"I am not a whore."
georgmicrodong
Just a fat, creepy old pervert.
I've lost count of the number of times I've heard this comment from a girl before, during, or after whatever it is we might have been doing. In my opinion, this statement is actually true in many cases; the word itself, for all its technical accuracy, bears some negative connotations for me that I don't think apply to most of the dancer-prostitutes I've met, though most usage is as a synonym for "prostitute".
That said, I've never, ever, seen anything that would indicate that there's even the slightest up side to contradicting any girl who ever says it. What would be the point? I see no harm in letting her fool herself, as long as *I* am not fooling *my*self.
Have you ever contradicted anyone who said "I am not a a whore"? If so, why?
That said, I've never, ever, seen anything that would indicate that there's even the slightest up side to contradicting any girl who ever says it. What would be the point? I see no harm in letting her fool herself, as long as *I* am not fooling *my*self.
Have you ever contradicted anyone who said "I am not a a whore"? If so, why?
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There are going to be customers out there that think all dancers are whores, whether they perform sex acts or not. I can't change that, its just the way it is.
It seems like the girls that get offended by "whore" are the ones that have a some type of inner turmoil going on related to the job. If you can't go home and sleep well at night after work, as bad as it sounds, you may need to practice some disconnection skills (as effed up as that sounds). Strip clubs are fantasy. If you're a whore, fine, if your not, that's fine to. Leave it at the door.
Threadstarter is correct, no possible reason to contradict the girl. I also definitely agree with HarryDave here in that unless you're independently wealthy, you are in the legion of us who whore ourselves out as well.
No. People generally don't let others say bad things about them. Even if it's true. And most women spend their lives thinking OTHER girls are sluts and whores, but will never call themselves a whore. And the "look my daughter in the eye..." thing is huge with women. Although it's incredible how some women can find ways to rationalize their whore-ishness.
So no, there's no way you should even think about contradicting her. She'll never admit it. Out loud at least.
I treat these comments like those of hustlers who approach me on the street with long and detailed accounts of how their car is broken down on the highway with wife/babies inside, how they got their car towed/booted, etc., and how they only need some odd amount of money (usually $17) to fix their problem. It's a scam, through-and-through meant to play on my emotions to achieve some effect they want, so I never buy into their banter. For strippers, I just enjoy the grope and grind, and ignore the rest.
I guess it's only a matter of time?
You will never hear that comment, since all women are whores, ducking as I speak. :) Just a joke.
Call a person who is an idiot "stupid" and they'll get all sorts of fired up. They know they are dumbasses and they know they can't change it. Call a Mensa member "stupid" and they'll just smile and be entertained by you.
Call a skinny person "fat" and they'll just laugh. Call me "fat" and I'll put you in the hospital.
So if you tell a stripper who doesn't do anything extra - or one who is totally comfortable with herself and the extras she does - a "whore" and she'll just smile and make a snide comment. Call the stripper who fucks everyone she takes to the VIP, even those who were expecting just a dance - BUT hates herself for doing it - a "whore" and watch the sparks fly.
If surrendering myself to hot strippers on a regular basis and allowing them to have their way with me makes me a whore.......then I am the HAPPIEST damn whore that there ever was!
Is an "escort" who takes $500 for "her time" then takes you home for a night of hot sex a whore?
Is a stripper who chats with you for hours, then meets you after "work", sleeps with you, then accepts a gift to "help out with the rent" a whore?
Is a stripper who you buy 10 dances from then decides to generously give you a quick blow job in VIP a whore?
Is an attractive women with little income you meet, take out to dinner and a Broadway show spending $500 on then sleeps with you because she likes being treated like that and wants you to do it again a whore?
Is the hot girl who dates you for a year because you're successful and have a prestigious job, while you regularly wine her, dine her and pay to get her car repaired when she needs it, even though she's not all that attracted to you physically a whore?
Is your live in girlfriend who is an artist that makes no money, so you support her and who sleeps with you regularly a whore?
Is the women you meet in a good college who gets a worthless degree in Literature with no intent of ever working but is hunting for "Mr. Right", meets you and decides to marry you because you fit her profile of a success oriented provider with the right background, major and career goals a whore?
I bet it would be hard to get to people to agree where to draw the line. Sometimes the "whore" is just more honest, less expansive and maybe less savvy variation of a very common theme.