This Virus 🦠 has shut down all the clubs and fucking everything else in my area and probably yours too. We’re all bored so let’s do something cool and interview Nicespice. I had the chance to kick it with her a few times back when we were both in Texas. She is really cool, down to earth girl on top of being cute af. Very unique personality. I recommend y’all get out and see her at....errr anywhere at America at any given time. Ok true story she’s a gypsy, it is what it is. Resume includes a bunch of clubs now, most prominently probably the Palazio in Austin, where they have extremely high hiring standards. Ok y’all know her, she doesn’t even really need an introduction so let’s do this.
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You've been all over in the last year or so Missouri, Oregon, Colorado, Minnesota, and Florida. You've danced all over Texas. What did you think some of the best customers were in your travels behavior wise? What were some of the worst?
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What locality did you feel you made the best money in? And the least?
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Not club related, what's an area you've been too where you wanted to live there? And place that was oh hell no?
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How welcoming were some of the dancers in your travels? Any cat like drama to speak of?
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How long do you see yourself dancing for, even in just a part time capacity?
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Have you ever considered getting a sugar daddy? And what's your thoughts on that whole scene?
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Have you done cam stuff or thought about going that route?
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What can customer do that you like? Turns you on even? What can they do to completely turn you off, or you just downright hate?
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What are some crazy offers/requests from guys you've heard?
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Have you had a lot of girls as customers and what was that like for you? Most dancers I know do not like female customers actually.
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Most customers smell good or most customers smell bad?
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Local question, Austin vs. San Antonio? Go.
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Do you have any regrets as a dancer? Things you wish you didn't do, or opportunities you wish you hopped on?
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Would a promising SO make you leave dancing? Or would they have to just accept you sticking with it?
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What are some future destinations for you to dance at on your list?
Thanks for your time!
The best behaved customers were from Portland. They were very respectful and asked permission for touching (which I had no problems with allowing) despite there being no bouncer to monitor anything.
Dallas, St Louis, and Tampa would probably be the "easiest" money wise. But things are so seasonal, it's hard to tell.
Worst money areas for me personally was Daytona (during a time it was supposedly good. I had more luck with finding racing related customer from Tampa than I did there directly), Eugene OR, and Miami FL. To be fair for each area, I only tried one club. But I'm nonetheless not exactly itching to go back to any of those.
In general, I would prefer to have day-to-day living in either a big town or smaller city. Just big enough to have several kinds of amenities, but not so big as to feel congested. Though for dancing long-term, a larger city would also have to be strongly considered just for the ease of switching up clubs when I get bored with one. I feel like I blend in okay in most environments.
Generally, dancers have been pretty welcoming in my travels. I haven't faced much dancer drama. I generally keep to myself, but will occasionally chit chat with some every here and there. Most are nice and friendly. I remember one particular dancer was passing out chocolates on valentines day because her regular gave her a bunch. Another dancer offered me to do lines with her if I wished. There's another dancer whose phone number I don't have, but I have her as a friend on PokemonGo. You can't message on that app, but I send her gifts all the time and vice versa. I think it's just an issue of familiarity breeds contempt. The worst I faced was having shoes stolen once, but that's more theivery rather than "drama."
I would like to keep dancing--even if in limited capacity--for as long as my good looks remain. My mom's looks didn't fade and she was mistaken for being in her early-to-mid 20s until she was in her late 40s/early 50s however, so I probably have a while.
There have been a high value customer or two that could have been sugar daddy potential if I had wanted to go that route. I personally don't like the idea of sugaring however, because of the greater ambiguity involved. In a situation like that, I like to deal with customers in a way I consider fair and up-front. Others may consider that transactional, but that settles with me more easily.
This is territory I had better be careful on saying since it seems several on here are in happy arrangements, and it works well for them. But I feel like a lot of sugaring leaves more room for exploitation--from either party. Either men preying on women who don't want to feel like prostitutes...who push them into territories most FSSWs don't cross for safety reasons and shame them if they try to stick up for themselves. Or a woman who finds a really lonely and depressed guy, and takes advantage of the reduced thinking capacity that depression can cause for some serious benefit.
Some may feel like there's already the ambiguity as a stripper. And there is some, but sugaring is on a whole another level in my opinion. There's upsides of course, from men and women both who maybe like lower volume and dealing with more known quantities of another person. But it's just not for me.
I signed up for a cam site once, but never did anything with it. I have thought about going that route, but I'd have to be "settled" some place for a long enough time. I'd have to have my own place most likely, because I wouldn't want to disturb any roomates. And I'd be really finnicky with how my space was decorated and how much the room lighting flattered my skin, and the quality of camera equipment before I did something like that. Something that's not in the cards at the moment.
Overall, I really just like customers who are happy to be around me. The more they enjoy my presence, the more willing I am to please. The customers I don't like are the ones who I don't understand why they are there. For example, instead of enjoying what I have to offer (or give a polite "no thanks"), I'm constantly in a psychological battle with them because they are unhappy and want to bring me down in some way.
My most interesting offers were probably for gangbangs, lol.
Also. there was a customer a while back who wanted to buy underwear. I'd dance for a couple of songs, go change underwear in the dressing room, then go back out and sell him the underwear I just danced in. Then dance for him in the underwear I did have on, and repeat the process. I ended that shift with only one left and I had to go shopping.
In addition. one particular customer once, when I approached, blatantly told me "you are not my type, but my friend would LOVE you". This customer was a known high roller because he got the waitress to keep tabs on me, and when I came back to the club a week later, I was called to the front lobby of the club. Where the waitress asked my phone number and if it was okay to forward my phone number. And this random friend of the strip club customer sent me a photo of himself and the club customer at some hotel cabana and wanted me to join up. I opted not to. Then he messaged asking if I wanted steak or seafood. He wanted a face photo of me, but I didn't do that either. I ended up not following through with that but he blatantly said he was looking for a sugar baby and I said I've never had a sugar daddy. And he said standard was 3-6k a month. Apparently strip clubs wasn't the potential sugar daddy's thing, unlike the known high roller customer who the waitress loved. But just based off that club customer,the waitress was all gung ho on encouraging something just by association of the men. That was the first time I ever got a sugar daddy offer and I was in over my head. I copped out by claiming I had children to look after or something. I was a dork about it lmao.
Most positives with females are a weekend party shift and OOOO A POLE TRICK, GONNA THROW THIS MONEY WOOO. That's generally when they are most comfortable. There have been exceptions, but generally with females, up the WOO PARTY vibe. Try to convince men to buy dances so they can watch. But watch out for their body language because they may get uncomfortable.
But that's during a good case scenario. In a bad one, there's also those females who want to be bros with the guys there. Who want to make catty comments and put you or others down...I guess so she can lord over how she's superior to us hoes? Definitely the types who have a stick up their butt and something to prove as well.
Most customers smell either good or neutral imo. But idk I'm not overly picky about scents.
In general, San Antonio is more relaxed and not the same all-or-nothing type of more cutthroat hustle as Austin. And not as good as far as hitting higher numbers, but it's also more consistent imo. Maybe it's just because I feel more comfortable. But next time I'm in Austin, I did want to try out for Red Rose and maaaaybe Foxy's. Maybe one of those clubs would have the same more low stress vibe without the dumb pasties.
I wish I travel danced sooner. As far as regrets, yes there's probably things I could have done here and there for better money when the opportunity was there. And there's been those occasional customers I really should have just bailed immediately on. But cie la vie, and nothing I'd consider life changing regrets. I just view it as the inevitable learning curve.
There was a point in time I was going to quit for a boyfriend, and it didn't happen. :P At this point, I wouldn't want to put myself in a position where I have to deal with that looming elephant in the room ever again. Or be the empathizing listener for regular day-to-day frustrations but I can't do the same because "oh, well then you should just quit."
I wanted to try out Chicago, Des Moines, NYC, Philadelphia, Charlotte, West Palm Beach, Fort Myers, Sarasota, Clearwater, Huntsville AL (maybe?), Phoenix, Colorado Springs, Boulder (more for the fun of Boulder than anticipating money, which doesn't have a very good reputation), Hartford (maaaybe....I hear mixed things but that Mynx club seems pretty cool), Atlanta (expensive licensing tho :/ ), Salina KS, Lawrence KS, New Orleans, Boston, Lansing and Saginaw MI, some more remote parts of Minnesota like Duluth and St Cloud, random Nebraska spots like Omaha, Lincoln, maybe Waverly?, Vegas, whatever New Jersey city that has the GogoRama, Albuquerque, Astoria OR, Myrtle Beach, Fargo ND, a couple of south Dakota spots, Nashville, El Paso, Corpus Christi TX, Lubbock TX, Salt Lake City, I'd consider WV because of its proximity to DC and all the Smithsonians, maybe some random places more on the west side of WI??
Yeah it's a huge list. And those are just for unknowns, not for places I've liked and would happily return to.