Was at a club in IL a few days ago, one with strict rules when it comes to the ladies, touching is almost a no no it seems can only keep hands on waist, maybe some leg touching if lucky. My ATF works here and she knew I was gonna be there, we text back and forth. When I got there I could tell she had a few drinks maybe too many and when she finally came over to me, she climbed on top of me and started giving me a grind at the table we were at, and I thought well this is different. Next thing I know there is some really deep kissing going on and I thought for sure a bouncer would be over to kick my ass out but I totally went with it anyway, it was fun. Eventually one of the club managers came over and told the dancer that we had to go to the VIP or Champagne room.
We went to the VIP for almost an hour and there was more kissing and touching going on in places than there should have been, use your imagination. Someone came in and told the dancer she was being loud and she got a warning for it. We finished and I gave her a good tip and I was going to buy her a drink, they would not serve any more to her. We go back to my table and about a minute later and one of the managers told her to come to the back with her and that was the last I saw of her. I even tipped the waitress that was serving me to go check on her, the waitress said she would be right out but she never showed, I finished up my drink and left.
On my way home I texted her and called, nothing. I really just wanted to know if she was alright and got home safely, I at least hope these morons called her a cab home cause she should not have driven home. I do feel guilty in a sense cause I know what the rules are and I should not have pushed it (don't attack me for that guys) I always have so much fun with her, none of this would have been necessary anyway. But her lack of response to me is concerning, either she wants to be left alone for a while or is totally telling me to fuck off with her lack of response. I tried yesterday one last time to call and text, but I fear the worst that it might be over, and I really do feel terrible if i caused her to get fired and even wish that I did not go that day, maybe things would have been different or maybe the same result would have occurred with someone else, I really don't know.
Sorry for the damn novel here, but what do u guys and gals think...is it over/should I not even bother to try again to get it touch with her and leave her alone, should I give it a few more days, thoughts anybody, any advice here would be great or even someone with a similar experience. Thanks :)
My first thought is that the manager called her back there to sober up. It's no use talking to a wasted person, so I've seen many managers make girls sober up in the office, then talk to them after. Waitresses are buffers. It's her job to come out and tell you she'll be right out. It's possible she sobered up and was too embarrassed to show her face again for the night. As for getting fired, its possible, but I would think if she were fired, that it wasn't her first indiscretion. Strip club managers usually like their girls and want them to do well. They also understand the business. They would probably give her a warning. Now if this is her third warning, though, she could have been fired. Don't call her anymore. Wait for her to call you. Dancers know how to get in touch with customers. She will come.around.