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5 years ago
Google to the rescue- they are temporarily closed
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5 years ago
The Playhouse in Burlington has at least one dancer over 60 and several in their 40's and 50's. They are some of the more popular because of the quality of service and the steep discount they provide. Oddly, they have better bodies than some of the women half their age.
George and I in Newark has a few in their 50's. or did every time I went. I haven't been in many months.
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5 years ago
I suspect a troll. You forgot you created an account but you remembered you posted or are you saying creating a new account was easier than resetting your PW? Why are our trolls unable to keep the story straight?
For any non troll newbies,
whenever you feel like something isn't right or may be unsafe call it off. Do you owe her an explanation? no, you cancel on other service providers without explaining yourself.
explaining may help for future visits. You can say something as vague as "something doesn't feel right and I'm being overly cautious". " I checked the google reviews and that hotel is a shit hole, or too many reports of crimes or police activity"
it may end things with her but better that than getting mugged or arrested.
Tell her that she needs your approval if she expects you to pay. you will take care of everything but you control your money and how it is spent. this is important or you will find the mini bar empty and a huge room service bill. Maybe even a spa visit if you stay at a nicer hotel for a day or two.
I almost always arrive first. This provides the opportunity to be sure the room is clean and everything is working. It really sucks to find the drain in the hot tub won't close or the AC doesn't work. I unpack anything needed. Remembering the condoms are in the car can kill the mood if you have to stuff your hard on into your underwear, get dressed, wait for an elevator...
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5 years ago
"assume" was a poor choice of word. I should have used "pretend"
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5 years ago
wow, pictures of you in a bed naked. . you seriously need to work on your troll skills. Pictures of you naked in bed is nothing. At least make it pictures of you dressed like a donkey mounting a blow up sheep next to a mirror with lines of coke on it.
taking those pictures is illegal in most places. Sending them to others is illegal in even more. Blackmail is illegal everywhere.
Most people would have the sense to turn off the clicking sound on their cell phone camera. Only a moron would not think to ask to look at her recent pictures to be sure.
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5 years ago
what were your plans when your money ran out?
What is in the pictures that has you scared? You having sex with a woman? So what?
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5 years ago
yes, I know my previous post is not civil but seriously , if any of this is real, the guy needs a serious wakeup call
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5 years ago
I will assume this isn't a troll post but that requires me ignoring the previous posts form you.
1. You spent 300K on her? you are an idiot.
2. what are in these pictures that has you worried? You having sex with a woman? Why would your employer care? For some reason you let her take pictures. You are an idiot.
3. You come here asking for advice in your previous post and you ignored all the advice more experienced PL's gave you. You are an idiot.
4. You have a potentially serious legal issue and you come here asking advice instead of a lawyer or the police. You are an idiot.
my advice to you , assuming any of this is real is go to a lawyer. tell him everything. Follow his advice. I am sure his advice will include hiring a competent accountant to keep your money safe from you.
My advice to the troll is please come up with better stories. Make them believable .
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5 years ago
"whatever New Jersey city that has the GogoRama" - Laurence Harbor . Come during the summer and enjoy the jersey shore. I am sure NJballa, Cashman and some of the other locals would join me in welcoming you.
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5 years ago
"Do what you want, I’m telling you to have your fun don’t be such a drama queen is all." - I second this.
"Why can't you flip the script on a stripper for your own benefit, especially knowing their insecurities? All women are the same, no?"
You have a good thing going. Why fuck it up with playing games? What script are you flipping? Just go with what worked. Have a drink and a meal, take her to a hotel room, open a bottle of wine and fuck your brains out. Go your separate ways in the morning and enjoy your lives without any complications or drama. What more do you expect to get by flipping a script or playing on her insecurities?
All women are not the same. Strippers and all women are people. Do not play games.
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5 years ago
"as for one I learned long ago texting is a gigantic waste of time." - why? texts that do not convey information are a waste of time.
Texts should be on point if you are trying to set something up. " Are you available next Wednesday from 5 Pm for one of our hotel dates"
Other texts are fine as long as you do not flood her with them. I trade frequent check in texts with some of the ladies I see OTC. Some of them like it and some don't.
Send her a check in, how are you, the other night was a lot of fun, I look forward to the next time. Something like that and see how she responds.
BTW, in my experience most expect breakfast to be offered if they leave at that time of the morning or later.
building on twentyfive's and CJkent's comments, she is more likely to pick the guy she had fun with over the guy it was all business. IMO, this is one of the best differences between an escort and OTC with a dancer.
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5 years ago
"Not sure what this will lead to, if anything,"
others have touched on this. I will be as clear as I can. If you are thinking this way may lead to a real BF/GF relationship, stop seeing her. NOW.
12:30 military time is 12:30 PM. 8:30 PM is 20:30
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5 years ago
Being vague got you nothing. Being straight forward is about to get you laid. What to do? Go with a failed strategy or a successful strategy? What to do? I am drawing a blank.
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5 years ago
Njb
How does a stripper say good night?
"ill be back"
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5 years ago
Cash, you went beyond flaking and into SS territory
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5 years ago
Going to stop assuming and be direct,
At least half of the problems in this world would never happen if everyone did this every time.
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5 years ago
A stripper flaked on you and a club lied to get your money. This happens more often than not.
do not play games. She will win. She will not play by any rules and she doesn't care about anything but money. Yours will do as well as some other guy's and his as well as yours.
The period blood is not her doing. Do not confuse the situation by bringing it up. let her know you went when you said you would and she wasn't there. She lost out on good money. Ask her if she would like to meet up for a private session.
the money you are throwing at her in a single night could get you a threesome in a hot tub for a few hours.
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5 years ago
Cash, you are a local guy. NJBalla and I have your back. That's two. I am sure there are at least three other PL's on this site desperate enough to pretend to be our friends
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5 years ago
I think he was the first one I put on ignore. Everything I know of him is from everyone reacting to him. he would go away if enough people stop reacting to him.
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5 years ago
in the entire world or just in your undisclosed location?
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5 years ago
it looks like my previous reply did not post.
Dirty looks are common. Sometimes I get an approving head nod or thumbs up from another guy when he thinks no one else can see. in recent years the ladies will sometimes get asked if everything is OK when I go the rest room.
The only time someone came out and asked was the female bartender at a hotel we frequent. She ended up joining us. Later she started dancing and became someone's SB.
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5 years ago
"What is SnapChat’s take on text and photos of a sexual nature? ."
that is 90% of what is sent through snapchat.
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5 years ago
Snapchat is the preferred social media for the ladies i know. Private messages disappear after being read.
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5 years ago
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5 years ago
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