A stripper offered to have a threesome with my bf and I. We have her number. I'm a little worried about a few things.
If you will buy me a round with her, i'll test her out for you.
troop ponders the irony of someone named dirt asking if someone else is clean ;-)
ok, even if you ask, short of being present while she's tested and you see the results there's no way of actually knowing if she's clean/disease free. but regarding payment, each situation is different, you're asking the wrong people, you should be asking her.
Even more reason to have someone check her out for you.
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And dental dams can help with the two ladies' activities.
I dunno about the paying part. Whenever I've been offered OTC stuff the only thing it usually cost me was dinner. But since it wasn't a threesome, maybe that makes it different. What would happen if you offered up money and she got hugely insulted? It's a longshot, maybe....but talk about an awkward situation!
lopaw, you think a stripper would be insulted when offered money? You must live in an alternative universe.
Dirt, the more important questions have to do with your relationship with your BF and whether the two of you have talked this out entirely. If you're just looking for a one time adventure, then I would recommend finding a girl who does want money, because it will then be over when it's over. And then you can decide if you both liked it as much as you imagined.
My personal experience with threesomes is that they were fun, but not as much fun (and as satisfying) as sex with the right woman.
BTW, if you like sharing your BF with other girls, why not consider getting involved in a swingers group? It's a lot more open, predictable and less expensive than strip clubs for that purpose.
Thanks for the info! harrydave: I think the underlying issue is that I was his first and only. He's probably curious to know what it's like to be with another woman. Maybe he thinks a threesome would be an easy way of experiencing that while still having me around. The whole experience interests me (I've never had an experience with another girl before and I'm up for experimenting) but makes me wonder what he's thinking at the same time. Am I just in the way of him exploring, and beig with other women. I've suggesting girl on girl action and him just watching but he wants to be involved too. Anyways that a whole other can of worms.
Thanks!
well dirt only 1 way to find out if she's dirt-y and strippers want money
jackslash, it's rare....but yes a stripper that I once offered $$$ to OTC was offended. Apparently I was thinking that it was a P4P deal, but she was thinking we were dating. My bad for not setting the record straight from the beginning. LOL I'll bet you wished you lived in my "alternative universe"!
I would think she expects to be paid. Will she be doing your BF bareback?
Many strippers will like girls and love bringing another stripper home to hubby. They like the thrill of not only doing her but seeing hubby fuck her. One I have been seeing otc told me about this. I asked her if she was insulted if hubby came with the other gal instead of her - she said "not in the least bit, there is not a jealous bone in my body." Well I guess not considering I have been fucking her on a regular basis the entire first year of her marriage. She told me one instance where she brought a stripper home for hubby and he not only came in her bareback but cried out loudly with each spasm of enjoyment as he was shooting his wad way up in her. She told me it sort of thrilled her to c that and that after that gal left she really wanted to fuck him. She said he was a little tired out from it but she took things into her own hands and it all worked out.
A friend of mine a fellow strip clubber and another guy had a threesome with a stripper from Ricks Cabaret. The girl was as excited as she could be and while he is not homo he was thrilled by the experience. He has invited me to similar threesomes but I have decined. If I want to c a guy fuck a gal I will stick to porno.
You will not know whether she is clean. It's just a risk you take having sexual relations with anyone you don't know (and some you do). You can be.safe by using condoms. That's probably all you can do.
Yes, she expects to be payed.
If boundaries are set it can go smoothly. Agree on a price beforehand. Tell her what you expect to get from the experience. Tell her how far she can go with your boyfriend and also with you.Go down to the hotel bar and have your boyfriend buy you all a round of drinks beforehand. Keep an open mind.