Comments by JohnBuford

Give it a try,I think you'll enjoy it.

Sutfshark, thanks man. I hope you have a good time. JB

Replying to Adjudicator,Wise Too: Good question as regards cover charge: I don't know, because one nice thing new management has done is waive cover the charge for veterans.

Sammy is solid. Smart,fun funny,nice body.

Sound advice.

Studies have shown that women have a stronger sense of smell than men,so this is sound advice.My first stop when entering a club is the men's room.Spray on a small amount of cologne and wash my hands.

I've only been to one and that was five years ago,but Baby Dolls was a lot of fun.

I know the girl you're speaking of.Trust me,she understands English way more than she let on. I did a 2 for $60 with her and literally when the song started she got completely nude and said to me "I'm horny as hell."

I've never liked them.

Rick, yes I sincerely believe I'd have a chance in "the real world."

She certainly has the body to be a former dancer and no, this isn't in Florida.

Papi,she wasn't interested initially. Now she is. I took/take that as a good sign.If this was/is only about the money, why hesitate ?

Hi again guys. Thanks to all of you for weighing in.I am 64 years old. Retired from the US Army. I run 10k road races and can still fit into my uniform. The waitress is 50 so the age/looks "disparity " gap isn't huge.

Papi...to use a football term... you're "piling on." I already " fell on my sword."

Jeesh...I feel like a wallflower compared to you guys. Quietly whispers "fifteen."

I do think it's important to do an " inventory" every hour or so. I'll count my money in the Men's room, but "flashing" isn't a bad idea.

Oh man...TUSCL is no place for the faint of heart. :) To listen to to you guys I f... this up early and it's beyond repair.Noted. My thanks to all of you for your time and thoughts. Should something miraculous happen I'll let you know, but for now put a toe tag on me and slide me into the cool container. :)

Rick, I don't feel " special", honestly I find her behavior odd. This is uncharted waters for me. I do best with directness,on/off,black/white. I have in fact asked her out twice. Once she said she was taking her daughter to the dentist and and another she said she was spending the afternoon with her daughter at a pool. Shrug. School will be back soon,so that reason/excuse will be gone.

Subraman,yep good point.Lone Wolf, I fully expect this to be P4P, but given her aversion to taking money from me (beyond stage tips)...who knows how that factors in ? So instead of outright cash, perhaps gifts ?

Thanks again guys. One thing I should have mentioned is that her English was SO limited for so long that absent using a English/Portuguese translation app, I don't know how I could have made my feelings known.

Thanks for the comments thus far guys,I appreciate them all. Papi,brilliant minds think alike because I literally thought " long con" as well, but we're six months in and no "pitch" thus far. I do agree with the sentiment that I need to move soon. I work in sales and a no/know today is better than a no/know tomorrow.

All good comments again guys. Thanks. And while I've been going to SC's for a long time I fear I fell into the " Starry-eyed rookie" this time. Update: I texted and asked why lunch OTC is different than lunch ITC. (Cue the crickets) So,there it is. I got played. Shrug.

Thanks for your insights. Much appreciated.

Nothing as intense as playoff hockey.Every shift of every game is life/death. It's a great time of year.

I fully understand the zeal with which people want to get rid of sex trafficking. But I can't help but feel it's like burning your house down to get rid of termites. Effective,but over-the-top. What % of sex workers are doing so against their will ?