Soooo what do you plan to do w/ your spare time and your blue-balls (assuming you're saying you're done w/ SCs)? Maybe you should just take a break and rhink things over & perhaps what *you* could be doing better/different.
Something major must have happened for him to just up and quit.......unless he just means TUSCL because his wife saw his browser history. Let's all just hope that's it and he will eventually be back.
Don't stop clubbing, don't even think about it, we need to all stick together.
Wonder if we can get a group together like AA for guys thinking about stopping to help convince them otherwise?
He's written I the past that his posts are cathartic for him.
I guess he's having issues grappling with the cognitive dissonance of the strippershit. Personally for me the SS has been obvious from day one when I started clubbing at 18. So it does not bother me. I'm really surprised if more than a minority of PLs believe it though. Despite dancers being great actresses/seductresses there is always something about the dancers' body language that betrays them, and for me at least, causes cognitive dissonance, so I never get sucked in, but rather, I simply enjoy the ride. But that's me. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Maybe more experience S with civvie women would help the OP. ??
I've said many times never again, usually after dealing with some ROB or some crazy stripperdrama shit. I take a break then realize how much I miss the rest.
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Don't stop clubbing, don't even think about it, we need to all stick together.
Wonder if we can get a group together like AA for guys thinking about stopping to help convince them otherwise?
Take a break - collect some stamps - and you'll come back eventually.
Get your bus pass and your backpack and you'll be fine
I guess he's having issues grappling with the cognitive dissonance of the strippershit. Personally for me the SS has been obvious from day one when I started clubbing at 18. So it does not bother me. I'm really surprised if more than a minority of PLs believe it though. Despite dancers being great actresses/seductresses there is always something about the dancers' body language that betrays them, and for me at least, causes cognitive dissonance, so I never get sucked in, but rather, I simply enjoy the ride. But that's me. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Maybe more experience S with civvie women would help the OP. ??
Amen brother
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