Which do you prefer: Dancer approaches you or you approach dancer?
reignfire
South Carolina
Monday, July 14, 2008 5:32 AM
I have to admit I prefer dancers approaching me for dances. Back in the day, it wasn't an issue; it was expected for dancers to approach guys for dances. Now it seems that you almost have to hunt down certain dancers (usually the more attractive ones) just to get their attention. Even then, it's troublesome to me to then ask then to get a dance because I'm just not used to it. If I want to see a dancer, it should be assumed that I want to get dances from her.
I had a dancer who pursued me for a while and I got dances from her but about a month later, the tables turned. All of a sudden, I had to approach her in order to get dances. She could stand by herself at one end of the bar and I could stand all by myself and the other end and she wouldn't approach me. I had one dancer who, while off-shift, told me that she has never asked a customer for a dance and she had been dancing for a long time. I don't think she was bragging per se, but it just struck me as somewhat arrogant, seeing how stripping was her job and her only source of income.
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