Comments by impala (page 16)

Was 10 guys. 12 women. I was introduced to a few people and everyone was nice. Only about half the people there had done this before, though, and like me were not the most comfortable with the whole thing. I guess the people who did this before knew each other and this was quite a regular thing. I did see that my friend did disappear quite a few times and by the end of the night looked exhausted, as did a few other people, but for the most part most of us just hung out. One thing you didn't talk about was who was doing who at that time. Was invited by a couple of women (who didn't participate) to go to Denny's afterwards to get breakfast but I was my friend's ride so declined. It was just weird. People sitting around, should you wait to be asked, do you ask, do you try and cop a feel or kiss someone. It probably would had been better if less of us had been our first time.

Really depends on the club. I will say this much, nothing will kill a club quicker than when the dancers just don't show up!

Just remember, it's only a transaction based relationship. Don't think she's really into you, odds are you're not the first (evan that night) and not going to be the last. I knew a few dancers that were actually escorts that used strip clubs to build and maintain a client base.

I try not to but names to, well, let's call it services, here in the open forum. Now, that being said, I have shared info with certain individuals in pm

If anyone has some advice I would appreciate it

She was actually surprised and said that if she had known that she would have worked there, just liked to please people. Tried to set up some OTC action but just never worked out. Never saw her again.

Was once at one of my regular places (only pl in there at that point) when a dancer came in and asked the barmaid/manager for a job. The manager and me were good friends, she looked at me and asked if she borrowed me, then looked strait at the dancer and told her to strip down to her underwear and give me a lapdance. She complied and did as she was told and game me a hell of a dance. All was going well till she reached down and unzipped my pants, at which point she was told that wasn't allowed. She stopped, got dressed and just left. Manager just looked at me and said she meant she couldn't do that in the bar area. Side note, saw her about 6 weeks later at a different club (non extras place) and once she remembered me told me that she thought that that was what when the on in a SC. Told her it did, just in the back room.

One time I bust in a strippers mouth, she was pissed, told me the deal was only to suck my dick and wanted an extra $50 when done. Told her I gave her all I had to give.......

At this point I do plan on going, just really nervous, not so much nervous, more intrigued by the whole situation

This isn't a club, it's a party at someone's house. Was told that wouldn't cost anything but I had to provide protection and anything I wanted to drink.

Wow, I won't pay more than $60 for a BJ, covered or bare

Granted first time I went I was 17 and was several years till I went again.

In Drew Carey's book 'Dirty Jokes and Beer, Stories Fot The Unrefined', the first sentence in the book says (and I paraphrase) to never pay more than $20 for a lapdance, if you do you will ruin it for the rest of us!

Hate the very strict no touch clubs. PA use to be very strict on it, and the clubs that followed the rules sucked (many didn't). There was one I would visit from time to time that was so strict about it that you actually had to sit on your hands when any dancer was within 3 foot of you.

I just need to make my house fee back tonight (after watching her come out from her fourth or fifth private dance and knowing the place doesn't charge a house fee).

My boyfriend needs to get his drums out of pawn for a gig he has this weekend (actually was told that one once).

Papi, looks like we had the same thought at the same time. We need to hit the clubs together dude

It's my first night doing this, can you help break me in?

Well, that started off as one of the most uncomfortable conversations I've ever had. Turns out that was both their idea, and he said that his wife has a couple of friends that she thinks I would have a ball with. He also gave me the green light with his wife (although I don't think that is a good idea but whatever), so I guess I will have an update after the weekend.

Fuck it, I'm calling him, let you know how I make out. Thank you everyone for the suggestions.

One thing I didn't say was years ago we were fuck buddies, and I actually introduced the two of them. She's in the past (but not recently) told me that if I ever needed a "release" she could help me out. Like the Kinks said " Should I stay or should I go"

Question, does anyone think I should call her husband and talk to him? My only real fear there is that he doesn't know anything about it.

I've said many times never again, usually after dealing with some ROB or some crazy stripperdrama shit. I take a break then realize how much I miss the rest.

Something major must have happened for him to just up and quit.......unless he just means TUSCL because his wife saw his browser history. Let's all just hope that's it and he will eventually be back. Don't stop clubbing, don't even think about it, we need to all stick together. Wonder if we can get a group together like AA for guys thinking about stopping to help convince them otherwise?

Shadowcat, I sorta agree, who wants to share their significant other. On the other hand, nothing like sampling the buffet. I'M SO CONFUSED! I need guidance on this one.