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20 years ago
I feel less inclined to call someone who lives far away. When a dancer suggests the possibility of staying with me for a few days or so, well I didn't know what to think of that. Having someone visit is one thing but if you start wondering if someone wants to move in with you, would you allow it? I guess if the sex was good you might say yes. On the other hand, would you guys allow a stripper who you hardly know to stay at your house for awhile? I'm just curious.
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20 years ago
I believe for some women, everyone else is considered a PL unless they got something that she wants. Of course there are other words for women who complain, gripe, etc. all the time about everyone and everything.
I believe Loser is a more common term.
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20 years ago
I will assume you're referring to PP in Greenville. Someone else might know but I wouldn't know even if they sat down in my lap. I've seen so many dancers I don't remember hardly anyone's name anymore.
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20 years ago
I thought of one more neglected reason. The dancer believes the guy she might be interested in is not interested in her. Several of the dancers I've seen working in strip clubs lately don't look as good as many of the girls I've seen around town where I live at.
Looking at things from the other shoe, if a dancer already had the looks she would probably already have as many boyfriends as she can stand maybe as many as 9 or 10. If hundreds of guys came by in the club every week and 10 percent asked her out, then let's see .10*400= 40 guys per week asking her out when she already has 10 boyfriends. This would be even more frustating than the "do you want a dance routine?" us guys hear in some clubs every 5 minutes. and if I'm off on the 10% number and as many as say 40% of the guys ask her out, then that would be 160 guys per week asking.
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20 years ago
Well I see the club has been downgraded already. I certainly didn't think it was the best club in the US but it's nice for the local area folks.
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15 years ago
Oh, best way I've found to negotiate at Platinum Plus Columbia where I don't always visit so much. I tell the dancers after they ask for a dance that I'm waiting for their two for one special they do every hour. If the dancers immediately come back with an acceptable price and they can do it right away, I may take them up on that. If not, I don't need dances right away. I'll get asked a gazillion times anyway and if no one comes down in price, I'll just enjoy the view. The same dancers do come back. If they don't then good for them.
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20 years ago
I remember another series of strange comments I heard a dancer start telling me after I agreed to get a dance from her and we were waiting for something. Instead of casual conversation she was telling me she had 3 kids, ages 3, 5, and 7 or something along those lines. Then she went on and on. I found out she was a relatively new dancer which explained to me alot. Most dancers don't tell me all about their personal life when I meet them for the first time.
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20 years ago
Thanks Toplessdancer, I never thought that my teeth could be sexy. I have also noticed that sharp eye teeth on females looks sexy but I wonder if that would also be a bit dangerous if one were into getting extras. I suppose the comment about teeth stands out for me because I've only heard one dancer ever compliment me on my teeth in a club before.
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20 years ago
I'll add a few other comments about different clubs in some other states I've been to. I noticed that in some clubs it is against club rules for the dancer to exchange phone numbers or start dating customers. I know of one club that had this rule and a dancer told me she could get fired for that. That particular club only had air dances but often had lots of golfers and all dancers were in the 9 to 10 range in looks.
Another club that I remember (closed years ago) had many of the dancers arranging what the dancers called private parties. The dancer when asked to be seen outside would sometimes agree to pick up some side cash by arranging to do private dances outside the club for a fee. At least I overheard some dancers discussing this one time. I've heard that a private party isn't really much better than getting a regular lap dance. I sometimes thought that dancers were taking alot of risk seeing guys outside the club but one dancer told me she had a black belt and could handle herself quite well.
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20 years ago
I'm not crazy about security cameras. I could already be a star and not even know it.
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20 years ago
Golfer is just someone who plays golf alot or is playing golf on a vacation or business trip. In some southern locations, golfers comprise most of the crowd on occasion. There are company sponsored golf tournaments and individuals playing with their friends. A club near Pinehurst, NC or near Myrtle Beach may be crowded with golfers on occasion. There are alot of golf courses and people playing golf in these areas who might want some night time entertainment while on vacation.
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20 years ago
So many lies, it hard to pick just one. I remember one good one. I once told a dancer who I routinely got dances from every month that I was moving out of state. She told me that she's in love with me.
I was wondering if she might be telling the truth since I had been over to her house a few times but thought it more likely to be just another line.
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20 years ago
Something made me remember a really good way to confuse a guy which happened to me one time. A girl I don't know from High School called. She told me right away that she was a lesbian. Then she said that she liked me and wanted to go out with me and maybe meet at a pizza place. When a girl tells you she's lesbian but wants to go out with a guy that is just confusing. Since this happened to me, I never know what dancers may be thinking up even if they tell me they are lesbian.
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20 years ago
I should add that when I hear a girl say she is lesbian, then I usually assume that she has no interest in going out with guys unless of course she is lying about the lesbian part.
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20 years ago
Yep, she tried to squeeze as much out of me as possible I believe.
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20 years ago
Thanks for sharing Toplessdancer. I noticed you said women were crazy. I am curious what you meant by that. I know I used to be called crazy by a number of dancers after I started talking to them. I'm probably a bit less wild now and haven't been called crazy for some time now. Actually I may be able to give you an example of one slightly crazy dancer I talked to at a club recently. She asked if I was an alien. I was thinking she was crazy, then I asked her why she asked me that. She didn't give me an answer though. She also had a strange habit of grabbing my hand and putting it between her legs then closing her legs. I started to believe that maybe she was drunk.
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15 years ago
The only reason I buy lots of dances at Platinum Plus clubs is that I think the dance prices are an acceptable value if I like the dancer. The simple way to negotiate is to just say no, or no thanks, or not right now. Many people already do this and didn't think they were negotiating at other clubs.
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15 years ago
Most dancers I do try to get rid of with my no, no thanks, maybe later responses. They may couner with a lower offer but I'm really just trying to politely get rid of them so I didn't consider that to be a negotiation. It's when I ask how much they charge for dances that I'm interested in the dancer. Then if I say something like I usually get two for $30, I consider that to be more negotiation because in about 99 percent of the other cases, I won't be buying dances because I'm not interested.
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15 years ago
It only takes a few seconds longer for me to ask or negotiate than it does for a dancer to say "wanna dance?" At the stage I once tipped a dancer a cheeto stick. She asked for that instead of a dollar, at least two years ago when the economy was better. She even came back for another tip (another cheeto) when I offered another. I could afford to stage tip all night at that rate. I might have to tip the bathroom attendent a dollar to get another bag of cheetos.
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15 years ago
One more post I just thought of. I said its the dancer doing the negotiation when Im trying to get rid of them. (Darn software wont let me use apostrophes now all of a sudden). One dancer was so persistent in trying to get dances from me that eventually after saying no, maybe later or whatever else I could think of, she finally said she would dance for free. No charge at all. I still said no, I was not interested in her. I thought that was it but no. Then she said she wanted to take me home with her. She finally gave up when I said no thanks to that. That was not a negotiation.
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20 years ago
$30 million? I'd like to hear the story on that one. Seems like someone could work out an advance loan to get by until they got the $30 million.
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20 years ago
I'm not hearing any hardluck stories except when I watch the evening news. Of course I haven't been to any clubs in the last couple of weeks either.
Here is some of the hard luck I read/heard on the news (CNN news) 1 in every 5 people has at least $5,000 in credit card debt. 1 in every 10 people has at least $10,000 in credit card debt. Any strippers out there with credit cards? Probably only strippers with second jobs or married.
If you're optimistic you can hear a silver lining in the middle of bad news. There was a massive 70 car pile up on a major highway in Pennsylvania in white out conditions and traffic was backed up for 20 miles. However there were no fatalities and I believe I heard no serious injuries (a silver lining). Just wanted to spread some holiday cheer.
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20 years ago
Thanks for sharing again Sara, you must suffer from that same visual impairment the rest of us guys suffer from. When a hot girl with two nice ta ta's show up, your IQ suddenly drops. I heard someone actually did a study on that. Apparently any intense visual stimulation will cause most guys IQ to drop or cause irrational action. A hot looking car can do it too unless my memory is fuzzy again.
I didn't really think the girl who asked if I was an alien was really crazy but probably a bit drunk. If I see her again though, I will ask her if she thinks I look like an alien, then again if she's not the one who asked me, she'll think I am crazy.
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20 years ago
I believe that one shadowcat. If a customer has money, then he likely has some common sense. When I hear some strippers lying to me, it turns me off of them pretty fast. I'd rather hear some casual conversation about current events or something similiar. I don't see a need to make up stories unless the dancer knows a certain guy who likes that.
I don't see any problem though with strippers lying to get rid of annoying customers. I may lie sometimes to get rid of annoying dancers who don't want to leave. A long time ago, a crazy or probably drunk girl in a regular bar finally made me lie to her, she kept insisting for some odd reason that I must be married. I kept telling her No. Finally after a few minutes just to get rid of her I said yes.
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20 years ago
I can share something one dancer told me one time I was wondering if it was a lie or maybe the truth. I got a dance or two from a dancer. She actually sat down and started chatting with me afterwards. I believe she sighed a little and told me a story about how she was behind in her rent and the landlord was going to evict her tommorrow if she didn't have the money. I asked her how much she was behind (I was curious now.) I forget the exact amount but she said something like $400 ( this was years ago). Then she said it doesn't look like there's going to be enough money in the club tonight (club wasn't crowded at all). Was she telling a story?
I'm thinking maybe it was true because I don't recall her asking for another dance from me and she looked a bit depressed when she mentioned her story. What do you think?