all the girls/waitresses/bartenders.
3. Don’t become anyone’s “regular”. Play the field.
4. Don’t gossip about other dancers with other dancers. Don’t repeat shit that one dancer tells me about another dancer or customer
5. Always ask why I’m taking a phone number. If her intention is just to bombard me with a bunch of “are you coming to see me at the club” texts than I don’t bother.
6. Tip the stage often as long as the young ladies are energetic and smiling.
7. Wear cologne and carry gum or breath mints.
8. Never chase down dancers. I wait for them to choose me.
9. Don’t be a dick for no reason - but don’t be afraid to be a dick if necessary.
10. No draws
11. Avoid the drive-by’s.
12. Converse with/address all the young ladies the same way as I would in the outside world.
13. Loosen up and have a little fun….don’t overthink
discussion comment
a year ago
I ran into a legendary dancer of the Seattle circuit at a swingers club here on two different occasions. Both times, She was with some dude that must be her cuck I imagine. Both times, she gave me a quick look and then kinda shook her head “no” as if to let me know not to acknowledge her. I obliged, not aware of who this dude she was with might be.
Next time I saw her at her home club she said that the dude paid her to attend these events with her.
discussion comment
a year ago
Perfect answer @WiseToo. The nerve of that chick to ask you that. But I know a bunch of dudes would have paid because they just didn’t want any problems or wanted to make friends with the girl.
article comment
a year ago
Great article. I only disagree with one point:
In my humble opinion, what you are describing isn t necessarily “OTC”. When I think of OTC, I think of when dudes negotiate to meet a dancer at a hotel or some other spot for a pre-arranged price.
What I feel you are describing is just normal chemistry with a dancer that can lead to actual dates - not paid ones. This is true of most women - not just dancers specifically. Any hump can offer a boring dinner and movie date…but you’ll get further taking them on their first helicopter ride or to a wine tasting at an art gallery or to the aquarium. Women never forget experiences like this - but will accept a dinner date and never answer the phone again.
discussion comment
a year ago
Who brags about pussy that they paid for anyways??
discussion comment
a year ago
Sounds like this dude was just delusional. Some men just aren’t built for gentlemen’s clubs. He should be spending his money in a therapist’s office instead of the club.
discussion comment
a year ago
How long before @minnow provides an incoherent review of this place??
- Wide range of outcomes. Sometimes worth it.
I like your style….
Definitely cannot be weak and give in to these scammers. It’s ok to be an asshole sometimes. Too many times guys will just cave in because they “don’t want problems”. I’ve been kicked out of this place before for refusing to cater to this ROB mentality. But on the flipside, there are definitely some gems here and they make it worth your time.
- Fun Saturday
Congrats my man! You had a porn star afternoon. New Cuban dancer, huh??… 🤤😁
discussion comment
a year ago
Kinda sounds like it is based on the description @mogul1985
discussion comment
a year ago
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Perhaps… 🤔
discussion comment
a year ago
I think nudity on stage means that they will pull the thong to the side and flash the goods periodically….or if guys are up there tipping. But a lot of this newer generation of dancers sometimes feel like if they aren’t getting tipped right that moment they don’t have to get nude. Of course, not all of them are that way - just some.
I’d say it’s about a 50/50 shot in a full nude club. I live in Seattle now (although not for much longer….) and that’s how it is here. But in the southeast, it’s more like 80/20 in favor of full nude.
discussion comment
a year ago
@Dustyhawkins, you clearly have no game or seduction skills or else you wouldn’t bitch and moan the way you do. Cut the malarkey
discussion comment
a year ago
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Lame attempt at humor/sarcasm. Justify your decisions however you like, do you bro.
discussion comment
a year ago
You always have a slick remark for everything. Go back to stalking dancers online.
discussion comment
a year ago
Has nothing to do with strippers. Women in general can be extremely insecure and many feel threatened by other women (especially attractive ones). Back when I co-ran the IT department at a law firm, there were a ton of fine attorneys, legal assistants and paralegals that worked there. They would try to outdo each other with how tight/short their skirts could be. They would compete to see who could get a response from their tickets faster. And I have walked into an office where two or three women were in there chit-chatting and laughing at each other’s jokes. When I get there to work on the ticket, the other two left and the attorney who’s ticket I was there to work on began to start talking about the other 2 that just left out…
They would spread rumors about each other sleeping with partners or whomever and just talk bad in general about each other all under the guise of being “friends”. Some of them actually did hang out and do happy hour after work occasionally. Eventually, there were some blowups and HR got involved and the whole 9. So all of this is just to say that I think it’s just what some women do, regardless of profession.
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